Cum too quickly

Why do women suck cock?

Funny story...I once set up a 1st time FMF for a young playmate of mine but unbeknown to me he had used lidocaine on his penis so he wouldn't cum to quick, till i went to suck his dick and my mouth went numb!!

Seems like it would be easier just to jerk off an hour or so before sex. Having to reapply this stuff 3x over 3 hours sounds like a pain. Especially at a party when you don't know if/when you're going to play.

Some condoms are thicker than others, so wearing one of those may knock down the physical sensations, which is what it sounds like this cream is doing. There is also lidocaine gel, but that may numb things too much.

Thank you nativeSF

Dman964,
"Has anyone else tried the Tong Balm that was mentioned?"
Like Brylcreem, a little dab will do you. To get the best results from this takes planning.
Apply a small amount about the size of your finger tip and spread around the head. Do this once every hour THREE hours before you have sex for maximum effect. I found several forums chatting about this and this method works best.
Don't apply too much or your won't cum, or worse, no erection.
Have fun!

I used a cock ring behind my big balls, it keeps me erection of my big thick cock and last longer.

68 here have no problem getting hard and I last longer now days only regret is I don’t have the load I had before. Used to enjoy a big load now there’s just a spurt no more cream pies to enjoy .

To me it depends on the situation, timing, partner and place. There are times when I cum extremely quick or times when I can last, even times when I can't achieve an erection or times when I can last but not climax. But regardless I can always revert to sucking cock and eating pussy to insure my partner is satisfied!

My sexual abilities as a guy were always average.. Had a nice cock but sex was not very frequent and came with hassles as women seemed to have commitment and marriage on their minds...only in swinging did i get to have a more relaxed hassle free sexual exp. Being a tranny gives me that similar exp..I am just not marriage material...

WOW too bad I was not around when you could shoot cum 6ft...I would have loved to be your target and swallow as much as i could get...

Tallmark. Definitely not complaining and count my blessings that I can do what I do at any age, much less nearly 64.

When I was younger though, if I pulled out and came, I could shoot a sizable load easily 6 or more feet. Those days are long gone I'm afraid. I would also cum early, but always had some ability to recover quickly and cum multiple times.

When younger though, the urge to sleep after orgasm and the sated feeling was much stronger than it is now. Of course, I wasn't playing with multiple girls back then either, and that makes a difference.

At 70 I find it takes me longer to achieve a hard on and even then don't always cum. But still feels great!

Holy cow Mayham, don't complain too much, your still in the game and doing good compared to most...cumming 3 times, stay hard for hours..... Maybe take a week off, maybe you will cum more.lol...

Lately my problem has been the opposite. It's not that it doesn't feel good. It just takes that much longer to push me over the edge. Orgasms have always been way more mental than physical for me. If the Mrs is getting well fucked while I'm playing, that helps a lot. Especially if she's playing with multiple guys at once.

Even when I do cum, there is very little ejaculate, but my recovery time is like 5 - 10 mins when I do full on cum. I do take Viagra when we play so that may well have some impact. About 30 mins after taking it, I'm good for 2 - 4 hours, sometimes longer. I have cum as many as 3 times in that time frame and sometimes not at all. If it's feeling good for both of us I just keep on going either way.

I have tried not drinking any alcohol and that seems to help a little, but I think it's as much that I have just become very accustomed to the LS. We've been in the LS about 8 years. If I take half of that time and say we averaged 1 party a week (we've done as many as 4 in a week) and I averaged 2 new women/week at those parties, that's about 100 women a year, and for 4 years, thats over 400 women. That's only using 4 of the 8 years, but the first one was getting started and we kind of lost 2 years to Covid, but it's still a conservative estimate.

We still enjoy the hell out of the LS regardless, and my sex drive is still very high. The nice thing about my "condition" is that I'm in no hurry to try to cum and can focus more on what the woman I'm playing with wants, unless of course that is to cum quickly and shoot a big load all over her. Then she's SOL ;-)

One of the Pod Casts I follow, Front Porch Swingers, recommend the delay spray from Promescent. We haven’t tried it, but we do like their other products like the buzz gel and water based lube.

promescent com/collections/delay-spray

A lot of topical anaesthetics contain Lidocaine. Best is a prescription cream or ointment, 2.5%. Apply to underside of shaft at the junction of the shaft and the head. Females may apply to clitoris. Try a dab on the edge of your lip to know when it is coming on. It is a bit numbing, then wears off. End of problem - unless you are the lady getting worn out!

When you cum, you feel the contractions. Similar to when you urinate and want to get that little last bit out. During sex flex that for as long as you can early and it will enable you to last longer . Maybe you are built different , so maybe you have to do that at a different time, different length of time etc.. All I know is that it worked for me and I can go for hours.

Shower alone.

Don't jump in and immediately start pumping like a rabbit. Take things slow and easy for as long as you can. You might be surprised how much the ladies enjoy it more, and will have multiple orgasms.

This has enabled me to double my lasting time to a full 6 minutes.

Kegels and breath control.

From the Mayoclinic website:
“Weak pelvic floor muscles might impair your ability to delay ejaculation. Pelvic floor exercises (Kegel exercises) can help strengthen these muscles”

Some time ago I noticed that my breathing became ragged approaching orgasm. Now, as I approach orgasm, I can regain some control if I am aware of my breathing and if I focus on returning to a normal, or deeper breathing pattern

Alcohol definitely lets me adjust how soon, or even if I cum. Like 4real, I also use Viagra and can last hours. My party drink of choice is spiced rum and diet coke. If it's a late night party, the diet coke will be caffeinated. Unlike 4real, 420 has the opposite affect on me, plus, I tend to go from extrovert to introvert if I smoke. I have nothing against people using 420, and if it enhances their pleasure, all the better. It just doesn't do it for me personally.

Now the Mrs on the other hand is a flavored vodka and 420 kind of gal.

For us, a little 420, a little vodka, and some Viagra.

For her, this combo let's her have amazing orgasms. And she will roll from one to another. If we are alone, she uses Wanda. If we are in a group, she takes on more than 1 guy at a time. Keeping her pussy and mouth occupied.

For me, I can last forever. In fact, it is rare that I cum with another lady in this condition. If I start to loose control, I can concentrate and regain control. Although, every time I regain control, I do seep some precum. She loves it, since it's more slippery than cum. She will rub it all over her lips. Then I rub it all over her pussy lips.

Forgot to mention, tasting cum from a cock will make her cum too. When she is toast, we take a break, and repeat.

HIMS makes a pill for this. I have tried it a little and I did see value in it. May try it again Overstimulation causes it but damn it that’s what gets us going too. ??

I sucked the Husband recently and he came in my mouth in less than a minute, surprised from a guy in his 60's....

I have no Big House experience and want to keep it that way, however I could have been arrested for non verbal solicitation for what I was wearing yesterday while grocery shopping ...