New feature?

This is ANOTHER new request .

We are signed up for a party through SLS.
It would be very handy to be able to use the feature of being able to open galleries to a class of people which is already in place to open to all of those attending the party. Something we could switch off afterwards. We could conceivably add each one individually as favorites, for each album, but that would be cumbersome with 50 or so attendees and would require editing them from the favorites later.

I would not want to just bulk delete as we have favorites with varying access to folders in place already.
Our profile folder is ,for reasons of our own , not very informative.

<p>"<span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">That already exists. Tools/Update Profile/Preferences. From there, you can choose to block Couples, Single Women, and Single Men. Selecting all 3 will make your profile unviewable to everyone."</span></p>

<p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">You are not allowed to block all three. You can block two of them and set the third to 'no interest'. </span></p>

"How about a feature in our profile account to DISABLE our account and keep it hidden from ALL others?"

That already exists. Tools/Update Profile/Preferences. From there, you can choose to block Couples, Single Women, and Single Men. Selecting all 3 will make your profile unviewable to everyone.

"For one thing, we had ZERO contact from most everyone on this site for YEARS....We're starting to think we are too old for everyone or too "ugly" for everyone on this site...or the site is full of single/married men and no actual REAL swinging couples or females?????"

Your profile has 8 certs from 2018-2021, so you obviously know that none of that is true.

You're trying to find a needle in a hay stack. We are young and (we like to think) sexy and we can't even get a response from single women. Also take into account you appear to live no where near a major metropolitan area. The closest decent sized town to you is Jacksonville which is all Camp Lejune folks. There are tons of real swingers on here, us included. You're limiting your options and the sense of entitlement doesn't help!

It is called the Villa Concord

Boatercouple posted "since there seem to be NO REAL SWINGERS in N.C.."

I say BS to that. We have met a number of really hot couples and get contacts all the time from NC males. Maybe you should check out a club that is in Charlotte called the Villa. I believe you can find it here in the Clubs or Groups section of SLS.

Yep you get on a public SLS forum you and I are game for all.. So you caused the response no one else!

Blocking couples.. is a joke as many swingers like us play alone and say so in our profile once we all meet.. so now you are limiting your choices.

Block feature works wonders and yes we have been ghosted and moved on.... many Single guys and Couples are idiots , married, cheating, BS about swinging, etc.. but the ones we do find as previously stated.. and VET are great!

Attitude swinging and in life accounts for all.. so enjoy we will ... its what you do with those lemons that show !

This is a public forum that allows for all paid users to respond as they see fit to any public posts...even if the post was meant for and/or directed to others.

O.K, just to clarify since there seem to be MANY who want to criticise.

The reason why couples were blocked is for ONE single reason: I(male) is looking for a female FWB for week days, NOT couples.

Wife and I BOTH look for couples AND females for weekend meet/greet/play, whichever happens or not and couples are UNBLOCKED for that purpose.

I(male) set the distances, to limit how far I(male) want to travel on my bike. Why? Too many fakes, flakes and phony profiles since the pandemic.

WHY should I(male) travel 100+ miles just to be flaked and ghosted on?

She(wife) want nothing more than find a REAL swinger couples to meet and play with on regular basis ON WEEKENDS.

We(wife) & I(male) have had great experiences, especially when we visited Vegas, since there seem to be NO REAL SWINGERS in N.C...see AND read our certs.

I(male) have NO NEED to find another female(FWB) since my wife DO meet all my(husband)'s needs.

This is a "Lifestyle", NOT "desperately seeking Susan" thing OR ego boost.

Am I(male) too up tight? HECK YES! My wife also feel the EXACTLY THE SAME WAY about lifestyle of late.

Nothing but bunch of B.S, hounding "single" males, and men(not myself) talking and "I'VE FALLEN AND CAN'T GET IT UP" PROBLEMS.

So, instead of getting frustrated at EVERY MEET-UP and having to sit by and watch while I(male) "enjoy myself", she decided for me to go alone and find a FWB female.

I(male) hope I(male) clarified my initial post, which I(male) shouldn't even have to explain myself to ANYONE, since it wasn’t directed towards ANYONE of you who commented negatively.

That post was meant to be for the administrators of the site.

NOT to be BASHED by those who find fault in everyone(like myself) who just asked and suggested a feature which I(male) couldn't find in my settings.

Opinions are like A-holes. Everyone have one some stinks worst than others.

If this offend anyone, I(male) take full responsibility and I meant to offend those who offended me with their personal opinions, which I NEVER ASKED YOU FOR.

what? you can't find the hot unicorn female that wants to be with you and fulfill your every fantasy???? JOIN THE CLUB!!!!

Just my $.02...you're looking for a weekday gf and a weekend unicorn. That would be a unicorns unicorn.

"there's 1,000 couples and 50 be females ... that might explain why youre having difficulty"

It's not just the low number of solo bi women profiles. A large percentage of us won't play with unicorn hunters. So, if your field of play is now only solo women, you're much better off trying in person parties, meet and greets, and clubs, because the percentages online don't favor you at all, even if you didn't have the entitlement issue, which you currently do.

You all are only looking for single females. I did a search of a 100-mile radiius from Richlands, NC of couples and bi-females between ages 21-75 and paid members ... there's 1,000 couples and 50 be females ... that might explain why youre having difficulty

Sounds like you used to have couples blocked, so that would cut down quite a bit of any interaction on here.

You also have 8 certs, most from couples, so perhaps you blocked them by accident....I don't know, but since I can see your profile now, it is fixed. But it does sound like you have an attitude issue. You guys probably aren't too ugly but I cannot see your faces.

<p>After 30 days of not logging on, your profile will stop showing in searches. So you really do not need to take any action other than not logging into the site. You can also send us a ticket and ask us to mark the profile an inactive. That is basically the same thing as flagging the profile, so you will not be able to use most features of the site while it is set to inactive. </p>

<p>There is no way to use the site and be completely hidden. We don't want people doing that and many would consider it creepy or lurking.</p>

Exactly ONE.. and then add the poor attitude they display on this topic and ask yourself why would we want to be around such negative people...

Those who smile, laugh at life, enjoy life, enjoy swinging, go to parties.. just exude what we want and find with like people!

Its that simple! You make the choice.. we have well over 30 years!

Yes OP we are both in our mid to late 60's and the pickleball photo was taken at our Halloween party last month. We will be on a 2 week cruise in Jan out of Tampa if you want to find us... more fun and sun !

Can't give you any advice about what might be keeping people from contacting you with you blocking couples. You want to meet people in the LS then you need to be open to at least being contacted by everyone and sort it out from there.

Well... if you block couples from seeing your profile chances are you won't hear from any couples.

How about a feature in our profile account to DISABLE our account and keep it hidden from ALL others?

For one thing, we had ZERO contact from most everyone on this site for YEARS.

Maybe we just need to "go away" for a while, until we decide to just GO AWAY.

We're starting to think we are too old for everyone or too "ugly" for everyone on this site...or the site is full of single/married men and no actual REAL swinging couples or females?????