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Happy Thoughts 2019
I’m happy to have my friends and family and a roof over my head. I’m also happy to have made it this far, when things were definitely not going in my favor.
374replies20,844viewsSLS pre-determining Hotdate Match
We are a couple with a Hotwife who enjoys playing solo (without me) with couples or single males. So technically we do identify her as “single female”. When we look at Hotdates we…
16replies869viewsBlack Wedding Bands
Is there any real message being sent within the lifestyle community when someone wears a black wedding band on their right hand? The vanilla community (via Google searches) seems…
by tripped41replies480viewsGetting profile views mostly from people 2k miles away only
Like the title says, our profile has recently gotten a lot of views from people on the other side of the country. Which if fine, except that we want to play with people nearby. Ho…
by Thekinks696replies462viewsSpokane Free Members
Okay , I understand why people use the Free Membership but really Spokane over 90% of you are FREE MEMBERS. This is not High School but yet many of you act like it is a dare to be…
by Gent6514replies1,103viewsWhat has happened to the Calender
Hotdates Calendar has changed and now censors who can see events and dates by age range and sex. WTF
by mastrd6989replies4,221viewsNot having much luck
You'll probably get better responses to this question if you post a review request in the Better Profiles forum. Even reading a bunch of other profile reviews will give you an ide…
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Hawthorne at Leesburg ???
We live here and are looking for lifestyle couples in our community. We know you are living here but have no idea how to contact you. If you see this and are interested look us up…
4replies501viewsHawthorne and plantations
Any lifestyle couples in Hawthorne or plantations that would like to meet for a drink..
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Birmingham, AL Hotels
Does anyone know of an inexpensive hotel in or around Birmingham that allows check-ins before noon?
by owrsecret3replies446views- 1replies362views
PIcky and selective
There's nothing wrong with being picky, or selective (to use the milder term), and don't let anyone tell you different. Just be realistic about what that means. No matter what cri…
by sorillo100047replies3,204views- 2replies491views
Merry Christmas
We hope everyone has a wonderful day today and can spend it with people they love
by knkynucple2replies368viewsUnicorn - Helpful tips on how to be a Great one
With the LS there are so many rules and since I am new and just know what I would request if I was the Mrs, I would appreciate all the help that y'all can offer. 1 - Always make s…
by ButrflyJess2replies404viewsWhat's up in New Orleans for NYE?
Some things changed that may give us some free time and we are thinking about making a trip somewhere that week. Yes, I know this is not exactly planning ahead LOL. Things to do a…
2replies350viewsDear Santa, 2019
It's that time of year again! It's time to climb up into Santa's lap and tell that jolly old elf what your heart desires. Merry Christmas to all! XOX, Kibby
by kibblesnbits10replies1,149viewsBlocked for no reason?
Has it happened to you? One day you open a profile and user blocked you? But you never wrote them,... simply blocked. Several people around here have blocked me for no reason. (I…
93replies5,745viewsOVERWHELMED BY THE ATTENTION AND SUPPORT!
WOW!! JUST WOW! WE WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE for their attention and outpouring efforts of kind words and support to and for Us newbies. Again, THANK YOU SO MUCH! LET THE PARTY…
1replies424viewsNo interracial .
Most couples who state they won’t play with other “races” are Caucasian... I imagine there’s a man with a tiny pecker afraid of losing the game they start. I think the male feels…
46replies3,257viewsMeeting places in Detroit area
Do anybody know of any places in Detroit area where Bi women hangout at besides the swinger clubs.
by Fred3571replies446viewsYOU Can be a SLUT !
“We don’t want you to think we’re sluts.” A confessional that a few different LS couples have uttered to us during our tenure. And it always stops me. Not at all because of their…
50replies3,725viewsPictures
Does it irritate anyone else that people have same pics up for over 5 years??? It's not that hard to update.
by sexylulous664replies552viewsAnyone going to Hedonism II Jamaica, Jan / Feb 2021
We are looking into dates.....
