Help With Profile

Not that I think it will make a huge difference, but a lot of the text you have is in the wrong sections. For example, you pretty much had nothing useful in Fantasies/Experience but under your Description section the following would have fit better in Fantasies/Experience -

"Male has had a few encounters an enjoyed them. Wife is wanting see what the lifestyle is about. She stays horney all the time. She has a lot of ideas but never tried them. Eagar to be apart of the lifestyle."

Perhaps add a little detail around the ideas the Mrs has, in general terms. For example, "She would love to experience MFM." Not saying she would, but that's an example of identifying a fantasy in general terms.

Never hurts to fix typos. In the above quoted line, "...encounters an enjoyed them." should be "encounters and enjoyed them". A small thing, but why not fix things like that? There are some other similar typos as well.

For people to actually engage you online, it's easier if you had some hobbies listed. Perhaps you like playing cards, or bowling or whatever. It gives people an opportunty to see what you're like and perhaps say, "Hey, we enjoy blah too. Have you ever tried blah-blah?". It's just something to get online conversations started. That kind of info should go in the Description section while, "We would love to meet older couples." is maybe how you start off the Looking For section.

After defining "who" you are looking for, it's also a good idea to say a little about "what" you'd like to do with them. Perhaps you want to try soft swap, or maybe just go right for same room, full swap play, but something about "what" you're looking to do (again, in general terms) would be helpful.

As for pictures, both the choice of clothes and the positions/angles could be better. For example, if your belly is not something you want to emphasize, you probably don't want tight fitting clothes, and gray camo is not the greatest choice of pattern. Not saying that your listed weights are inaccurate, but the pictures you took make you both look a lot heavier than your posted weights. This is probably the single biggest thing hurting you right now.

Also, not sure if you meant to say, "Want Drinkers/Want Smokers", but last I knew, making a profile change of any kind was setting those to be the defaults. Just change those specifically if that's not what you want, and no worries if it is as you want. As someone else said, just be yourselves, but it never hurts to try to portray the best possible versions of yourselves.

Hi David and Sandra, a couple of helpful suggestions for meeting more are;

• Go to live events, due to COVID-19 that will be challenging now.
• Post pics of both of you (unfortunately as a single male, I am unable to see your profile)
• Limit the restriction until you have established a sizable network.

Hope you find these suggestions helpful.

Hi. Welcome to the cage match. This can really be uncomfortable. You put yourself out there and then people criticize your work. I promise though that the advice, however bluntly phrased, is well meant and the end goal is to help you find what you're looking for. It really is about your profile though, not about your worth as people.

So, having said that, I'm going to walk you through where I think you've gone astray and offer suggestions for improvement.

To start, I mostly hate your photos. Unlike Velma, I don't care if you wrap the Confederate flag on every flat surface (you do you, whatever that might be, and you will find your people), although it will limit your responses somewhat. What I do care about is that your backgrounds are cluttered, some of your expressions are downright unpleasant, and there are ways to photograph fluffier bodies that highlight their attractiveness, which is something you haven't done. So, go look at Velma's private gallery about what to photograph and then take lots and lots of photos so you can have choices. Look at the camera (or each other) as if you're happy to be you, happy to be right where you are, happy with life. And clean up any clutter around you before you start.

So, your tagline. DO NOT SCREAM ON THE INTERNET. IT'S CONSIDERED RUDE. Also, the idea is to invite people to open your profile and learn about you, so short and clever is best. What you have isn't very interesting, but it'll do for now if you just eliminate every capital letter except the first one.

In Looking For, it's meant to be about who you're looking for and what you are hoping to do with them. What you have now is mostly about you and is part of the conversation the two of you are having. It needn't be public. So, the first sentence is okay. But then what do you want to do with these couples? I don't mean sexually, just...are you hoping for on-going encounters with them or something else? What kind of couples are you looking for other than helpful? And if you're open to single women, say something about that too.

In Description, most of what you're saying doesn't really belong here, at least not the way you've written it. I mean, if I'm looking for a compatible couple, the only thing I know about you is that you're both average and she's horny. Not actually strong selling points when you're looking for couples and women. So, instead of what you have, what kind of people are you? What are things that would draw people to you? What are some of your hobbies? This section isn't about sex, surprisingly, it's about who you are as people. And this is where both of you should be collaborating, so it doesn't sound so male.

Also, the word is and rather than "an." It's an important distinction in writing.

Fantasies is a place where you give people an opportunity to say oh, hey, that sounds like fun. You've wasted that by saying you'll talk about it when meeting. You wrote this profile for a reason, so share a g-rated fantasy or three.

Additional comments is pretty good, just uncapitalize "ready."

Take whatever information you get here, make changes and then please come back for further work if you can.

Good luck.

First thing and most important thing is to be yourself. Don’t try to be something you’re not because some bigoted person feels it’s their job to call you names when they don’t even know you. You’re southern proud, understand that some people will be turned off by that. Not your fault, they just have a prejudice against you before they even shake your hand. Sad that people are that way in 2020, but that’s the world we live in. I’ve found this lifestyle to be very welcoming to one and all. People of all shapes, sizes, colors and creeds, sorry you experienced such prejudice and bigotry while only asking for help. Good luck moving forward!!!

Couple of things, I opened a gallery for you to show you the kind of pictures you should have.

My first red flag is that you have a messy bedroom and a Confederate flag hanging up.

First of all, I’m not fucking anyone with a messy bedroom. Second, I’m not ducking anyone who is racist. Maybe you aren’t racist, but I’m not going to contact you find out.

So maybe rethink what you really want, take come new pictures and go from there. Use my private gallery as a guide.

Hello, we are new to lifestyle. A 55 straight male 59 bi curious female. We are not having any luck finding FWB. Would really like some help. Thought maybe the profile ,so if we could some help with this much thanks. We dont want to have alot of sexual partners We live in Florida shouldnt have a problem. Thanks for all HELP David an Sandra