Finding Playmates
Clubs, parties, conventions or online, where are all the swingers
Why is the BDSM kink crowd more relaxed?
I went to my first BDSM munch that I found on Fetlife. Unlike swingers, there isn't any requirements to attend. Swingers will not even talk to you until they make sure your profil…
by Ymichael1416replies825viewsLost contact with Spring Couple
A few years back we met a couple from Spring. They used to have house parties at least once a month. We would go to their parties and also became good friends and went to ballgame…
by HouTexCpl1replies820viewsI can admit I was wrong
Everybody here kept telling me to just shut up and go to a party/club and talk to people. Don't waste your time searching online profiles. But I wouldn't listen. I finally took yo…
by Ymichael149replies783viewsMiles
Has anyone else noticed that the miles away and actual distance is WAY off? I've learned to adapt the site's figure to the actual figure and move on, haha. It's sorta funny to see…
by AzDubs5replies779viewsSmall town partake
Who's down to hang out and see what happens, females or couples only no mm
0replies777viewsTribbing match
looking to have a tribbing match you against my wife.... any ladies interested?
2replies772viewsVirginia Clubs
Maybe I'm not seeing it, but I've never seen a club event in Virginia, ever. I've seen events, parties at houses, hotels, camp grounds... I've looked in VA beach, Richmond, Roanok…
2replies749viewsLOCATION
Don’t know about advice but we’re In the same situation and we live on an island. Here everyone knows everyone and also we would be shunned if they knew. But we keep trying to mee…
by Onelyph3replies745viewsStarting a group
Would starting a group for newbies be a good idea? I'm thinking meet and greets for people who are not comfortable around people at meet and greets because they feel intimidated o…
by Ymichael142replies745viewsFinding other couples at events?
We just recently started going to different motorcycle rallies and bike nights, and were curious if anyone else has had any luck finding other lifestyle couples at these type even…
3replies737viewsGeneral tips for finding potential playmates
Thought this may be helpful as there are a couple things I do that I haven't really noticed being mentioned. Should be common sense, but.... I will look at couples that RSVP to lo…
by mayhem80replies736viewsSingle male looking for hotwife
Hello I'm a single male looking to have some good clean adult fun(: I'm from Pennsylvania Harrisburg reading area. I'm gentleman and respect what people want and am here to please…
1replies734viewsMen shave or beard ?
I have for years shaved my face but recently have decided to grow out my beard at least for a while. I want see how I look with a beard. I see many men will shave, while many will…
by MNJFLA4replies733viewsWilliamsburg Couples Weekend
We are looking to use some resort points and thought why not turn this into a fun, sexy adventure by adding two more couples to join us totalling 6 people (3 men, 3 women) to spen…
0replies730viewsLooking for bi female in the poconos
51 yo mom of 3 looking for a bi horny like me female to build a relationship in and out of my bed!
0replies728viewsLooking for submissive wife
Looking for submissive wife that will be open to all sexual adventures
by Andynaugty3replies701viewsAny couples in rochester looking for a male third?
Like the title says, i am a young and hung third in good shape looking for a couple to join. I am in good shape and am completely into the lifestyle yet cant find anyone intereste…
by fitgummybear6replies699viewsLocal FWB'S please ??
We are in Howell MI and are looking for another couple (or more) for adult fun. Or a female for a 3sum. I Cain am available to women and couples by myself If you want that of cour…
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are Hot Springs a good place to meet other couples and singles who are interested?
Hi All, We've been to a couple hot springs in the Mountain West and have run across people who are very friendly. In hindsight we are wondering if these places are LS hook-up site…
1replies693viewsDFW playmates
Looking for personals, contacts, websites, and others interested in the swing, bi, gay, and kink arenas. Enjoy meeting over coffee with others into or new to the Lifestyles
by BiPilot71replies691viewsHelp
I'm all signed up and paid for the Bliss cruise out of Fort Lauderdale in April but my girlfriend and i just broke up so I'm trying to find someone who might like to join me.
by Lenkat0replies687viewsAny Couples From MA We New To This
Hi everyone just looking for some cool couples to be friends in and out of the bedroom. Me & my gf Kate are new to this. looking forward to chatting with you all.
by Metalfan19874replies681viewsSIGNS AND SYMBOLS
Nothing.. we dont use symbols, flamingos, pineapples.. we seek out people we enjoy on SLS, events, parties or at a vanilla bar and take them home.. That simple ! Its called for "u…
by RonKathy0replies679views- 0replies678views
randmintn2019
Looking for a pretty, nice woman to play with my awesome man. I have changed our profile to include single ladies. I hope this helps.
