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How bi are you?

in Bi Males ·

My only interest in men is their cock. No kissing or anything romantic at all. I love sucking and really don’t care if reciprocal or not. I prefer to suck only.

How bi are you?

in Bi Males ·

My only interest in men is their cock. No kissing or anything romantic at all. I love sucking and really don’t care if reciprocal or not. I prefer to suck only.

Green light laser therapy

in Men Talk ·

Has any on here had the treatment? I’m having it done in a couple of weeks and hear that retroejaculation is typical. I’m not thrilled with that but am hopeful that I’ll not be peeing every 30 minutes.

New Site Launched

in Website ·

Messages still are not working. I cleared browsing history, changed passwords and tried two browsers and get the same message I pasted earlier. I give up.

New Site Launched

in Website ·

I changed my password and tried the site on Safari and Chrome. I get the same message on both when I click messages.

New Site Launched

in Website ·

Wayne, here the message I get when I click messages: There was a problem Please try againg or contact support if the problem persists Try again It’s been like this all morning, on this account and my wife’s account. Only on the beta site.

New Site Launched

in Website ·

I realize the new site is in beta mode but already messages are not working. Hopefully this gets fixed.

SLS Maintenance Banner

in Website ·

This comment is not meant to be sarcastic or rude but there is a new red banner today. What site improvements are being done? Each time improvement are made, the site still has the same recurring issues like blacked out thumbnails for one.…

Do you prefer a rude NO or no response at all?

in Men Talk ·

It goes both ways. Sometimes the note to begin with is rude so I don’t even respond. If the note is polite, I’ll respond with, thanks for the note, but we’re not interested. A few weeks ago, we received an inquiry and I responded, thanks f…

Profile Pics

in Website ·

Here we are on Friday. Just like yesterday, no profile pics.

Man nipple

in Men Talk ·

I must be in the minority but absolutely hate my nipples touched. Mine are very sensitive but not in a pleasurable way. I don’t even touch them myself. Some guys love it and if so, good for them.

Suggestion

in Website ·

First off, I give credit where credit is due. For a while the site was having major problems and Wayne took a lot of guff from many, including myself. For the past few months the site has run very well, so kudos to Wayne and those that mad…

Contact free members ?

in Website ·

It’s just my opinion but I think there should be a one week trial membership and if not paid after that, it should be purged. No pay, no play. It’s certainly ok to check things out but after that, bye bye. We have free members blocked. Aga…

What happened?

in Website ·

It’s funny that they used twitter to convey they are having problems but god forbid us referencing any other form of communication. We should be allowed to reference another form since this one is so undependable.

MM oral to please your lady??

in Men Talk ·

I’ve listed myself as bi for many years. I’m not offended at all if others don’t care for bi men. We play with couples and single men that know full well that I’m bi and if they aren’t, I never cross that line. A person likes what they lik…

Fix the website already

in Website ·

That’s it, leave the banner up so when the counter breaks it will be there already. This is hysterical.

Fix the website already

in Website ·

So someone knowingly accepts a job in IT at a Swingers website and is offended by the content. This is the most g-rated swinger site there is. You can’t even use the term gangbang in a profile. I find that difficult to believe. I guess we…

Fix the website already

in Website ·

From Wayne, the problems are much more complex than we simpletons can understand. Apparently their people can’t either! The other site don’t have these problems.

Fix the website already

in Website ·

They have made another site improvement. Now there are two pretty red banners. Now if they can just get the the green fucker to jump from one banner to the other. If they keep adding banners, there won’t be enough room for the page.

Fix the website already

in Website ·

All, we are beating a dead horse. This site will never be right. I wrote to tech support, and I use that term loosely, and they asked for the error page screenshots. I sent them and their response was that he can, and I quote, go days and…

Dear SLS

in Website ·

I have two screenshots from minutes ago Wayne if you need examples.

Fix the website already

in Website ·

I posted below about the new and improved site possibly being easier to login. I guess I spoke too soon. I just logged in and got the common, go back and try again crap.

Fix the website already

in Website ·

Going to swing dot com directly helps the login process but the site hasn’t changed. At least that annoying red banner has vanished. I guess that’s an improvement. All these months for that.

Muscle Car or Motorcycle

in Men Talk ·

This is not a one is better than the other, but for me, there’s nothing like riding my Harley. There are plenty of bikes and some cars that are faster and more powerful. I have a very stressful occupation but when I ride that hog, nothing…

Working Hard on Site Improvements

in Website ·

Want the site to fail? We’ve had a lifetime membership on here for years. I don’t want it to fail. I’d just like for it to work the way most websites work. Is that too much to ask? I browse free website all the time and they work perfectly…

What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022

in Website ·

Am I the only one that constantly gets blacked out thumbnails on profiles? This isn’t a new problem, one that has gone on for years. Just one more thing to add to the ever growing list.

