I am normally one to look for excuses to say "Yes" to a couple, but you make that very difficult. I don't usually say this, but I think you should consider taking a whack at writting your profile from scratch. Let's look at some things you have or don't have -
Not only do you have no pictures of him, you put, "...So if your looking for handsome and well built male ,you are in the wrong place." While honesty is nice, why would you even say that? Just post a picture of him in as flattering a way as possible and be done with that.
In Looking For, you indicate that you only want to watch or be watched. If that's the case, why would you even care if the people watching are bed hoppers? If they are, I can pretty much guarentee bed hoppers will not be interested in a "watch or be watched" scenario. Actually, you say you only want to watch, but then you mention touching. That is basically soft swap. So which is it, watching only or soft swap? In other words, you could be clearer about what you want.
Since you have pictures of her, you don't really need words to describe what she looks like. That's what the pictures do. So long as you have pictures of both (and you should), there is no need for physical descriptions. Speaking of pictures, pink slippers? Need I say more?
Between your age and being in a very small niche market, your best bet would be to go to LS parties once things get safer. In the meantime, look at the profiles of others and, on here at least, plagiarism is perfectly fine. If you like the way someone words something, use it.
Try not to include negative things. For example, you shouldn't have to tell people you expect good hygiene. That's a given, and if people aren't so inclined, saying it in your profile is not only negative, it doesn't matter because it's not like someone will see that and say, "Oh, they were perfect except they expect good hygiene. Darn!" ;-)
Lastly, read your profile and ask yourselves what, if anything you wrote, would appeal to others? Those sort of "hooks", if you will, may likely be things that have nothing to do with sex. For example, maybe you love to play cards, or you're really into wine/wineries, or just love antiques or..... Those are the kinds of things that may start an online conversation with a common interest and help work towards the bond of a friendship.
