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Why do people lie on here so much?
Why do people say they are looking for single straight males and then when one write or post on here ( or a hot date) they all seems to suddenly not be looking. I do not understan…
by wolfpak6910110replies1,034viewsOn Vacation in Virginia This Week . Anyone like to have a drink at our timeshare?
Wife and I are away from home (NY) and far from family and work obligations (woohoo!) - but only until tomorrow, Friday. If any gentleman would like to enjoy a drink at our timesh…
0replies280viewsWhat is AA couple?
We see people describe themselves and what they are looking for as an "AA couple". We've been swingers for 22 years and have been in many situations, but still we wonder what it m…
by two4twoinpa28replies2,143viewsWayne's reply to Kik posts
Wayne replied in another thread then locked it. Here is his reply. "A good alternative for private messaging is using this site. That is the whole purpose of this site being creat…
31replies2,162viewsWhat everyone doing for Halloween?
Carnival Inspiration Ruiz’s October 28,2019 of of Long Beach Ca
12replies925viewsDocumentaries on swinging/BDSM/etc
Any suggestions for interesting documentaries on swinging, BDSM, sexuality in general? Watched James Franco's Kink, thought it was pretty boring. Any others, preferably with links?
1replies493viewsGood bars or clubs in New Jersey where swingers go to just hang out?
Like the title says, not looking for organized parties, but just simply places where people in the lifestyle might go casually. I've heard Cuba Mia in Parsippany is a pretty good…
6replies472viewsHawthorn Community Swingers ?????
I know there are swingers in Hawthorn Community Florida on HWY 27. How can I find them. How do I advertise. We live here and would like to meet them... If anyone knows how or if y…
2replies458viewsMassage for wife
Hi All, My wife and I will be in Cabo San Lucas for a couple weeks starting 10/12 and I’d like to get her a sensual massage. I know there are happy ending places everywhere for gu…
by fireball2104replies545viewsBeing involuntarily outed: How common a problem?
Many of us are in careers or communities where being know as swingers would be bad. It makes many of us nervous, but how big of a problem is this in the swingerverse? How often ar…
11replies1,116viewsSwinger signs!!!!!!
Hi! So I’m new to this and was curious if anyone had any insight of clues if ya person is a swinger! I heard pinapples but I’d like to know what everyone says!!
by Acorrado9190replies464views[LOCKED]Kik replacement?
Hi All. As I am sure you have heard, Kik is supposedly shutting down. It hasn't happened yet, but if it does, what are some good alternatives for private messaging?
by Ridderhd1replies487viewsHelp a beginner
Life is all about creating experiences. I'm new to the lifestyle and have no idea what I actually want. Im fonding more and more about myself every day. Finding it hard to find be…
by Kljavm194replies605viewsMiami's swing clubs
We will be in Miami November 22nd before leaving on a cruise, are there any swing clubs open on that evening?
by glamerfun1replies433viewsRegret/jealousy
My husband and I are interested in swinging. He's worried after the fun Regret or jealousy would take over. What do you think? I'm really looking for the woman's perspective.
12replies1,160viewsVanilla Wives
I've got a question for which I'd welcome both male and female opinions. Having been a working musician all my adult life, and spent a lot of time working in bars and night clubs.…
by MusicalPair9replies929viewsAdult sex playground
Okay, we are looking for ideas to put up on our 10 private acres. We want to make a "Sex Playground" for adults. We have a sex swing up, sex table with straps, sex swing, trampoli…
20replies2,225viewsHold the door, hold the door
Does anyone else find this odd? I seem to have this need to have to hold the door for someone? I find myself questioning myself (what the hell am I doing?) Especially at the gym!…
15replies1,370viewsYoung Frankenstein or Blazing Saddles?
Which Mel Brooks one is your favorite. And which scene. Mine has to be when Peter Boyle meets Gene Hackman Frankenstein meets the blind man
by peopleplay34replies1,528viewsCheaters double standard
I've been in/out of the LS for over 20 years and during that time, there seems to be a double standard when it comes to those who cheat. When a single male is in the LS and is che…
10replies1,263viewsNewbie question about events
Wife and I were going to go to the event in Bham, AL last weekend, but she kinda got cold feet and we backed out. The event was the "naughty school girl" event. I was just wonderi…
4replies596viewsPHOTOS
Is anyone else having problems downloading photos....how about with chatting or anything else here....We hare having problems with both.....
5replies865viewsCloaked?
While we enjoy the contacts we receive on the SLS messaging system, we sometimes hear from folks who obviously have read our profile, but do not show up on our "Who Viewed ..." fe…
by weplayinDX6replies532viewsTOPIC MOVED to Politics Sad state of SLS
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by fishooked0replies764viewsMessages is down again
Messaging is down again. And again, as late as yesterday, some of my message to other members can’t be found unless I send them a new message. Also when opening a ticket there is…
by AbstractFun7replies535viewsAnybody wanna play doctor?
