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What has been your experience? Good? Bad? Would you recommend one over pills or drugs? Just looking for myself.
by bike425replies868viewsPromescent Delay Spray
Has anyone used Promescent Delay Spray? It's a numbing spray like the desensitizing lubes (Mandelay, K-Y Duration) but it's supposed to have less transfer.
by ionsawmill0replies342viewsLoose or tight pussy?
How do you prefer a pussy? I like it loose and sloppy. Ever since I was a teenager I realized that a tight pussy would always make my cock red and have a burning feeling afterward…
by starry_night61replies7,455viewsMet a kinky gal last week
She said she liked it doggie style, liked to have her ass slapped, and loved using toys during sex. Later, I was hitting it doggie style, but rather than slap her, I shot her in t…
3replies800viewsDo you wear your glasses during sex?
An odd question, I notice lately that some pornography features people wearing glasses having sex. I am nearsighted, and wear contacts or glasses to see well, since Covid I’ve sto…
by Bird69too18replies1,702viewsAge differences
What is your limit if any on age differences between play mates? Have had young guys expressing interest in MMF, but wife is kinda freaked out about a 30 something guy wanting her…
by bfwp4u24replies2,701viewsWife wants us to carry male friend to resort
Wife wants us to carry male friend to resort after i suggested we do it. Having second thoughts because it may hinder us into attracting couples. What are your thoughts
8replies1,081viewsBesides the blue pill
What are some supplements that do work? Im in shape, not overweight ect. i can get hard but i want steel hard like i was 20. Ginseng? DHEA? What has worked changed you?
by Woodland6715replies3,069viewsParty themes
A question for the guys, what are some of the best party themes that you’ve been to… games, icebreakers you name it. Looking for ideas for a party later this summer. Thanks in adv…
by GameOBones1replies440viewsSchool Teacher or Hot Momma?
Fellas - When you attend a life style party what type of lady do you prefer....the innocent school teacher type or the sexy hot slutty momma type? Talk to me!!
9replies1,723viewsStrap On / Dildo Ass Play
So I (Male) am curious. I want my wife or another female to have her way with my ass with either a dildo or strap on... I am not gay or bi but on occasion when the wife has gotten…
by letztrythis16replies3,429viewsMassage Tucson AZ
Anyone have recommendations for massages in Tucon that offer happy endings?
by bikscpl4play3replies486viewsNeed tips with getting/keeping an erection
Wife and I have been in the LS for over a year now. We have been having lots of fun but I do have problems getting and keeping and erection some times. I was on 100mg of viagra wh…
16replies1,511viewsListening to HOT WIFE and Lover on the phone.
I just got done listening to Fannie and her FWB having sex for three hours. Does any other Stag's enjoy listening to there hot wife on the phone while she is with here lover?
21replies3,469viewsWhy are you Bi or Bi curious
The same reason you're looking for a hung long term boy toy I'd suppose. Is there a reason why? No offense intended but just like you people like what they like and asking Why see…
by savandwin278replies42,745viewsWomen with hair in wrong places
If you're comfortable enough to have your face buried in her bush, you should be comfortable enough to approach her about this. I understand not wanting to offend or hurt feelings…
by Fun4mature136replies2,936viewsSoft to hard ratio
Kind of an odd topic, but I'm sure we've all seen a guy in porn or at a party that appears as though they are as long or longer soft as you are hard. I suspect that people like th…
by mayhem818replies2,705viewsbi guys
If your bi ,even just orally bi why not post that on your profile? whats wrong with being bi?
by vstar100es114replies15,965viewsCigars
after a brief discussion with some good friends about a Cigar tasting trip we are planning . what would you calll your favorite? mine used to be the Romeo -y- Juliets @ a 20 ring…
132replies11,951viewsModern chemistry
Besides the usual, Viagra, Cialis, Trimix injections..... Has anyone tried peptides (subcutaneous injections) ? Going to try PT141, libido and Hormone stimulation peptide.... Anyo…
by bfwp4u0replies381viewsAre your orgasms more physical or mental?
This is more a question for the guys. I know that I'm very heavily weighted on the mental aspects of things. It's easily 80% mental and 20% physical, and may even be as much as 90…
by mayhem81replies317viewsDelayed Ejaculation
Do any of you guys suffer from this? I found an article that said if you took depression medicine, this could be a side effect for the rest of your life. I took some after my divo…
by 14fun20159replies1,295views- 444replies33,289views
Couples that are only interested because you have an attractive wife .
So I'll just jump right in. In the past we have been contact by a number of couples that have something in their profile that tends to get under my skin. Recently we were contacte…
10replies2,213viewsWhy is today's man so insecure?
