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Swingers in Europe

Thanks for the SDC recommendation. Heard this a few times now. I might just need to sign up for a short time to see.

Swingers in Europe

Thank you very much for the answers so far. I'll definitely add the hotdates. :) Mark

Swingers in Europe

Hello all, I'll be visiting Europe for the first time. I was wondering how I can communicate with other swingers in the area or visiting the area. It doesn't seem like SLS is a popular site at the places I will visit. Does anyone have any…

New IM system -- can't see all of my history

So, with this new IM system, I've noticed that I can't view some of my old messages (the ones I sent using the new system). Even some of the ones I sent or received two days ago, I can't see them. It's embarrassing because I would reach ou…

Messages is down again

Messaging is down again. And again, as late as yesterday, some of my message to other members can’t be found unless I send them a new message. Also when opening a ticket there is no way to know if the ticket was sent. After pressing send,…

Messages isn't work

Quick issue before I head out to work. Messages isn't working. I can't open or see any. I tried to create a ticket, but not sure if it's working. Since a ticket uses the messaging system and the messaging system is down, I don't know if on…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

I’ve definitely stopped recommending this site and have actively sought out others. I’ve also contacted less and less members on here each week. Just don’t feel the urge to send such an informal message knowing that it’ll not be welcomed f…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Not trying to boast, but I've been invited to join SDC so many times and each time I just decline. Maybe it's time I take it seriously. Heck, I still have a few cards members have given me, promising free or discounted access to many thing…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

It's been about two weeks. 80 hours of work. Assuming they hired 10 developers/programers, that's 800 hours. Just a couple of more weeks, everyone!!!! Of course if all they hired was one person, we still got a 40 plus more weeks to go. On…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Yeah, that was the other fear, that I may get blocked. But the hope is that they will go to the IMs, as Mayhem said, that's how they clear it.

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Thank you for the suggestions. I reached out to them and added an apology. My only fear is that, they won't check the IMs at all and have been waiting for the bird, which has sadly gone the way of the dodo bird.

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Visiting Orlando for a few days and am trying to send someone a message. Profile says, they don't read IMs. Another profile says, don't send IMs. What am I to do? Missed opportunities it seems. If only sls sent out warnings before the chan…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

I'm a young one. :) . I will say the reason why I like email is because it's more formal. The very concept of IM is not that. It is very informal. I don't know if SLS could change how people think of IMs. They are basically telling the end…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Here are some thoughts: How about blocking people who can't convey their opening messages in less than 250 characters? Or, give a very critical reply, lambasting those who can't be terse and right to the point. I mean, how hard is it to ju…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

I love to be proven wrong in this respect. We shall see I guess. BTW, just sent my first message. Nicely written on a Word document with full paragraphs and complete sentences. Proofread what I wrote. Copied and pasted on the IM thing and…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

I'm a lifetime member and I'm afraid that my voice will not be heard. SLS has very little incentives to listen to me. I think my 2-3 years here is finally at its end. It was a good run. I hope I can continue, but it's not looking good at t…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Amazon, Please don’t give them anymore stupid ideas. They seem to gravitate towards the stupid ideas. And thank you for confirming the vetting process, caple. Whew. I didn’t think I was crazy to ask for verification.

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

I agree, Independent. This is getting really strange. Almost feels like we are talking to a guy who doesn't really work for sls. Almost feels like Wayne's account has been hacked and we've all been talking to a person who is just trolling.…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Wait, so my asking them to prove they are real is asking for too much? Asking for evidence after they repeatedly demand more pictures is too much? I am really amazed by this. Truly, I am. How many times have couples asked me for proof and…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Scamp, Based on what Wayne has said, I don't think our testimony is credible. We are basing it on bad data and presenting it as fact. Fact: people who have complained in this thread are basing their complaints on poor data. Years of commun…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Wayne, So you're an investigator as well as a customer service rep for sls? Your method of investigation appears to have holes based on the things you've said so far. And you also evaluate the SLS data that is based on logic and commonsens…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Wayne, How are you concluding that there are zero picture collectors in your time working here? I really want to know. I have reported many pictures collectors during my time here. How have the site investigated these reports? I find it ut…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Vabeach, My guess is beciase they ran out of space and don’t want to spend more money to buy space. Also, external email alerts were removed. I asked Wayne and he said I needed to talk to my external email providers about it. But he’s not…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Very well said, Amazon and vacouple. So Wayne knew this was coming for a long time. No one here did. Didn’t seem like much research or user input was taken into consideration. As of there were, many would have known about it. I hope the ad…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Gr8, Where I work, there are four means of communications: phone, in person, mail, and IM. There are reasons for each of these. To make it short, IMs are when people need the reply right away. It's like a chat! Emails are more formal, and…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Cacple, Thank you for the input. Maybe it is a bs profile. Wayne did follow up by saying that he isn't sure if that profile is viewable by the general public. Kind of odd if you ask me. Why have a profile when it's not viewable by members?…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

I've already expressed my concern to Wayne. He gave me the owner's contact on here, but I am not able to find that profile. Don't know what Wayne can do, but he basically told me to adapt or this site won't be of any use for me. The issue…

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Is there a way we can all write a letter to the owner of the site about this change? This change really is terrible. The lack of an email function really makes communication very informal.

SLS KILLED email? WTF!?

Yeah, not very happy about this. Many IMs that couples and single ladies receive are unwelcome. So, now my chances of meeting nice people become even more slim. WTF? Did SLS even take a poll on this idea? To add, they removed a decent emai…