0replies673viewsBBC in Los Angeles
Is there anyone that's looking for a BBC? I'm new to the lifestyle and I really have been wanting to get my first threesome off my bucket list and I haven't had any luck so far un…
by Bbcstud4u20replies667viewsCovid Shots
Has anyone gotten them yet? Do you feel safe to play? How do you let others know you have them and are safe to play? Is anyone playing not that held off as a result of covid?
by MNJFLA3replies666views- 4replies663views
Couple seeking couple - come get away with us
We've been trying for months now to find a couple that would like to meet over dinner and maybe some drinks and have had no luck. We have our thoughts as to why and understand tha…
by Hungie0replies661viewsHalloween Party
Has anyone attended the Halloween party at either Airport Video or the one at the Riverside Club? We are looking to attend one and would like recommendations. Is anyone planning o…
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Why is the communication on here so terrible?
We are fairly new as paid members. We know we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea. It seems like no one bothers to put effort into their paid profiles. It’s just a lot of one sentence pe…
by Ozone869replies649views- 2replies645views
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NYC Open Minded For Watching F/F
Hi I am Suuuper into women & BBC, but would be open to F/F with healthy safe sane consensual couples. Submissive Females Preferred. :) Say Hello ;)
by EroticPoet1replies629viewsMutual Attraction
WELCOME.....Never , ever take one for the team! Swingers well over 30 years and each year we continue to refine what we each like and enjoy.. this includes 3 sums, classy, sensual…
by RonKathy4replies623viewsAtlantic City
Any F or couples want to play n AC? Male has hallpass and can host at beautiful oceanfront condo.
by azmaturecpl2replies623viewsInteresting sharing arrangements
We always try to lead by example by being inclusive when it comes to our LS friends, and it's great when they reciprocate. A new and fun situation recently is that a close LS frie…
by mayhem81replies608viewsColorado man looking for playmate
HI I am fit and available for any women who are interested in lunch time fun.
by kram110replies608viewsMost Active LS Communities/Best Places To Live
Hi All! Would love to hear from others who may have some insights to share from experience. I’m seeking recommendations for locales where there is an active LS scene, plus, a dece…
by CDSunnyGurl1replies605viewsBisexual woman looking for couple in Nashville TN
I need to be fucked good and hard. It’s been too long! Send me a friend request! Always down for meeting new friends too. It’s lonely in a new area.
by Spookybeach0replies605viewsDinner and drinks in Evansville?
We are heading out for dinner and drinks tonight...any unicorns or bi female couples interested in meeting up?
by Swirl5100replies594viewsNeeding Yankton playmate
It amazes me at how many just want to look and read profiles. I’m n the area for a few months...in need of a hard dick. No strings attached. I just want a fuck buddy. Why is that…
by Texasmedic572replies586viewsBoston Weekend
We will be in town this weekend Saturday the 20th and looking to find another couple to play with before we close the night. Looking for earlier in the night.
0replies584viewsWhy the difference?
Hi all, we just got back from 10 days at a resort in Mexico. We had a great time at our favorite naked, LS-friendly place in the sun. Everyone was very friendly and it was good to…
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We have encountered Flakes and Been Ghosted but this is new
In our search for new play partners, we've met all kinds of wonderful people -- sometimes we even make arrangements for second dates! Sometimes, people flake out on us -- they nev…
by sjbluebirds5replies565viewsISO Female Babygirl/Sub w/potential LTR
I am a 57 year old DD free man, who is in search of an ongoing FWB and/or D/S situation. I am looking for it to potentially turn into a Long Term Relationship with the right lady.…
by RJSOUDEN1replies564viewsNorthern minnesota bi guy looking to connect
Looking for singles or couples to connect with in the northbranch to hinkley area, can travel.
by Kinkufun11380replies564views
