Profile review please?

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Removing the physical descriptions text will condense things a bit. The pictures negate the need for that text. There are likely opportunities to tighten up the text a bit and maybe consider if you need/want some of it. The idea being that the activities/hobbies are potential talking points. I'm not sure "spending time with kids" or "walking the dogs" would be potential talking points versus bowling, cards, hiking, etc.

Personally, I think some of the extra text does help paint a picture, but you need to balance that out with the thought that your profile may be viewed as overly wordy.

Mansfield, CT, Us

you have some good advice being thrown at you here, to add a couple other things though:

You have focused on her face and not her body...BBW fans will like her body just the way it is so don't be afraid to show it...a g pic with no face if you prefer but if she can't show it in some fashion here how is same room no swap...

You term is also a bit of a negative. Same room no swap. Just say your same room voyeur or same room exhibitionist. You don't have to say "NO" snything tha way.

Lastly the profile is very wordy for a couple that is not swapping. Very very wordy...

Winchester, VA, Us

Thank you all so much! Didn’t realize how polarizing the beginning piece was as well as how some of the other language might be interpreted negatively. I updated a bit to condense info and more so get to the point! Thanks again!

Fort Payne, AL, Us

I have no clue how well you will do online given the limitation you've outlined. I second the suggestion to hire a babysitter and visit a club when possible.

Generally I think that your profile and photos are pretty good. But your profile seems wordy and unbalanced. I worry when I see a Description section that is longer than all the rest of the profile. Perhaps you could condense some of the detail and eliminate any information that shows in your photos and profile stats.

Good luck and have fun!

~Phoebert's Wife

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

Honestly-your profile doesn’t seem bad at all.

I opened up a private gallery for you to show you the kind of pictures you should have, but the ones you have are pretty good.

Honestly, we actually wrote you a couple of months ago and you two never responded. So... I’m thinking the problem might not be with your profile.

Food for thought.

Las Vegas, NV, Us

Agree with Mayhem about the first part being very polarizing. The way it comes across, to me anyway, is that within 5 minutes the conversation will get political. Whether the couple agrees or opposes your views, it’s not a very fun or sexy way to spend the evening.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Aside from the current state of affairs and the no swap part, you are also newbies. On top of all of that, being a BBx will further limit things. Then, add in that any "play" may be done in a house with kids home and it's a very hard sell. I think you perhaps knew all that though.

The first part of your profile has a lot of emphasis on the virus. This can be somewhat polarizing (in either direction), so I'm not sure you really want to place that much emphasis on it. The first step for any of this is to engage in an online dialog, so you don't want to do something that may be limiting that.

I do like that you're upfront about what you do want and like the long list of activities/hobbies as talking points. I think that to really get going in the lifestyle may involve getting a baby sitter so you can attend a local Meet & Greet when things pick back up, assuming you have one in your area.

Winchester, VA, Us

First to preface - I know we are listed as no full swap and explicitly state that we are interested in same room no swap at this time, so if that’s the primary reason we aren’t getting contacts I’m fine with that. With that aside, any other tips to dress up our profile?