Trimix

in Men Talk ·

Thanks gentlemen for tips. Much appreciated.

Messages

in Website ·

Censorship is rampant on this site. Any mention of another form of communication is strictly forbidden. As a service to their subscribers, they should allow the mention of other sites because the other sites actually work. This would be go…

Trimix

in Men Talk ·

Anyone use this and how is it working out?

Site Is Slow And Giving Error Messages AGAIN

in Website ·

I know this is going to be a real shocker, but the site is very slow this morning and there are continued error messages. But I think I figured out why the red banner won’t go away. It’s must be sponsored. Their sponsor stuff always work!…

Our web site

in Website ·

I have been an unlimited member for many years and can never remember when it was great. It’s had problems for as long as I can remember. No other website I use, lifestyle or not, has these issues. This reminds me of a sports franchise tha…

Site Is Slow And Giving Error Messages AGAIN

in Website ·

There is a message bar at the top that says the site is currently under maintenance and will return to normal soon. I was worried for a second. I thought the site might actually start working. No worries though, it’s going back to normal.

Rooftop Resort

in Florida ·

My wife and I visited the Rooftop last year and had a lot of fun. It’s certainly not the Ritz but you go for the fun, not the amenities.

bi guys

in Men Talk ·

I am bi, list myself as such and totally understand why it pisses people off when guys are not honest about their preferences. I feel that if couples or other single guys know that going in, it just makes the situation more clear. I have w…

Single men and why we are blocked.

in Men Talk ·

We like single guys. Having said that, the reason we block so many is that our profile clearly states no photo, no response. We also state that we aren’t looking for travelers or those that will be here on business. We still receive emails…

Key West FL Fantasy Fest 2021 and beyond

in Fantasies ·

Everyone needs to experience Fantasy Fest at least once. Keep your expectations low. There’s not sex on every street corner, or any for that matter. It’s more costumes, drinking and having fun. There are swingers parties that can be found.…

I just dont get it on the free member stuff

in Website ·

Regardless of the time limit on free memberships, whether it be a week, 2 weeks or a month, there should be a limit. I don’t know anything about website technical stuff but assume that the more members, the more bandwidth usage. If that’s…

I just dont get it on the free member stuff

in Website ·

I see nothing wrong with a free trial, limited membership if only for, let’s say, 7 days. This way, people can get an idea if this site is for them. However, after the brief trial membership, their profile should be purged. If a couple or…

Does anyone read profiles???

in New Forums ·

We like single men but most don’t read the entire profile. We clearly state that we don’t entertain travelers or those here on business and we routinely receive notes saying they are “in our area, would you like to meet?” My wife and I hav…

Down again

in Website ·

They need to change the wording on the banner from members may experience some down time throughout the day to members will definitely experience downtime for most of the day everyday.

More site issues???

in Website ·

Funny how the advertising graphics always work. That part of the site is never down, just the part we pay for doesn’t work.

More site issues???

in Website ·

We have been members for many years and I can’t remember when this site worked right consistently. The only consistent thing about this site is that it always has problems. How is it that of all the websites I visit that this is the only o…

The courtesy of a reply

in Open Forum ·

Yes, the courtesy of a reply is nice. We reply unless it’s a one liner that say hi. Can’t think of anything more creative? It’s courteous but no one owes anyone a reply. I walk to my mailbox everyday and there is an offer for something. It…

Does anyone read profiles???

in New Forums ·

We post very specifically that we don’t meet those traveling or here on business or no photos and still get them. I hate those that say, “I’m here on business and would like to meet”. Like we’re just going to drop everything to meet this w…

Just found out I have Peyronies Disease

in Men Talk ·

I also have Peyronie’s. I went from a good 6 inches to barely 4 with deceased girth. In my case, yes it affects sex. It also affects blood flow and erections. My wife doesn’t care to have sex with me anymore. She can’t feel it at all. She…

The courtesy of a reply

in Open Forum ·

Is a reply courteous, yes but I walk to my mailbox everyday and throw away junk mail without a reply. We get some of the most ridiculous notes on here. Some say, hello, some say, how are you?, some jut rude. If some moron can’t string a fe…

Messaging System Malfunction

in Website ·

It's an everyday, several times a day occurrence. I know nothing of how a website but as a consumer, just know it's supposed to work. We are on two other competitor's websites and they never have a problem. Whoever they are paying to maint…

MM oral to please your lady??

in Men Talk ·

I don’t do it to please her necessarily. I do it to please me. I have listed myself as bi in our profile for many years. When we meet a new guy (rarely couples anymore) I always discuss this. No surprises. If he prefers I don’t, then I don…