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Hot dates
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i agree it should be more prominent at the bottom (similar to how it was before)... its one of the more important features of the site and kinda gets lost in the "hamburger"
Site picture update
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$20 1 tetrabyte thumb drive from walmart..... keep your NSFW pictures there.... if you want to be redundant buy two.... just in case....
Site picture update
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class action suit.... lol..... SMH..... its a swingers site, not a cloud storage facility.... you also storing your tax returns and financial documents on here????. they can delete your pictures anytime they want for any reason.... what wo…
pics upload then disappear
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have uploaded a basic G rated face pic, tried both on website and on the app, same pic..... shows pending approval after upload then disappears....
Spam Messages
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im getting the same... where/how on the chat/messaging system do you report a conversation or message???
Wall/feed feature going away
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bring back the old mail system where the birdie showed up and it was like an actual email.... messaging system now ugggg......
Picture Upload Dates
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very interesting.... seeing some active users have some pics posted nearly 20 years ago.... lol.
single male and vanilla side of life
the numbers/percentages are irrelevant to the fact that single women are called unicorns for a reason... edit the numbers to include only single women and single women in my general age range and then single women within a reasonable dista…
single male and vanilla side of life
so single male here, would love to find a single female GF or partner in the lifestyle but thats probably never gonna happen.... so Im also on vanilla dating sites (bumb, hing, etc).... any other single men in the same situation? i enjoy t…
Galleries
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its always been like this... my private pics say 21 and there are 4.... the counters are messed up....
cannot unlock my own gallery for myself
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@sls_WayneC did that... several times... nothing... I know it worked in the past... just not happening now.....
cannot unlock my own gallery for myself
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have tried adding my name to the list... have viewed profile and my own galleries are not viewable by me.... have followed directions and cant open why is this even a thing....
Profile Age should automatically update every year
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yup... there are profiles that show joined date of like 15 years ago still showing they are 30 years old..... huh?
New feature?
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what? you can't find the hot unicorn female that wants to be with you and fulfill your every fantasy???? JOIN THE CLUB!!!!
Messages
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I just typed out two message on the website and hit send and nothing.... it happens frequently..... so I go to the APP to send messages, seems to work better.... regardless.... the messaging system sucks and full of glitches.... one glarin…
Messaging not working
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messaging is NOT working today... sent twice on website and nothing
Messages
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messages randomly not working ... type a message, hit send, nothing appears... refresh and nothing, try same message again and nothing seriously, its such a basic function of the site, to be able to communicate with other members... when i…
Photos loading sideways
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54 days later and photos are still being rotated....... why is it on the member to edit and make numerous attempts to have a picture upload properly... the photo I upload is normal... it appears only on this site sideways.... fix the probl…
Tesla
Foxy_Angel Boneless or traditional and what should I bring for drinks???? lol......
If you continue what what you have always done you will continue to get what you have always got
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We're sorry, it appears the web page you are tying to access seems to be having problems. Our support staff has been notified. We will correct the problem as soon as possible. Error [#irongate.Errorid#] Literally for 20 minutes straight ri…
If you continue what what you have always done you will continue to get what you have always got
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the site seems to hum along fine on a tuesday and wednesday but over the new years weekend it was barely useable for the basics... messaging and hot dates... it would eventually work, but mostly take forever to load or not load at all (cal…
Working Hard on Site Improvements
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I think the rebranding and new name will definitely speed up the site. They've eliminated 9 letters from the name so that will be quicker to load thus improving the user experience.
What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022
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if its any solace to you I highly doubt Happy Thanksgiving Gobble Gobble chased anyone away... whats more concerning is that someone/something was able to edit your profile.... seems like a security concern....
Messages
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beating a dead horse here, but the messages are NOT going through on the website... i have sent several today and when send is hit its blank... and then I can check the app and there is no message that went through (messages sent via the a…
What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022
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oh I think the problems are chasing people away.... watch the online counter... used to be consistantly at 10 to 11k online.... recently been 7 tp 8k online.... much less traffic i wont mention the app but it rhymes with Field and there is…
What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022
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You have to look at the App and the Website as two separate entities and treat it as such... the App (due to playstore/google/apple rules) has to have certain items not allowed that can be ok on the website (ie photos and sex stuff). The o…
Messages
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just bring back the bird... who cares about the count... the bird was somewhat iconic to the site.... or just drop the messaging altogether and bring back the old email system....