You look at everyone's profile and you see the same thing over and over; Him: Straight Her: Bi or Bi-curious. We all know that 56 % of that is a lie! There is no way that all the…
by dragonrapide81replies7,256viewsAngiokeratomas
Blood blisters on the scrotum what do you all do about it. I know this may be a common problem with some men. Just curious if there was an acceptable remedy ??
by MNJFLA1replies745views- 6replies951views
The perfect gentleman
In urban slang, the term, "a perfect gentleman", might be a left-handed complement (opposite of a complement). In sls slang, is this code for something ? Meaning ?
4replies729viewsCum too quickly
Does any other guys in thier 50s have this problem. My wife used to like to jerk me off in the shower. Now I come way too soon. Any fix for this?
by cpl4xx49replies9,218viewsPerformance Anxiety - Getting your soldier standing
If you're in your 50s or older, and like me you only got started in the lifestyle recently, what have you found helpful to get your mind out of performance anxiety issues that kil…
by clabecca30replies2,382viewsProstate cancer
Was watching something the other day that said that, next to skin cancer, prostate cancer is the second most commen cancer in men. A blood test called a PSA should be done yearly…
by mayhem816replies1,331viewsPenis Pumps
Hey guys, do any of you have experience with penis pumps? Do they work?? Which pump you prefer? Expected results? upsides/downsides? Make me smart on penis pumps....send it
by Icandies24replies3,135views- 44replies6,053views
Single men and why we are blocked.
Hello all, I have been in the lifestyle for many years, but fairly new to SLS. I am surprised by the number of unread messages after a couple or single woman makes initial contact…
by sfnative_88replies6,402viewsAny ideas?
I've heard that blood pressure medication can keep a guy from getting hard. 2 months ago the doctor put me on cholesterol and blood pressure meds. In the last 2 months I have star…
by mike67819replies1,621viewsUrolift procedure for enlarged prostate
Wondering if anyone has had this done? Seems pretty straight forward, if you can get past laying on a table while someone shoves something up your dick. My urologist offers it, an…
by mayhem826replies2,610viewsMessage question
When you delete a message, does it delete that same message to the person you sent it to, or just delete the message on your end? Thanks so much.
by dbloh81replies424viewsMen add picture
Too many profiles without the couple's male half having a shot. What's with this? Makes it all so difficult.
by DuckDuckGone15replies1,573viewsIs there a normal / average age at which men start having erection problems?
Welcome.. No it can start at any age.. this has been discussed at length on the forums.. some great info look for it. In the meantime.. have YOUR DR check your testosterone levels…
by RonKathy6replies1,445views- 19replies2,280views
Been quiet
Hello - I have been back online here for sometime and I happy to report trying this online just doesn’t work. I have literally reached out to at least 50 couples who are into sing…
by OH2NY2NC2022128replies4,828viewsReversal of Adult Onset Low T
M half here. A bit of background. I was diagnosed with adult onset idiopathic hypogonadism or low testosterone in layman's terms at age 26. From then until about 37, I used Androg…
by ncwv12replies1,741viewsJust found out I have Peyronies Disease
I had a bump at the lower left side of my penis. My wife noticed my penis was more curved than usual. Saw my urologist he said it may get worse he doesnt recommend any treatment u…
16replies2,474viewsBate Buddies
Do any of you guys have a buddy who you get together with for mutual masturbation? I wouldn’t mind finding an arrangement like this, doesn’t have to have sex involved, just men pl…
6replies906viewsWhat do you find sexier?
Fellas What do you find sexier? A woman totally nude or a women with some lingerie on? Talk to me!!!
81replies8,348viewsJumping through hoops
How many couples make a potential play partner jump through hoops to even talk to them? Would like to hear your examples if you do this.
by OH2NY2NC202229replies1,920viewsBiggest turn on
We have a biggest turn off topic, but what may be just as helpful is what is your biggest turn on. For me, it's women that like multiple men. I get off on seeing a woman that can…
by mayhem856replies6,293viewsTrimming up
As my wife and I were trimming each other up she asked how do guys that don't have a woman in their life shave their back and ass. I said I would post it here and see what informa…
10replies1,075viewsTotal outfit pic by you spouse
I (male half) picked up a new pair of boxer the other day. Loose cotton boxers, I showed them to the misses thinking she would love them and her reaction was somewhat surprising.…
by sdexcalibur4replies754viewsMens underwear
Guys lately I bought bamboo ( with Cock pocket) underwear from Amazon. You really need try them their awesome. Very comfortable and feel great .
by vstar100es7replies1,218views