Men add picture

i think women swing because their hubby is not doing it for them anymore sexually...

I am not interested in couples. The profiles I have viewed tend to be the same. Hot female pics and maybe one of the guy fully dressed. OR...the female is 5'5" 120 pounds and very sexy but the guy is 5'11" and 265. Way over weight! Makes me wonder if these are stolen female pics just for posting and baiting. A lot of riff raff on SLS but that is on the individuals and their personal ethics.

Guys who use their wives as “bait,” as Onehorneywife explains, must know they ‘re going down in flames if they dare show up for a meeting with a couple expecting another couple.

Or do they think they’re so hot and irresistible despite being lying scoundrels.

We were burned during one of our first contacts and felt pretty stupid, even embarrassed, even though we were the victims. Guess the culprits have no shame gene.

I've (male) recently removed all of my public pics. I've lost 35 lbs. since September, and once it warms up a bit, I will take some more and post them.

My wife is currently working out of town during the week, so we have very limited time. During the weekend, we are trying to reconnect, so that is usually out too.

We both have hall passes, so if someone reaches out, I explain the situation to them, and if they choose to decline, no worries.

This is probably the #1 complaint about "Couples" profiles. The ladies have a say in this & want to see what the male 1/2 looks like to see if they may be interested in meeting.

1, its a single guy posting as a couple and when its time to meet you get “wife is sick but gave me a hall pass” or “sorry she is taking a break from the LS, But I can still play

1. Wife is super hot and hubby is a 2

We like personality humor and looks, you don’t have to be a ten if we all click you can be a 4 or 5 and still have fun, but with the profiles that don’t show the guys OR blurry pics with baggy clothes Why Bother

She never was to begin with. Just guys using their wife as bait.

We are Finding a lot of men post female pix as a draw then all Of a sudden she can’t make the date
If she’s not involved then say so

Very good advice Slender hopefully they use it

Whether couples or bi-males...no pics gets no response when they message me. I will normally reply that there is no interest with no pics to share. Please, if you want to play put some skin in the game. It is also funny when people indicate their height but not weight. Need to put the best and full picture out there if you want some action regardless what that action may be.

Ok whatever your excuse is.. iphone is here and now and takes minutes !

Not really a hypocrite Ron. Wife’s lost a lot of weight the past few months. Things change. Old photos retired.

Huge red flag for us as we won't even look at the profile any further.

Yes we agree.. and move on quickly if any Profile fails to have photos of both or faces when they send a message ..

But sorry "You" are a Hypocrite as you have been on for months almost a year and thats all you have.. Sad!

(I'll add that we're planning to add photos to our profile after Christmas; don't have time to spruce it up until then. Not being a hypocrite, fyi).

Too many profiles without the couple's male half having a shot. What's with this? Makes it all so difficult.