Bullshitters .
in Finding Playmates ·
I like kik because it's easier to share pictures and to have conversations with all four people.
SammySings
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Review profile for you pleasure
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Well, (1) I'm not sure writing several paragraphs is something people want in their initial message. The goal should be to write something interesting to spark attraction, and sending a novel ain't going to cut it. (2) You should remove "d…
Review profile for you pleasure
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As far as your profile, it's ok. It's pleasant enough, but neither the pictures or profile are particularly sexy. It almost reads more like a dating profile. But this isn't really a dating site. This is a sex site. People are looking to ha…
Profile Review
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I would just add that some women may be into teaching a guy some new tricks.
Hello! Please review and help us
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Yeah I also found the description of what you were looking for to be somewhat confusing. Playing alone with cameras and a cheering section? If you have something specific you are into feel free to tell people but I couldn't figure out what…
Profile Review Request
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I wasn't totally clear what you are into - watch and being watched, or watching her get pleasured, or up for anything?
Profile review and critique please.
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The writing has a weird, offputting cadence that I wasn't into.
How should older present themselves
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Well...are you actually 99? If not, how is one supposed to know your age? Also, you aren't into full or soft swapping, which is a niche that is not that big.
Profile Review
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Roll around in the dirt with me
Profile Review - Open for all feedback
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Yes - I think it is your hot tub line that stands out. You having a hot tub is cool. You wondering if someone else has one is just a reminder that you don't have one. What stands out out about you that would make you be interesting and sex…
Profile Review - Open for all feedback
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I'm not sure your pictures are doing you a ton of favors. The text is ok, a little playful, which is nice. But it also isn't terribly interesting or exciting.
Profile critique .
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It's very open and welcoming, which is good. Also your pictures very adequately show you. However, it has an almost clinical feel to it - not a lot of playfulness in the writing or the pictures.
Need to freshen up the profile
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By all means let's go after people because they made a comment about a flag weeks ago that hurt our feelings. That's clearly what this forum is for.
Need to freshen up the profile
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Seems like if Velma wanted a critique she would ask for it. Otherwise why all the sniping?
Need to freshen up the profile
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Is there some rule that every other profile mentions Ken and Barbie? I get it, here's some code for "we aren't physically perfect." But I've maaaaybe seen two couples who could meet that standard out of the hundreds we've seen or met. Also…
Why is it so hard to gwt people to respond
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Perhaps you are contacting people with body hair
Is it us or .
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I had a bit of Goldilocks feeling when reading your profile. Like you are looking for something that's not too hot and not too cold. It's not bad, and I liked parts of it a lot, but I came of thinking you were high maintenance, when you mi…
Kinda Newbies but were still all thumbs
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I would say - your profile seems welcoming and fun. It makes you seem genuinely fun to hang out with. But in your post you have a laundry list of things that cross people off the list. It immediately makes people feel self-conscious, which…
Let me know what can be better!
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I dig it. It communicates what you are into while also being welcoming to all.
Profile Feedback
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Heh well it's clear what you want. My only criticism is your profile name is rather lewd and aggressive - I get it from reading your profile but my first thought was that you were an aggressive single guy.
Review my profile please!
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I think it's mostly fine outside the pictures, which aren't very interesting - we get lots of messages from guys and unless the picture is interesting we rarely even read them.
Lines to impress
Being educated and kind is cool but people tend to go for sexy on this website.
Please Critic my Single Guy profile and make recommendations
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It's very long. While it's nice to be up front about what your into, we aren't looking for war and peace here.
Please review my profile
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I was somewhat put off to the references to your family. There are plenty of "single" guys who ain't that single.