Well, that's done. At the ripe young age of 59 years, 11 months, and 20 days. 2,436 days after I started, 6 job changes, 4 moves, two grandchildren. You can call me Tbrmskss, Ph.D…
by tbrmskss22replies1,309viewsSingle males
What is anyones thoughts on men who say they are single but really arent or married men who say their wives dont know they are on the site? My hubby and i made the decision to not…
by gary76710replies1,482viewsWhen, where and how did you start in the lifestyle?
I have always considered myself non-monogamous. My first threesome experience was probably 1975-76. I was 15-16. It was at my girlfriend's (later wife) parents house with her and…
by tbrmskss0replies535viewsis there a bi hormon?
Finding it very interesting that ever since we started dabbling in the LS, and even more so as we've gotten more into it, women who we thought were vanilla have made advances on m…
2replies538viewsGood book on swinging
A Modern Marriage, good book on this couples road to swinging. I read it now the wife is!
1replies509viewsPHOTOS
Trying to open my personal photos for IM chat friends. ????????? What do I do ....hard to get hold of the Help people
2replies560viewsRemodeling advice
My husband and I were discussing the renovations of our recently purchased lakehouse tonight. He mentioned finding an eco-friendly stripper that won't harm the wood. Any idea wher…
21replies1,479viewsNo comment
Been reaching out lately to try and meet like minded people do to traveling. Get a lot of looks and no response. Anyone else experienced the same result? Has common courtesy gone…
21replies1,447viewsMessages isn't work
Quick issue before I head out to work. Messages isn't working. I can't open or see any. I tried to create a ticket, but not sure if it's working. Since a ticket uses the messaging…
by AbstractFun8replies553viewsNaughty in Nawlins
Curious if anyone has ever attended Naughty in Nawlins, any recommendations, tips about attending? Where did you stay? Are there single males allowed? Thanks everyone
by 3isSuperSexy6replies592viewsIs this site dying?
The community here seems to be dying. We have the same profile on other sites and have quite a lot of traffic and fun. Here I see a general lack of trust level. Folks are removing…
by Wearefun80517replies1,502viewsPaying for college
I'm curious if anyone has heard of a parent suing the other parent (their ex) for their child's college expenses? Meaning that the one parent is forced to pay half of the college…
32replies1,692viewsPolishing my windshield
The windshield on my bike has so many little scratches that riding into the sun makes it very difficult to see. Any added dirt makes it worse. So I have collected a stash of suppl…
9replies618viewsAnyone else watching Mindhunter?
Me and my husband have really gotten into Mindhunter on Netflix lately. Anyone else notice the scene in episode two of the second season where the BTK Killer’s wife makes him slee…
0replies338viewsLooking for penpals
Kind of a strange request. Would anyone like to snail mail/ pen pal with me? I think it would be a fun way to get to know other people and not necessarily on a sexual basis. Let m…
9replies528viewsWhy bother have free members
Why Does SLS still have free members? They are totally dead in the system and now serve no purpose.
by letsparti25replies1,725viewsWho are these guys.
We have been getting a lot of messages from single guys and all their pics are in a bathroom mirror with a picture of the toilet in the background. That is not a way to make a goo…
by bsfirerock13replies656viewsRimming
Recently decided to start experimenting with rimming females. It is fabulous and quite enjoyable, however, what do you ladies think about it? Do you enjoy it and should a partner…
by hottub2some2replies573viewsSexual situations with Vanilla
How do you deal with a situation such as this? A women who has been flirting with me for a few years and lately has turned the conversation to somewhat of a more sexual nature, co…
by hedo2forus16replies1,396viewsCan't see messag s received on Iphone 5c
Hey we can't see the full message on our Iphone 5 c when we click on the message. We can see it on our computer. Anyone know what to do to correct this? Thanks!
by owcangrace2replies333viewsCigar smokers post one of your favorites
My Father Ct Rocky Patel 1990 Are two of my favorites.
by WrsjNC784replies470viewsHow far would you go?
So..I met this young single female couple weeks ago. We did not play but met up for dinner. We hit it off, she was cool. But since two weeks she's been having trouble in personal…
by koolfriend117replies1,198viewsWhy do couples swing?
I obviously know why we do. With all the jealous peeps out there, what makes all of you want to share??
5replies749viewsReligion
Yes, we are touching on a taboo subject. But pagans/Wiccans are good purveyors of sex magic and not all but most are polyamorous or open. We started a pagan/Wiccan group on SLS bu…
17replies1,513viewsGroups
Going to be traveling to Birmingham and have tried to join some local groups that share some of the same interests. Seems people start groups and don't monitor or stay active. Any…
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