Swinging Single
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Hello all, Since I am a single swinger I can tell you that we have out good days and bad days. Sometimes I get plenty of invites, but them there are times that I do not. I don't p…
by nativesf4replies712viewsBBC bull or Romantic fool ?
I have been in the SLS lifestyle for approx. 1 year. My time here with SLS has been in my opinion Exceptional !! I have met some really Fun, educated, and Sexxy people (singles &…
by Zulu0082replies774viewsConfused in Pittsburgh
I have known this utterly gorgeous woman for about two years. She is married, and in the lifestyle. Both her and her husband are active in the lifestyle, attend local clubs, and a…
10replies1,089viewsRestrictions on singles play at parties
Is it a common rule that singles are only allowed to play with couples at parties/clubs?
43replies3,090viewsSingle male looking for advice
Hi. Please go read a dozen or so threads in Better Profiles. You can make your own post if you want, but if you're good at following advice you can probably get what you need from…
1replies844viewsPersistence is a virtue, to some of us
Without hijacking another's thread; a thought occurred to me while reading a response. In the thread: "What is the trick to talk to people when you're a single male?", and a respo…
19replies2,177viewsSingle male asking ladies
So as a single male that is truly looking for a female life partner. I constantly see single woman profiles saying looking for nothing serious. Kind of confused as to why a woman…
by big1890220replies3,148viewsLooking for a girlfriend in the lifestyle
Ok, I didn't see a personals section and that may be because it's prohibited, but here goes. I'm a nice, kind, GIB guy, who always puts the ladies first. I'm retired comfortably w…
10replies1,907viewsLooking for a fun, hot girl to join us for his birthday
It’s his birthday and we have a beach side room in Cocoa Beach this Saturday night. We always find a male to join for me and now I want to find a great female to join us for his b…
4replies795viewsWhat is the trick to getting to talk to people when you're single male
I live in in East Texas and most of the women on here are either fake or lie about their size or don't put a current picture then there are those who are totally honest but those…
by bigthor0536replies7,927viewsGangbang group
Took the first step and emailed some of the SMs that we already know and like, and it wound up being 14 SMs. These are just the ones I already had email addresses for, but there a…
by mayhem821replies3,083viewsHow to date in a vanilla world ?
So I may have a unique situation in the future. (Maybe?) Before I was divorced I was involved in the lifestyle. Been out of the game for a while and now I am back as a single male…
15replies3,268viewsWhat are the best ways to find a serious female partner?
Let me start by stating that I am a successful male in the Lifestyle. I've met, had amazing sex and befriended multitudes of couples in all the years I've been playing. The one th…
by MrTrainer15replies2,044viewsWife stopped being a swinger
So my wife and I are poly and she found a long term BF and has stopped wanting to be in the lifestyle. This has had the effect of making me a single male swinger and I have no ide…
12replies3,388viewsHoliday Weekend
I am hoping with it being a holiday weekend most people will be off today and Monday and be online looking.
5replies612viewsJovencito 18 anos pa parejas y cornudos
Quiero encontrar parejas de mente abierta que quieren tener un swinger jovencito de 18 años Pa jugar y divertirse con, me encanta todas la Parejas Latina, tengo mi experiencia con…
0replies451viewsMy first time as a bull with a couple.
So I meet this younger couple on here. Chatted with the Mr. He's really cool. Exchanged pics, she approved. So I get a message that they want to play. I was thinking a weekend, ge…
by 8ayou8illy0replies974viewsBad experiences .
Hey I got a question for the single guys and ladies. How do you handle a very bad experience? Usually I just let it roll off my back but this husband was extremely rude and mean.…
by georgia9999136replies5,026viewsManners and respect
I felt I had to comment on this as often I read or hear about men that are crass, rude or presumptive. Single males are a dime a dozen and an attractive single woman or a couple h…
by Hotwithyou1replies827views[LOCKED]Why aren’t single men allowed at parties?
We have been going to parties both house & hotel & are just wondering why single women are allowed but not single men? I think this is a great place to meet one & be able to do MF…
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Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
I get that much of this lifestyle revolves around SEX. . . I mean, without the sexual aspect, it's just going out with friends. While I love sex as much as the next guy (or gal),…
227replies34,777viewssingle male versus single female
I read the certainly justifiable complaints of single males and the bad rap they get. However, being a unicorn and trying to find a suitable date is difficult too. I swung as 'bi'…
by yeaokay19replies2,661viewsHot Date BS
How about a couple posted a hot date looking for a single male, but that couple had single males blocked.