New guy profile
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Proofreading is your friend
Newbies Profile Review
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It's somewhat blah. The pics are fine, the text is fine, it's functional. I wouldn't call it super interesting or sexy. It can be difficult to write good profiles but in general don't be afraid to veer away from the very banal descriptions…
Want to see if it's us or the profile
in Better Profiles ·
Your pic is kind of gross
Help Improving
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Everything is in the eye of the beholder - we tend to like people who are laid back and fun to be around, so profiles that reflect that are attractive. Try to make your profile reflect your personality, not just be a laundry list of things…
Help Improving
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So it's ok; yes, a little blah and boring but also not terrible. The bathroom selfies are always a little blah, though your main picture is good. The text I found a little confusing - it sounds like what you want are some bi experiences wi…
Profile Update
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Your profile had me chuckling. I liked your self-deprecating stuff and I wouldn't get rid of it, though not sure you need as much of it as you do. Also I feel like every other profile has a reference to Ken and Barbie and I always hate it.…
Same old profile
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I didn't love your main picture. As a pic it's fine but there's a lot going on and it isn't very eye catching. You might want something a bit clearer to entice people to click on your profile.
New to the site
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Your pictures are nice, and your profile is nice. The main issue is nice isn't the same as sexy.
Review my profile
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Some editing on your profile would go a long way. It's a little unclear what the situation is with you and your wife. OTOH you are very clear about what you want to do, which is a good thing - bi men threesomes are not something we are int…
Review our Profile
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You guys look great and use complete sentences so that's a big plus #onhere I did think your profile lacked a certain sexiness to it. It just sort of lays everything out there in a not particularly interesting way. There wasn't a lot playf…
Would appreciate honest constructive feedback on our profile.
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So...lots of people are looking for hot times. I didn't get much sense from your profile that you are into that. It sounded more like you wanted lunch companions.
Review and give feedback please. brutally honest preferred.
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It's ok, but a lot of words that don't really say a whole lot. You spend a lot of time describing your personality, which is almost always going to fail. People are going to pick up on your personality by how you say something, not what yo…
Profile review
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So there is something not good about your pictures. Can't put my thumb on it, because you are not ugly, but they are not a turn on. The rest is ok, some of the lines I liked. I think in general having something specific (looking for an old…
Candles
in BDSM ·
I don't really view using candles as particularly wild or something to be concerned about. Heck that's a go to when movies want to show someone is kinky.
Profile review please
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You should keep in mind there are very few single women on here looking for relationships, and your profile makes it sound like that's what you want. If you want to be the inexperienced youngster looking for a woman to teach you, that coul…
Please review our Profile and give us some feedback please!
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It's ok but I found it rather confusing. Like you are soft swap but love cream pies? Also the main pic is mostly smudged out. A pic of just your faces where your faces are smudged out is not much of a picture.
Profile Review for Site Newbies
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I really like the black and white pictures. The profile pic is one of the best I've seen. I liked the writing as well, but it was incomplete. While you describe each other well, I didn't get a good sense of what you're looking for or what…
Profile review and/or suggestions
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It's not bad - your writing is kind of whimsical - which is good. So many profiles are so bland it's barely worth reading them, but yours didn't strike me that way. But your pic is very bland and belly button forward and doesn't match up w…
Need help in getting anyone to reply
There's a saying in porn that the best way for a guy to break in is to bring a girl with you. It's the same in swinging.
Looking for feedback
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It's very nice. But nice and sexy are too different things and you should be aiming more for sexy.
Newer SM needing help with profile
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It's kind of blah, like if Spock from Star Trek wrote it. Your responses here show more personality than your profile.
We'd like a fresh start
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Your profile is the living embodiment of those "Just OK?" commercials. Nearly everyone here is after new experiences. Most people here claim to be in happy relationships. Your pictures are good enough to intrigue someone to want to know an…
Muscular Single White Male Profile, Please Review.
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It doesn't sound like very much fun.
Profile review, please?
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The writing on the profile was kind of a turn off. Sounds scattered and weird.
Re-assessment
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The profile is pretty milquetoast. Pretty much everyone here is trying to have fun, and likes friends, and could go out or stay in. The trick is to stand out, and the only detail about you I could glean is that you like sports.
