Believe me when I say that the girl in the sex swing was VERY motivating. Aside from her being very attractive, her reaction to what I was doing with/to her would have made any guy want to fuck her all night long. I almost felt bad about monopolizing her time like I did, but she didn't seem to mind, so....
MAYHEM
I just read your post about the sex swing. That, along with this girl saying she is going to think about you while masturbating, has convinced me that if we should ever have the opportunity to meet in person, before even saying “hello “, I am going to bow down or get on my knees and kiss your ring.
DB - As soon as I figure out what it is we're actually doing so well (beyond common sense) I'll let you know. Our tag line really covers that well BTW ;-)
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Damn! Do you give lessons?
Hopefully, having a sexy brain is, because I was accused of that for the first time TWICE in the past week. Definitely brought a smile to my face and made me literally laugh out loud.
One other huge turn on for me was that, one of the 2 girls that accused me of that told me while talking after we played that she was definitely going to be thinking of me next time she masturbated. Seriously, is there any higher (and sexier) compliment that a girl could possibly give a guy?
For all that I've seen and done in the LS, it still made me blush. I had no sexy brainy comeback for that, other than to say, "Thank you".
See our pic of her going up the stairs. Any skirt like that does it for me
Pretty much a heartbeat and breathing on her own is all I need to get turned on.
short shorts and cowboy boots
Biggest turn on for me is having a woman that moans in ecstasy because she loves her toes sucked and feet licked while being fucked...!!!!
Masscouple - I agree, especially if you are meeting up for the first time. I recently was a in a situation with two couples. I had played with the one couple for some time and we all knew each others likes / dislikes. We knew those likes and dislikes because we are very open to expressing what we like and don not like. It was a little awkward in the beginning with the new couple but they expressed their desires the female preferred more pressure on her clit while I was going down on her as she approached orgasm. That was something knew to me as most women get super sensitive on and near the clit area as approach and or at orgasm. This woman literally fucked my mouth...... The male really got turned on by watching me fuck hos wife. Knowing this, I positioned myself so he had a great view of me sliding in and out of her doggy, of her slamming and pushing back against me, and him seeing the pleasure on both our faces as he stroked hos cock, Now I would not have known that unless they shared their desires beforehand and during the course of our time together. The main take away... communication between all involved.
pcbguy01830 I- think a woman should definitely let you know what she wants. If you've met together separately, you should already know what the end game is - lots of fun sex. Whether or not that sex involves mouths, fingers, dicks, or whatever, you are both there to make yourself and the other person extremely happy. If a man can do that for me, than I'm definitely interested in playing with him again. If I can get a guy off so I get a mouthful of cum, that makes me extremely happy. If he can return the favor for me, I'm very happy. Either way, I'd want to play with him again.
Probably at the top of the list for me is hearing/seeing responses. Moans, movement, etc. it encourages me to repeat things when that happens, and it helps me alter course if things could be better. There are so many things, but that’s a great one!
I want a man to let me know what he likes when I'm blowing him. There is nothing worse than silence! want to hear his moans of pleasure, if I'm pleasing him. If I'm being too rough, I want him to tell me ( I tend to be rough, but I like it that way myself.) If he likes to have a woman suck his balls, I want him to make sure I know that. There Is nothing sexier than having a man tell you want he likes and wants when I am sucking his dick. I definitely let the men I"m with know what I like and what I don't. LOL, no one ever accused me of being the silent type, I want the man I'm with to share with me want he wants. Make noise!
I find women that know what they want and aren't afraid to explicitely ask for it to be a huge turn on. There is an older woman that is part of a couple, and when we get together, she has at times asked me to lick her. The woman of a FWB couple that we've yet to get a chance to play with has told me she wants to get on her hand and knees and have me pound her pussy from behind long and hard. I have had other women we know well come up to me at parties and grab my package and tell me that they want me to fuck them.
I am very happy to oblige all of those kinds of requests and enjoy a woman that lets you know exactly what they want. The other cool part is that, once I do what they want, they usually give themselves to me for my pleasure. More often than not, my pleasure is also their pleasure, which is another reason I'm more than happy to oblige their request.
Intelligence, open minded conversation. We don't have sex with their body, we have sex with their brain.
High heels and a short skirt that only covers half the booty!
Sexy sounds are definitely a huge turn on. I could pick my wife's sounds out of a 50 person orgy. A lot of women have very unique sounds they make during sex.
There also seems to be something extra erotic about the sounds your mate makes. In general, i very much enjoy when women are vocal during sex, but at least for me, none of those other women are as much of a turn on as hearing the sounds the Mrs makes while having fun. She also feels the same way about my sounds when I orgasm.
Being vocal during sex and watching her with another man/woman or couple having fun.
Sex talk during sex during four play as you outline the. Nipple and tweak each other can be enough to explode
I would have to say a women who is attracted to me and wants me to fuck her, not make love but fuck. And is into cock worship sloppy deep throat cock sucking. totally uninhibited. NOW I would like to hear what the women's biggest turn on is!
I commented in the other thread where this was mentioned, but the gist of it is that it can be fun if done well. The downside is that can be a turn off when it's not.
Overrated, often seems forced and cheesy
Sex talk or dirty talk in some fashion is very important.
I recently borrowed the phrase, “If I can’t get in your head, I don’t want in your bed”. For me flirting with a couple, making them laugh and fantasizing with them before during and after is important.
How does everyone feel about SEX Talk - a few times while sharing my beautiful wife the partner has been vocal with her!! At first she was shocked, but then figured it out that it is just part of the game. I am totally turned on when........
Her partner says "Tell him that you Love My Cock"
"Tell you you want me to Fuck you Good"
"Who's Pussy is this?, Tell him you want me to Cum inside you... Tell Him... Tell Him NOW!!"
"Come on, Tell him you want my cock and your Pussy is mine anytime I want it"
When she repeats it out loud - I just get more excited and love to hear her tell them what they want to hear!!!
It took a while to get used to SMs watching us in open room play and jerking off while they did. One time, there was a girl from a couple and she lifted her skirt and started rubbing her pussy while watching us. Even hotter was that she was starring right at me while she did, and she knew I was watching her as well. I definitely found that was a huge turn on.
Gave me a whole new perspective on the "masturbating while watching others" thing.
