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<p>It was updated quite a while ago and is no longer mutual. So what you describe is correct. </p>

just digging up an old topic to make an observation and ask a question...

appears the block feature is not mutual in that both parties would need to decide to unblock

i had been blocked by someone I know, 100% blocked for sure, today I am not blocked, seems they decided to unblock me, I did nothing in this sequence of events to block or unblock

so it appears you can now unblock and re-open a profile without the other party that you blocked knowing

so block.... weeks later unblock, check out said persons profile/pics/comments/etc, then reblock...

and WayneSLS or whomever, I can send you the exact name of the person that blocked me and now unblocked me so what I am describing appears to be true and can happen

the profile doing the initial block appears to have the upper hand in the control of profile viewing....

mayhem:

An option to toggle how the block restricts would be great. IE: full block or what you could still see for those of us that want to see where blocked couples are going

While I agree with the logic for an party, that reason wouldn't apply to a typical Hot Date.

Even in the case of a Hot Date looking for multiple couples/people, a Hot Date has no visible sign up like an event does, so there is no mechanism to help avoid someone you didn't want to see.

<p><a href="https://www.swinglifestyle.com/profile/lookup.cfm?usercode=50284075">mayhem8</a>,</p>

<p>I believe you can see the hot date but not view the profile of someone you have blocked. Is that what you are referring to? I'm not sure what the reason is that it works that way. I know that you can see blocked profile names on event attendee lists. That was done because some people wanted to be able to see if someone they have blocked would be at an event so they could then avoid going to that event. Maybe that is also why they made the Hot Dates work that way.</p>

We like that blocks allow us to see them signed up for parties or hot dates which allows us to plan our attendance accordingly specifically for smaller or local events.

Rather than start a new topic, I would have thought that blocking someone would have also included Hot Dates, but it does not. Was wondering why this was not not included as part of the block functionality?

There is a local couple that frequently puts out Hot Dates. They have no interest in us, so I blocked them so as not to have to ever worry about forgetting and reaching out again. I continue to see the Hot Dates that they post.

Blocking someone does block them in Forums and elsewhere, so seems like Hot Dates is a gap/hole that was missed. Any comments on this Wayne?

At the bottom of your Favorites pages that used to be called Friends before the "improvements".

we found it under friends before but cant find it now. Any one know where to find your blocked list?

To answer your question, though...

Paradoxically, the list of blocked people is on your Friends page. Go to Friends. Scroll down and see the list of people you've blocked (or blocked you first). Click Unblock.

They will only become "unblocked" if they reciprocate. You can't prod them somehow into doing so, so unless you have some other way to contact them and tell them to unblock you, it'll likely remain that way.

And - I doubt the site will intervene and ask them on your behalf.

The block is reciprocal. Meaning if you block someone, the system blocks them from you, too.

You can unblick them from your end, but they have to unblock from their end, too...

How do I unblock someone from mobile?