Profile Tweaks
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I thought it sounded a little clinical, as in setting up a surgery instead of an evening of fun. There are a couple of sentences showing personality, so perhaps try to build on those.
Help
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Use your pictures to show what you look like and use the rest to show what you're into and what your personalities are like.
Single male profile - give it to me
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I was pretty confused by the pictures. Are you a crossdresser?
Please review our profile
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I thought some of the writing was confusing on what you are looking for.
Please take a look
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It's not bad, you guys seem excited and fun. The pics need to be changed though. The one of you guys together looks fun. The others...
Updated profile
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Your pictures are good. Your profile is fine except it really stresses wanting another female. Nothing wrong with that but might turn away interested couples. More of an FYI because you might be fine with that.
Please take a look
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The one picture, no certs raises my fake alarms. Nothing too interesting written down, either.
Single male or couple, who should write first?
in 3-Some ·
I don't think you should get too worried about other people's disappointment. So long as you aren't lying or promising things, no one on here should expect anything just because you sent them a message.
OK, it has to be something
in Better Profiles ·
So your profile (and responses here) are a bit hostile. Some of it suggests you would be fun to hang out with and some of it suggests drama that isn't fun at all. It's hard to tell. I get you don't do certs but those are comforting to sugg…
Profile review
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Your profile is very detailed, and your pictures look fun, but I didn't think your profile sounded very fun.
Are we missing anything? or need any clarification?
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Well it's very long
Updated profile .would like opinions
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It's sort of generic - not in a terrible way - I get that you guys are laid back and looking for fun. It's just it reads like about half of all couple's profiles here and not sure I would remember anything about it.
Profile Feedback Please?
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It shows a lot of personality. My main criticism that it may be worthwhile to start with the fact that you are a triad and what you looking for/wanting right away. I got it by the end (I think), but my main reaction at first was confusion.
Why not the south
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I don't like to answer if I'm not interested at the moment. One, not really into rejecting people. Two, a lot of people aren't really rejected, just more like not right now as opposed to not ever. Sending someone an email saying no seems t…
Profile opinions
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The good is that you have concrete things you are into and I can tell what you like from your profile. The bad is that neither your pictures or words display much personality so it's not very memorable and doesn't stand out.
Words that turn you off in a profile
in Swinger Advice ·
There's a scale there. Very judgy profiles are huge turn offs. We won't message or respond. Mildly judgy sounding profiles aren't as much of a turn off, but they certainly aren't a turn on. None of this is to say we don't have preferences…
Words that turn you off in a profile
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I think you are missing the bigger picture. The topic is words in profiles that turn you off. Not what makes people racist. Everyone has preferences. Everyone poops too. Doesn't mean talking about it in your profile will turn us on.
Words that turn you off in a profile
in Swinger Advice ·
Sure, everyone has the right to their preferences. But you don't have the right that your preferences turn others on.
Words that turn you off in a profile
in Swinger Advice ·
I don't know that it needs to be defined. A turn off is a turn off. Lots of people don't like dick pics, even if they like dicks.
Words that turn you off in a profile
in Swinger Advice ·
Of course everyone has preferences. But the way one lists them can be sound judgmental and is a huge turn off.
Words that turn you off in a profile
in Swinger Advice ·
Any profile that rules out black people = nope Language about ruling out body types of others is usually a nope = "we expect fitness," stuff like that. Really, anything that's talking about judging other people is kind of a turn off.
Hot husband seeking helpful advice!?
What is shit gardening?
Thanks for feedback
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I can't say I really get much sense of who you are or what you're about from your profile.
Tweaking the verbiage
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One suggestion is to clean up your writing. "Connecting with people via seductive methods. Love meeting new people; can be shy at first meet especially when attracted to the female, but warm up quickly. Open to playing on the first date, b…