40replies1,771viewsMeeting places in Detroit area
Do anybody know of any places in Detroit area where Bi women hangout at besides the swinger clubs.
by Fred3570replies332viewsWe're Slingers
Not sure if this has been discussed but what's the general consensus on Sling's meshing of their service and swinging? We always smile when we see it and like the pun. We love the…
7replies871viewsPegging /strapon
I know this topic has been brought up in the past, but out of curiosity How do women really feel about using a strap-on with their husband / bf ? My wife said she really enjoys it…
by bibiker18002replies598viewsTantric massage
How do we find a real hot tantric massage, not just guys who say they can massage my wife
by NatandJ0replies365viewsAdderall
Wondering if anyone can shed light on adderall's effects during sex, especially from the male perspective. I've heard about increased libido, but does it change sensitivity or any…
5replies773viewsSex/Mood setting music?
Pretty straight forward...When hosting, what music do you play to set the mood and/or while having sex? Thanks!
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BHM or BBM - Any takers?
So, BBW's have gotten a lot of love over the years. What about the larger bodied men? Are there any women (or men) out there who are attracted to men with who aren't buff?
by hairybuddah1replies464viewsHow to approve new photos?
We got the lifetime but cant see where to go to approve new photos. This seems like fun foreplay
by Silverado213replies451viewsLounges in the villages
Any suggestions on where to go in the villages to meet lifestyle friends
8replies786viewsHow far would you travel to play ?????
Just a topic that comes up often with us. Some couples say that 50 mies is too far. We often travel that far and more, say 75 miles to meet and play or attend a function. I guess…
20replies1,684viewsSwinger signs!!!!!!
Hi! So I’m new to this and was curious if anyone had any insight of clues if ya person is a swinger! I heard pinapples but I’d like to know what everyone says!!
by Acorrado91917replies2,134views- 1replies334views
Need help with photos
Alright, i see so many profiles with these amazing pictures of seductive sexy ladies in various states of undress and when i try to catch my smokong hot wife in something sexy it…
8replies659viewsOrlando in December
Bringing family to universal. What's close for mom and dad to sneak away for an evening. Family fun during the day. Mom and Dad fun for a night.
by 2hdshovel1replies339viewsInconsiderate people
Why do people sign up for events lie about coming till 1 hour prior then not show up Or come up with some bs story? A little courtesy would be great when we lay out money and take…
by Juicebox6743replies422viewsMale wanting to please his wife!
Being on SLS we already know that as a group in general we have a different mindset about sex than others. Having said that, as the Male half of a couple I love my wife to act lik…
by cplnok200013replies1,315viewsExperienced BBC-only cuckold couple (petite 23F) looking for new bulls in NYC
See our profile and contact us if you're black, 6'+, 8"+ and in the NY area!
by bkcuckcouple0replies388viewsPlease explain to me
Why are there so many posts without pics of the male half? I don't know how most couples think, but my woman wants to know how HE looks too! I'm not suggesting dick pics, but at l…
12replies1,277viewsPlay rooms/areas for house parties?
We are no where near experienced and socialized enough yet in the lifestyle to host parties. Hopefully we get an invite or two in the future. But I've been told no one in our area…
26replies1,326viewsViitiligo in the lifestyle?
Hi All! First post in the forums here, we recently became lifetime members. We're looking for some feedback on how to approach vitiligo in the lifestyle? She has is on her inner t…
10replies1,089viewsConundrum
Explain to him that you have no male sexual desires. That's it. Pretty simple. If it is a deal breaker for him, you lost them. If it isn't, congrats, you found a couple.
by eroticamazon3replies534viewsFake Profiles and Feedback.
I know of a SM that occasionally posts in the forums who’s main (and possibly only) picture is of him in a suit. He has ALOT if certs and, though I’ve never met him, I know he’s l…
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