Age differences

IAWS - "I don't mind a large age gap for a one time thing, but I wouldn't want a 20 something as a long term playmate."

I don't even mind it being multiple times, but it would mostly be limited to interaction at parties we attend. We would also extend a certain amount of FWBs privs to someone like that, meaning if she asked if I could help her move a piece of furniture or something a friend would do to help another friend, I would if I could.

There are people that seem to want their playmates to qualify as a potential valid replacement, even if they aren't looking for a replacement. For us, sex is an enjoyable recreational activity that adults of all ages can enjoy. Some long as it's legal and consensual, I'm good with it.

Whatever makes you feel comfortable. I don't mind a large age gap for a one time thing, but I wouldn't want a 20 something as a long term playmate.

This is off topic to the thread, but on topic to the tangent of this thread lol ...

I may have told this story before in the forums, but here it goes ...

I (Ed) went to our home club one night. Wife had to work so I went with a female friend. There was a guy there that she new. And he was eyeying up this one girl on the dancefloor. Eventually he went to talk to her.

Fast forward to a couple hours later and I'm wondering around, and I come upon a play room with the girl in there on the bed, with a woman at the door to the room and another girl we knew who was eating her out and she had a guy on each side of the bed with a dick in each hand, one of the guys was the guy friend of the friend I went with. I wondered in to watch. After I came in, the girl on the bed in the midst of the action tells the woman at the door not to let anybody else in (which made no fucking sense, because if you dont want anyone in, either shut the damn door or leave it open and put the chain across it, to keep ppl from coming in. So I watched a little and left.

At the end of the night when I ran across the girl from the bed and the woman at the door, found out from them that they were mother/daughter.

I mean WTF??!!

I mean it's weid enough to take your daughter there ... but to be the bouncer at the room door letting guys in to fuck her, well that's a whole other level of weird!

So found out later at the

Mayhem, when my wife and I started swinging back in 2004, we went to an off-premise LS club in Mississippi, and there was a woman there who had brought her son to celebrate his 21st birthday. I thought it was a little odd, but I didn’t say anything. The regulars and the host were not happy about it though.

Biggest difference for me was ~35 years. I knew she was way at least half my age, but was thinking it was early 30's at least and not 25. I didn't find out until after knowing her for a couple years ho much younger she was than me.

The Mrs has me beat by a couple years. Again, she was thinking the guy was early 30s and turned out he was 21. He popped from a BJ in 90 secs or less. Another time a friend of ours actually brought what we thought was a friend of hers to a LS party. We later found it that it was her son ;-)

In her defense, who would have thought that a mother would have brought her son to a LS party that she was attending?

Biggest difference I (Ed) have had is 29 yrs younger... and have played a handful of times

We don't have a set range. We tend to meet couple at events and on average we tend to end up with couples 5 to 10 years younger than us. Probably more based on interests, apparel, and attitude over looks. We've only had a couple encounters with couples older than us. We've never set limits, but don't have a lot of interest in couple under 30-35.

I will say at parties and clubs when my wife's been letting her hair down, I was a little surprised by some younger guys she's ended up with. I just smile and she sleeps in.

The largest difference up - I would have been 47 and she was 59.

Largest down - I was 42 and she was 20.

A few other appearances by those in their early 20s, but most were one-offs. The largest difference for anyone with any repeat appearances was a girl who was 25 when I was 44. Played a whole lot of times for a few months. I've also had a couple of longer term play friends who are about 10 years older than me.

I prefer people who are at least within sight of my age....However if a young minx offers me an opportunity to explore every inch of her anatomy I'm not going to turn her down

Handyman- did you ask your girlfriend?
You never know.
You might not be the first boyfriend she has shared with mom.
Just be careful how you ask .

A sportsman's double..?

It's all fun and games until the hot 70YO that just hit on you at the bar takes you home for a promised sportsman's double. When you get there you realize it's with her 96 YO mother.

Provided everyone is of legal age, I don't have any particular Hang-Ups about it.

My girlfriend's mother, in her 70s, flirts with me and has told me she wishes she could be part of my poly harem. I would totally do it, but that might ruffle some feathers.

With couples, we look for roughly our age, plus or minus a few years for common interests. With single males, younger is preferred, even down into their mid 30s if mature acting. These are general guidelines when viewing potential profiles, not hard and fast rules. If we meet, the attraction is mutual, and we seem to click, we are not going to ask for your ID to check age. Meeting at a club or a party is an entirely different scenario than considering an online profile.

College age and up is where I generally look.

I look at age as a general guideline. It’s not necessarily the age that bothers me as much as the lack of experience and confidence. As a rule, those younger than 40 lack both of those things. Not through any fault of their own. They just haven’t lived enough yet.

Now, that said, there are always exceptions. And I’m certainly willing to consider them. But I’ve found, in my area, that the majority of guys in which I’ve been interested (and have been interested in me) have been in their 40’s. For some reason , that seems to be the sweet spot. I’d love to find a few in their 50’s. But the search continues. So age is a barometer…. A starting point.

~LMK~

This only matters if you're trying to meet people online, which we never do. The format of the website forces you to consider it, and define it as a hard number.

When you get out in the real world, NUMBERS are irrelevant. You're not even thinking about a NUMBER. There's a real person standing right in front of you, and you're either attracted to them or not, based on their appearance. Numbers don't matter at that point.

Mrs. TBR is 20 years younger than me, and three years younger than my oldest son. She has fucked men in their 20's.

My girlfriend is 34, younger than 4 of my children.

Age is just a number. It's all about who you are comfortable around.

We are along the same lines as IrishRose22, anyone younger than our oldest child (mid 30's) is a no-go.

I am 61 years old as a single woman age is very important. Not into anyone that is younger then 58 and up as far as single men are concerned. Single women can be a little younger but not much younger 55. I am into people with experience.. if you don't have my age you don't have my number..

I was 23 she was 72

I don't have an age limit.
Lower limit is 18. I have no idea why an 18 year old would want me, but I wouldn't say no. Would probably kill me, though.
Upper age limit. I have seen 40 year olds that look like they are 60 and 60 year olds that look like they are 40. So, it depends more on what they look like then their age.

I always heard the joke as "if she bleeds, she breeds".

Had a friend years ago that would say 8 to 80 if she pees she is for me. Sick bastard!

Our standard range is older than our children and younger than our parents. As we get older that may change.

What is your limit if any on age differences between play mates? Have had young guys expressing interest in MMF, but wife is kinda freaked out about a 30 something guy wanting her. Any experience with almost 30 years difference? Thoughts about this?