I have questions. I’m genuinely curious so please don’t take this as criticism (how could I possibly be critical of someone who is a fan of Wray&Nephew with ice cream).
To me it sounds like you are not looking for a fwb, it sounds like you are looking for boyfriend material. What role does your current boyfriend play in your life? Is he just not available to do all the boyfriend type things you want to do?
What I'm looking for in a FWB is someone who respects both my boyfriend and me.(but only meets with me) Ideally, you’re available at least once a week—not just for sex, but also for regular, fun activities like movies, mini golf, bowling, and so on. Most importantly, I’m looking for something drama-free, with someone who shows genuine interest by checking in from time to time. It doesn’t have to be every day, but consistent communication matters. I’m not just about the physical—what really turns me on is good conversation and real connection.