3replies1,042viewsfirst singer's party as a single male
I'm going to my first party in the next couple weeks as a single male on the younger side. I wanted to see if anyone had Any advice. I am respectful and outgoing but I'm going to…
by MrSaturn014replies2,525viewsNo place for single men
I have been in the lifestyle since 2011. Back then I was 21 and living in Florida. I was shocked by the lifestyle and how much crazy mind blowing actions that go on in it. As a si…
22replies3,570viewspenalizing single men!!!
First off, we go to a LOT of LS parties and I've never even heard of, much less witnessed the prostitute scenario. I suppose anything is possible, like getting struck by lightning…
by mayhem820replies3,119viewsNot New topic but looking for feedback on profile
Good morning fellow travellers From time to time I think it is a good idea to see why (other than being a straight single male on a couples dominated site) I am not getting as muc…
5replies952viewsGuys listed as straight or couple but unattached and bi?
Your observation is mostly correct. The wife has no idea that her vacation or intimate photos have been put online and are part of a profile. Sadly they were here during the Craig…
by HollyBlue11replies1,997viewsSingle Male profile review
Hello , I am a single male and I would like some reviews on my profile. I feel I’m very respectful and read other profiles completely before sending message, but then I get no res…
by Alp6249replies1,914viewsSafety first
I started talking to someone who’s pretty big in the lifestyle. After few days of talking, we started sharing stories and pictures. Then we decided to meet. It was supposed to be…
1replies939viewsBliss cruise april 2019
I have a fully paid cabin for the April cruise out of Fort Lauderdale but my girl has decided not to go. Need a woman to join me since guys can't travel solo..help!
by Lenkat0replies829viewsNo place for single men
I have been in the lifestyle since 2011. Back then I was 21 and living in Florida. I was shocked by the lifestyle and how much crazy mind blowing actions that go on in it. As a si…
2replies924viewsStories of those who have crossed over from nillaworld.
I read the single swingers looking thread Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing) and read all of it. The advice ranges from keep looking to find a partner from th…
by H_lustlover5replies1,354viewsTJs in PA as a single male
I’m headed to TJs for Sexy undies Night as a single male. Will I be accepted? Talked to? The only one? I’m new to this. What kind of experience could I expect?
by Boofagle3replies1,003viewsProfile Critics
Let me know what you think? Blunt is better.... I plan to add to it but not sure what I need to add. Thanks for playing
by Bmxrydr41303replies858viewsProfile help
How can I make a more appealing profile without it becoming a novel!! LOL! Any suggestions surely appreciated.
by Ramptor2replies658viewsGentleman seeking older women and older couple in Vegas
Older soul in a younger body here and I am interested in a woman or couple at least in their 50s for fun. Would rather prefer something regular but am open to possibilities. Anyon…
by Richard36LV0replies785viewsPlaymate
Hello, I’m interested in continuing the swinger lifestyle, going from couple to single male has def presented challenges for attending events and meeting people in the lifestyle!…
by JmdAsh2replies1,202viewsIs There an Assumption
I just have a simple question for anyone who cares to answer it: When you see a single guy on SLS, is there an assumption that he has real trouble getting laid in ordinary life, a…
by Nafester24317replies1,985viewsInfo on clubs, parties MG's for a single gentleman
Good day! I have been trying to get info on the above mentioned for a single respectful mature SANE gentleman. Have not had much luck. I am on business from May 16-18 and staying…
by Eastmark693replies1,062viewsEthiopian or Habesha
Are there any Ethiopian/Habesha swinging? Single women or attached? I'm very interested.
by ltapia8518replies1,716viewsReconnecting with couples
How does a single male reconnect with a couple that are both on board for meeting up again after playing at a party, when their profile is closed two single males? At first I thou…
by AlanCapps7627replies1,019viewsSingle male here, would like some profile critiquing !
Hi Everyone ! Thanks for stopping by this post, and if you have time to do so, checking out my profile and sharing your thoughts on it ! Steve.
by WildrMonkey3replies1,361views