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Shaved Pubes?

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

Yes GoodGolly. Landing strip is very nice. It’s only the clear cut forest I find jarring.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

I'm on the 'a landing patch is hotter than bare' side of the argument, but so what. People get to adopt fashion trends with their pubes the same as they do with their clothes and they have, if my decades of attendance at AANR and swing clubs is any gauge, which I think it is. A full bush was highly unusual in the swing club I attended beginning in 2002 and by 2008, my favorite anti-lifestyle nude resort had caught up, proprietors and guests alike. Among my non-nudist/non-swinger friends, it's now also about 99% bare (hot tubs, hot springs, and saunas for those curious), regardless of age.

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

Yes RonKathy. And you long time SLS folks CAN roll so we’ll because there’s no hair to slow you down!

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

Hey Esper, to be clear I’m not making a blanket decision that I would never have sex with a shaved Pubescant( a new term I just coined), I may find an incredibly delicious person who makes it so enticing for me that I would overlook that frictionless area. Of course. All I’m saying is that like any other attribute I have a preference. In my case it’s for hair down there whether it be trimmed, molded or Mohawked, I prefer hair with my pubes thank you very much!

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

Everyone has THEIR own opinion.. sort of like ones own body part everyone has.. Its that persons business.. unless you bring it to forums then all is fair play.. so buckle up and YES its how us long time SLS people roll!!

Port Orchard, WA, Us

Y'all are saying that you would turn down sex with an otherwise incredible, clean person because they have pubic hair or not. That's insanity.

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

LMAO!!!! A theme party at North Haven! Love it !

Granted. I didn’t mean to accuse anyone of actual pedophillia. Just a hyperbolic way of representing my reaction.

Grosse Pointe Woods, Michigan

ok... Ill give you points for "south shaven" (they should actually have a party theme like that one day - North Haven hosts themed party and renames itself for the night "South Shaven"

I think any push back you get regarding this is any inference or suggestion that prefering shaved is somehow pedofilic. Thats a dangerous condemnation.

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

Okay thanks. I appreciate everyone sharing their thoughts on this although some if you went on strange tangents, like the person who felt no need to clarify…in three subsequent comments. Lol. Yes it is possible that 99% of a group does something because it is universally practical and beneficial but that appears to me to be exceedingly high considering how rare 99% agreement on anything is in our country. I apologize if anyone was offended by my semi-flippant tone. It’s just the way I’m built. A follow up question though…no points for South Shaven?

Albany, NY, Us

Op: thou eoth protest too much!

Grosse Pointe Woods, Michigan
  1. Ive been to North Haven, its 21+ only, and the average age is much higher. If you visualize anyone there, shaved or not, as pre-pubescent then you have a perception problem.
  1. If it makes you feel any more comfortable, Ive been to several AANR not swinger nudist resorts this summer and the full bush, hairy legs and armpits appears to be making a comeback in the 20 to 30 year old crowd.
  1. Each to their own preference but munching a full box of hair is not a turn on for me, most people freak when they find a hair in their food!!! LOL
Windermere, FL, Us

To the OP:

What do you suppose is more likely: that 90% of the people you saw have some weird pedophilia-linked kinks, or that there is something they like about it that you just don't get?

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

"In other words, obsession over OTHERS' hair OR lack thereof, is a red flag. "

LOL

In other words, obsession over OTHERS' sexual orientation OR lack thereof, is a red flag.

Port Orchard, WA, Us

I would much rather meet one amazing person with a huge hairy 70s porn bush, than a million clean-shaven cultists who think bisexuality is a choice, and can't grasp simple concepts such as the difference between biological sex and gender.

Port Orchard, WA, Us

I repeat:
As long as hygiene is on point, hair is just hair. Shave it, grow it, trim it, sculpt it --- whatever, as long as it's clean.

In other words, obsession over OTHERS' hair OR lack thereof, is a red flag. Whether it evokes prepubescense or any other reason for liking it or disliking it, focusing on what OTHER people do with their pubic hair seems a peculiar way to spend any time.

Port Orchard, WA, Us

Reading comprehension on adult discussion forums remains depressing low.

I see no reason to clarify myself to someone determined to misunderstand/misinterpret what is being said.

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

Hilarious.. shaved pubes as an issue wow!

Shaved, runways, hearts.. but we assure you we do NOT think of shaving ones pubes as anything but what we want and something we do for fun with each other.. .. wow just wow.. !

Now pass the popcorn!

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

Thank you. That actually brought up some points I had not considered. I have no problem with personal preference when it is truly personal preference. Where I start to question that is where I see 99% adherence to something. That makes me wonder if it is truly personal preference or if there is a subtle peer pressure going on.

Also when I say it feels oedophilli-ish I’m not implying that anyone with shaved pubes is lusting after children, I’m just saying it is setting a condition that, to me, makes the genital area less adult like and more child like. That makes me uncomfortable. I know I’m not the only one who feels that way but I guess it takes a certain amount of courage to say it out loud here. That also makes me suspect some group peer pressure around this.

Agree or disagree, it’s important to be able to talk things out, don’t you agree?

asianlustMember
Diamond Springs, CA, Us
  1. It's only pedophilia if you have a propensity to ogle naked children. Such people are prohibited at nudist resorts, but naked children are welcome. Shaven adults, or adults with alopecia, don't look like children. Men who shave their faces don't look like children when fully dressed either.
  1. Shaven pubes actually reveal about an extra inch of a man's genitals, so it's not understandable how anyone would think it makes them look smaller.
  1. There's a practical reason to shave one's pubes. It allows your skin to feel the other person's skin or pubes, as the case may be. It's like going bareback instead of wearing a latex glove. It's not for everyone, but many do enjoy the extra sensation.
  1. Many people prefer to give oral sex to skin, but not hair. It's their personal preference. Same goes for foreskins. Some love it, and others won't touch it.
  1. During sex, it's much easier to look down and see what's going on. Others prefer to turn out the lights and close their eyes. Again, it's personal preference.
MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

To be clear, you can do whatever you want but you say that you’ll never understand when I clearly stated my reason. I was looking for an alternative viewpoint to help me see something I do not understand. I’m still waiting. The whole pedophillia thing is what is a block for me. Is there an element of that in this style choice or what? It makes me uncomfortable. Can you respond to that?

Port Orchard, WA, Us

It's been my experience that people who care that much about others' body hair are a bit too pushy, controlling, and have completely disparate values from us. I find it highly suspect when a profile spends a fair amount of time describing their pubic hair as well as what they expect from others. Ew. YMMV

Port Orchard, WA, Us

I will never understand anybody who will skip an opportunity with an amazing person based on the presence (or lack) of pubic hair.

As long as hygiene is on point, hair is just hair. Shave it, grow it, trim it, sculpt it --- whatever, as long as it's clean.

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

Different strokes for different folks...

MashancyMember
White Cloud, MI, Us

We are new to the LS and just attended our first real nudist resort at North Haven which I think after going should be renamed South Shaven!

We were surprised that over 90% of the people there had no hair on their genital area at all. Male and female.

We both found it the opposite of erotic as it makes everyone look like a prepubescent child. I for one am not interested in pedophillia and loooooooove the sight of a sexy bush.

My wife feels that the lack of hair makes a cock look smaller and less imposing.

Surprisingly everyone in the LS I have spoken to about it since getting back actually agrees with us.

I’d love to hear what others think.

Maybe we’re missing something, or us this another unfortunate adoption of porn styles?