Profile review

Couple you should start your own post.

Start your own thread please. In Better Profiles, when you see the list of topics (instead of individual posts), on the upper right third of the page, about the same place you see "Post Reply" on this page, there will be a clickable link for "New Topic." The rest should be self explanatory.

What do u think of our profile?

Thanks. We may be moving to Tampa soon and maybe you’ll get this great post in person?

I had a epiphany a few nights ago when my husband and I were watching “The Bachelorette.”

I realized that I didn’t envy Claire. I used to think it would be great fun to have 31 men fawning over me.

Now, the thought is just tedious. I don’t feel like dealing with guys and their bullshit.

And that’s when I realized how it related to swinging.

We haven’t swapped in months now - mainly because of the pandemic. And honestly, I don’t miss it. I had fun for a while, but I’ve been doing it for 5 years now and it’s not as much fun anymore.

And I realized why: because swinging is about fantasy. Like Claire, the idea of having some random guy crave me is exciting. But honestly since I turned 40, it seems like the quality of men has just gone into the toilet. I haven’t gotten my fantasy fulfilled in months. Guys are just too out of shape or too beta or too timid or just the human equivalent of white bread toast.

So: here’s my question for you: Where do you fit into a woman’s fantasy? What do you bring to the table that she can’t get anywhere else?

You don’t go to the gym but work hard physically? So... so what? So do 90% of the guys out there. You can’t take good pictures or bother to spell check your profile. How does that add to my fantasy? What have you done... today... to make yourself more appealing as a fantasy to the opposite sex?

Answer that question. If you can’t, then I’m sorry, you are not going to be successful.

Work on yourself first. Go to gym. Take better pictures in clothes that fit. Become the fantasy.

Or... just be upset that I’m giving you the answer you don’t want to hear.

The choice is yours.

Hi. You didn't use a grammar check or spellcheck to catch things and your punctuation is still dreadful, but aside from that I think you've done a decent job of representing yourself and what you are looking for, as well as what you have to offer. There are things I might change in Looking For, but until you fix all the typos, it's just too hard to navigate. Although one easy fix is that the word you want is "casual," not causal.

Your biggest issue after your writing deficiencies is your photographs. I'm not sure why you can't find someone else to take a bunch and then find some good ones, but the solution is not a bathroom selfie. Either find someone else to do the photographing or, as been suggested by @sorillo many, many times, buy a cheap tripod, set the timer on your phone's camera, and take as many photos as you need. Smile, wear clothes that fit, and make sure you don't have a cluttered background.

Good luck.

What do you think of mine