Looking for penpals

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

Danny,

If you last inquiry was directed at us, the answer is no, thank you. We do not share our address with strangers from the inter web. Neither of us are interested in single men (wife likes men, just doesn’t want to to talk/write to them). And, neither of us have time for additional correspondence.

I’m sensing a lot of eyes rolling, head shaking, and raised eyebrows behind all of the other posts in this thread. I’ve chosen to be kind, and to give you the benefit of the doubt. It’s quite possible that you are just a young, naive man. I hope that’s the case.
Talk less, listen more. That’s my advise for you. Learn by observing the more experienced people on this site. Don’t post anything for a couple months. Drink lots of water. Nobody on this site appreciates thirsty young men. Don’t be that guy.

Sault Sainte Marie, MI, Us

My address? I never give out my home address. Privacy and discretion are way too important. Our house is a no play zone.

I wouldn't give out a lot of details about my personal life either. That feels way to invasive.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

If there isn't enough to share, I'll go make my own batch. A big one. ;-)

DannySwinger, while I'm sympathetic to your desire to make connections, my inner cynic wants to know why in hell you want my actual physical address. It feels really intrusive and a little bit creepy.

And given there is a perfectly adequate instant messaging system right here on SLS, your desire for email addresses is almost equally incomprehensible.

cacpl_26Regular
Santa Clarita, CA, Us

"I would like to know if there are any couples out there that have done this lifestyle to the extreme. What I mean by that is have you gotten married and had children and still go out with other couples? Would love to hear about that."

A lot of couples are interested in single men. But that right there is an automatic nope. No way I'd consider anyone interested in getting to know anything about my children or my family life.

Charleston, WV, Us

Are you both looking for single males?

If you want to write letters back and forth that would be fun. I'll send you a message with my address if your interested.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

For the record, I don’t think the pen pal idea is a completely terrible idea, I just think that’s it’s a bit midguided. I can understand the desire to get a deeper understanding of the lifestyle, but the best bet for that are the fora.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

Danny,
You telling RonKat that “ No one really wants a single male” is funny/ironic/bad idea.

Have ya read any of their posts?

Charleston, WV, Us

RonKathy

I do want to play. That's why I paid for this website. I try to work really hard in finding someone who will join in my adventures. No one really wants a single male. So why not try starting out as friends? Plus I want to get to know a little more about the culture.

Charleston, WV, Us

Kind of a strange request. Would anyone like to snail mail/ pen pal with me? I think it would be a fun way to get to know other people and not necessarily on a sexual basis. Let me know if you want my email or address to send me a letter. I've been snail mailing for years so I generally reply within a few days. If you don't know what "snail mail" means, it essentially another word for sending letters through the post. Not to get confused with general email pen paling.