3some

What a classy move, Ron.

Out of respect for the OP's original question, I'll take care of you over in the proper place.

By the way "Dood" ! Its Kathy and I can fend for myself. Those who haven't done 3sums , men and women, but talk like they have well you are missing out . Its not worth talking with guys who think they are swingers , so Bye Tramp and Co. ! Yes we always delete most of our posts its what we do together as most are read by the Op and we move on.

Ron, if you have something you want to get off of you chest with me, by all means just step out of your closet and say so.

I personally couldn't care less how much you care or don't care for what I post...but that's just me, dood.

In the end, you don't leave your posts up long enough for any of us to know what it is that you've said earlier, but that's just you.

(I understand that comment will garner another 007 explanation)

In case your taking notes, this is the way you address an issue you have with another poster. Just be up front, call them by name, and state your point of contention.

Then let it go as opposed to pouting and trying every way you can think of to call that person a fake simply because you've found a dislike for them but aren't mature enough to address it without using veiled insults.

And for the sake of full disclosure, that last paragraph was meant exclusively for you as well.

I have never successfully connected with a couple met online. It's not impossible that I will eventually, but not so far.

I'm trying to find a polite way to say this, but they're going to close the plane doors. FMFs, while fun, aren't the best option for taking care of my needs. So, clubs give me a chance to have later opportunities. And meet and greets give me hours to evaluate whether I'm sufficiently attracted to the woman that I won't need a later opportunity.

So, that's my take.

Since this thread is about how to find a woman for a 3some, it would be helpful to hear from a woman or couple who has been consistently successful in making that connection. More particularly, how do they generally go about doing that.

Lady and I don't have a dog in this hunt as we've never looked for 3somes, male or female.

However, I would imagine that finding a bi female to join a couple would be more successful in person at clubs, resorts, etc. as opposed to searching online profiles.

It'd be nice to hear from the females here about that.

We are looking for that elusive 3 or moresome. Our luck, so far, is with couples who list the female as 'Bi'. Lots of talking and meet-n-greets.

A male around is not a problem. Im just trying to help fulfill his fantasies and I would like for him to experience it with 2 different females without me and than one with me as well.... FMF MFMF SWAP any . Male can be present either or .

Looking for pretty ladies and BBW's for a FMF for my fiance (bbc), and to have him explore as it is one of his fantasie(s). I can be present or not. Hit us with some replies or where I can find them :)

“They don't want another man present even if it's just to watch. ”

If your man has an issue with another man being present, then he would surely have issues giving you that long deserved MFM.

All these couples looking for a female unsuccessfully should all hook up and pull that splinter out of their big toes.

~Allen

Omg tell me about it! I'm in the same boat. What makes it difficult is the men lol. They don't want another man present even if it's just to watch. Guess that's why they call them unicorns ??

We look for a year still hadn’t found one we love to play with a woman

It can be difficult, but they're out there. We've had good luck just chatting up non-lifestyle single females. I'm guessing a couple is probably "safer" in a way than hooking up with single guys from a bar or club.

Finding a SF, especially one that is real, sane or doesn't have a male that she'll tell you about later, is very difficult. They're called unicorns for a reason. Those that are real are in the drivers seat, as they can be as selective as they want.

We never would of thought that finding a female for a 3some would be hard. Not looking for a life long commitment just a few hours of fun time.

Single guys are no problem in finding as there is plenty to choose from.

Just venting ??