Messages
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its the weekend, perfect time to do maintenance on messaging system.... Im only here for SLS radio.....
hot dates not showing up
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entire calander is not showing up on hot date page
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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SCswingingCpl 100% There is paranoia on both sides.
Shaved Pubes?
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ok... Ill give you points for "south shaven" (they should actually have a party theme like that one day - North Haven hosts themed party and renames itself for the night "South Shaven" I think any push back you get regarding this is any in…
Shaved Pubes?
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1. Ive been to North Haven, its 21+ only, and the average age is much higher. If you visualize anyone there, shaved or not, as pre-pubescent then you have a perception problem. 2. If it makes you feel any more comfortable, Ive been to seve…
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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Change of topic (a bit) but some good news!!!! Canada will drop all vaccination requirements and proof for travel to Canada from the United States in about a month (October/November). Good news for all us pure bloods. Im in the Detroit are…
Messages not working again
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messaging is a joke.... the old birdy email was better.... messaging not working AGAIN... and cant login on APP either... JSON Parse error: Unexpected EOF. Cmon man.
Who viewed me file
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@Maximilian_Claire, I'll trust you're experience this time... but Ive been on this site since 2008 and know how it (doesn't) function.... lol
Block
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just digging up an old topic to make an observation and ask a question... appears the block feature is not mutual in that both parties would need to decide to unblock i had been blocked by someone I know, 100% blocked for sure, today I am…
Blocked for no reason
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just digging up an old topic to make an observation and ask a question... appears the block feature is not mutual in that both parties would need to decide to unblock i had been blocked by someone I know, 100% blocked for sure, today I am…
Who viewed me file
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If I were to place a bet... I'd wager you ain't getting your view history back ever......
The wall
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It works better if you use it while listening to SLS radio......
APP login
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noticed this happens a lot, when I open the App from my phone, it either logs me in within a few seconds, or it never logs me in. I have the name and password saved into the login but dont remember the password so cant log in manually. Why…
Web Site Issues AGAIN
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hot dates do not appear to be showing up when you click the days on the calander.....
More WTF about this site
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well, why WOULDNT it work that way...... the logical connections between the functionality of this site is mind boggling.... im still wondering why on my home page Im shown profiles on the vacation and new memebers banners that have single…
Those who have granted private picture access
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this would be a good feature, whats the drawback? you open your pics (maybe you cant/dont want identifing photos on your public profile), other profile is notified, they look, they either find your more revealing photos interesting and ope…
Messaging not working
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also just tried messaging from the app on my phone... hit send and the app force closes, message not sent
Messaging not working
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sls_WayneC on my main page, there are newest matches, i click on one of the profiles, it appears, then I click message, the messaging system comes up and the members name is at the top, I type my message and hit the little send arrow, and…
Messaging not working
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its still not working..... for faqs sakes just bring back the old mail with the birdie... this experiment with instant messaging is crap.....
Add a birthday function
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The best are the profiles that show they are like 32 years old and members since 2004..... you do the math.... yes.. there are some profiles out there like this.......
Unlimited Member
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I was really confused with the "Life of Website" status, this totally clears it up!!!
Covid Light - Hold the insults
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Remove the zero percent liability passes for these pharmeceutical companies and watch how fast they stop pushing these totally safe vaccines. And stop with the political bullshit.... Trump was boooed the other day for saying get vaccinated…
Are lifestyle/swinger cruises the safest way to play now?
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you are participating in what could arguably be called a very risky behavior swinging, from crabs to aids, its all a risk.... take some usual precautions but I would let covid stop you.....
WTF
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the best part, regardless of motive or outcome of this nomenclature change, is that the effort was made to scrub "lifetime member" from the entirety of the website, a new graphic was made and included, while functionality and problems with…
Body weight/type search filter
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its amazing people get butt hurt over other peoples physical preferences..... its a fucking sex hookup swingers site... this isnt dating or christian mingle.... geezus fuck i dont get all pissy over the profiles only looking for the 10 inc…
Hot Date Section
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NOT WORKING HERE EITHER!!! (But never fear, the crack SLS web team will have it up and running by Sunday night, only to have it fail again by mid week, no one wants to make weekend plans anyway)........
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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regardless of where you stand or how you feel about the vaccinations, the amount of misinformation and just plain wrong facts being posted here, coming from both perspectives, is crazy.
Would lifetime members pay a small annual membership fee for a better site?
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yes but....... they have shown absolutely no ability to update/manage/repair/upgrade/fix/improve the function of this site in the past 10 years so I wouldn't trust them to be able to do so in the future with added funding... if they update…
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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Its only approved for emergency use by FDA and parmeceutical companies are legally exempt from any liability for potential short and long term side effects. If you read that and have no hesitation than you are a lemming.
Problems with SLS site and app
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the app and the website are like two different circles that overlap a bit and have some common ground but much is not available on both.... if you arent using both the App and the Website you are probably missing out on some contacts/conte…
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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Queston: I see quite a few profiles advertising that they have been "full vaccinated"... Other than the greater good philosophy of getting the population vaccinated to supposedly end this pandemic, what does this mean on a one to one basis…
locked up topics?
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omg... everyone stop your bitching and moaning..... the site works great every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday..... the problems only occur on Fridays or Saturdays...... why do you need this site those days anyway.... so greedy......
How much is too much
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View their photos/profile, if you like or are interested, open your pics, sit back and wait. One common thing Ive heard in my years here as a couple and as a single male is that 99.9% of people HATE relentless and pointless messaging from…
Why do so few coupled women in the LS seem directly involve in their own dating lives?
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Lets be honest, if sex were up to married women to initiate and pursue there would be a whole lot of nothing going on. While this may not be as accurate for the swinging crowd, it is evidently a factor as noted in this topic.
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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"Regardless, if you are vaccinated or not, you can still catch and spread the virus. The vaccination only "hopefully" lessens any symptoms and helps/aids the body in fighting off the virus." This is one of the most common things the anti-v…
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
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"Can someone please and honestly explain the reasoning by the idiot running Florida as to outlawing ‘vaccination passports’?" What's it to you if I am vaccinated? If you are happy with your shots then go out and live your life.. If someone…
You have GOT to diversify descriptors and allow users to search and filter on them
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its seriously hard enough for a hetero swing couple to meet another hetero swing couple on here you really think narrowing your preference to a "they/them cis queer two-spirited non-binary alpha martian" and you think there is going to be…
White hats over profile pics hard to log on
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if you are worried about privacy and security this is NOT the site to be on... its seriously running pre 2000 webstuff...... there was a hack just a few years ago that exposed a way to obtain all private photos (on red dit)..... you either…
App is rotating photos
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when uploading pictures on phone App, it appears to be rotating pictures (see my profile), anyone else experiencing this?
Is the paid membership indicator not correct?
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Just wondering, have a few "favorites" that show they haven't been online since "2583 days ago" (thats 7 years to you and me), but the profile is still appearing as a "paid" member..... have they been auto-renewed?, seems odd to have a pai…
Amazon store - Wayne
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the stupid banner ad locks up my page every once in a while also.....
Site performance is worse than ever! Why
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they are using a commodore 64 to run this website.... ------ no lie... not fake news.......
Single Males blocking other Single Males
probably mostly homophobic, but believe me, if you open your profile to other single males you aren't going to receive a deluge of gay marriage proposals.... it allows you to interact with others in the same situation, view their profiles,…
The Wall
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yup... totally not getting this "wall" thing... profiles messages appearing on my "wall" but I cannot view their profile because blocked single males... so why would I care to have them on my "wall"...... its a failed feature, its stupid..…
mobile app vs. online version
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why don't they match? you need to actually use the app. AND the online version if you want to see your actual messages and views completely... they are like 2 completely different versions of a website with different search, viewed, messag…
WALL question/issue
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why do I see all sorts of wall posts on my page from people all over the place.... BUT, when I try to post something its only available to my "friends" only and the public option says "coming soon"....
My Wall and You do not match
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wayne your reply doesn't match my experience.... i have no friends in a list... i see a lot of posts on my wall... people that aren't intersted in single males.... and when I try and post something on the "wall" I only have the option for…
just a rant lol
so contacted by a couple, you can clearly see my face in my profile, they wanted to chat on the other site that is not allowed to be mentioned, so i gave them my profile name there, real late they (he?) send two nice nudes of the female ha…
Couples Hypocricy and jealousy - We have hurdles to overcome.
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for a guy that claims he's not into other guys he sure talks about dicks a lot.....
FILTER by country
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so living in Detroit Im less than 5 miles from Canada and get a LOT of Canadian members show up on my search, my whos' on, my randoms.... love the Canadians but it's getting more and more difficult to cross the border (more id required, qu…
Wall “friends” posts
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still not sure why Im seeing random people im not friends with, never interacted with, not on my favorites list... show up with posts on my "wall" on my home page..... odd.
Wall “friends” posts
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still not sure why Im seeing random people im not friends with, never interacted with, not on my favorites list... show up with posts on my "wall" on my home page..... odd.
Wall “friends” posts
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still not sure why Im seeing random people im not friends with, never interacted with, not on my favorites list... show up with posts on my "wall" on my home page..... odd.
Are we unknowling on others' Friends Lists?
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using the former "friends" feature to indicate/mark people you "DON'T" want to meet is like going to a gay bar trying to pick up a straight guy....
Are we unknowling on others' Friends Lists?
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for the record.. I have a post from a couple on my "wall", profile is not in my friends list.... this totally upends my understanding of how this was supposed to work... but its not suprising, its SLS afterall......
Friends Tabs
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as far as I can tell, this in no way will affect you or the way you use the site in any way if you don't want to participate in this.. this is in no way like removing and replacing the old and better functioning mail system with the confus…
Membership impact due to Covid-19
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Bored guys or unsatisfied husbands will still pay to see what they think is a panacea of naked women. Guys with no intention of ever meeting are probably a very large chunk of the monthly swinger site revenue, Id guess this demographic has…
Friends Tabs
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I can't wait until I accidently hit "import all your Facebook friends" button that is sure to come....... will be interesting!!!
Friends Tabs
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if this is rolled out properly I will be the first to say great job!!! the former friends lists (now favorites) was in all reality just a stalking list... the people on the list have no idea that you "friended" them... this is much more op…
Who owns a Tiger here?
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after watching Tiger King seems like anyone that owns a tiger has multiple partners or is in the swinger lifestyle.... maybe thats the key to single male success!!! anyway... lets see who owns a tiger!!!!
THIS SUCKS!!!
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thats it, just lamenting mine/our current situation.....
Dont Post a HOT DATE!
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whats the over/under on the number of months it will take SLS to get hot dates functioning properly once the travel and gathering restrictions are lifted... im going with 3 months...
No More References To Hot Dates or Travel In Your Profile?
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i don't have to use opinions or birthday paradoxes or guides to consumer satisfaction or how the silent majority feels... adding new features is usually a great idea but you are BANNING the mentioning of something on someones personal prof…
No More References To Hot Dates or Travel In Your Profile?
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"We are doing all of these things to help all of you. We are all on the same team here." by banning the mention of travel or party plans in your profile??? how is that beneficial??? theres no way this can be somehow rationalized as being b…
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
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Maximilian_Claire I like to fly close to the sun..... lol
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
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completely deleted my "coincidence?" topic... guess it wasn't just a coincidence.......
Certs?
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someone done fucked up and erased all the certs.....
The courtesy of a reply
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"Rather - I’m utterly shocked that a bi guy that lists as straight, appears to be married and cheating with a woman who is also married and cheating, wouldn’t get a lot of replies. " wins the SLS internet with this reply..... nice!!!
New Hot Dates tab on profiles?
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If you sign up for an event only those people checking out the event see you are going, not everyone who looks at your profile. In actuality, many clubs have discontinued using sign ups. Why? Because many people who intend to go don’t sign…
New Hot Dates tab on profiles?
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i agree with MandC... this site is supposed to be for facilitating meets and matches and swinging... anything that makes it easier Im all for.... if you want privacy use blocks or filters or other.... lets get the party started!!!!!
Website
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"The chat rooms do work. At any give time, there is usually around 100 people in there chatting. If you are having issues accessing that feature, submit a ticket for support." My front page shows 10,000 new profiles typical in a week... 10…
Your profile has been placed OFFLINE for VIOLATIONS OF OUR TERMS OF USE policy.
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when so many people are using outside sources of communication that you actually have to ban certain words (k i c k) lol.... you would think it would be an indication that your site is not providing useful or functional communication tools…