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Stumptown on ABC (LS portrayal)
Hey, did anyone catch the season finale on Stumptown? A main storyline in the episode revolves around law enforcement surveillance at a Swinger club. If you did watch it, what are…
by a1989Couple4replies534viewsWho owns a Tiger here?
after watching Tiger King seems like anyone that owns a tiger has multiple partners or is in the swinger lifestyle.... maybe thats the key to single male success!!! anyway... lets…
by AandKForFun7replies442viewsIt’s 5:30pm EST
And everyone that was messaging all day has suddenly disappeared. Hmm...
0replies292viewsYou can tell everyone is getting bored at home
Due to the whole virus and stay at home quarantines etc. I can tell that people nationwide are getting a bit bored and browsing the internet a lot more. We used to average about o…
20replies1,357viewsAlways Look on the Bright Side of Life
While this whole COVID-19 has been a huge pain in the ass for many of us, and a disaster for others, a few positives may have come out of the situation, albeit some may be tempora…
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Why do men pick out men for their wives online?
I just got through speaking to another "couple" which happens to just be the male half doing all the work. They typically set up the page, pick the pictures, do the selecting, the…
21replies2,065viewsHow are you handling all the LS venue shutdowns?
We're focusing more on just going out and flirting with other couples, but real hesitant on anything more for the time being. How're you all approaching this?
by 6zcouple4replies692viewsBest Way(s) to Broach the LifeStyle Topic to Potential SO
I got into the LifeStyle because I have a high libido and tired of “waiting” while trying to find a Significant Other. I’m on a vanilla dating site, still hoping to find a SO. I h…
by Zeemac16replies1,250viewsRedneck
How are all the redneck couples doing with all this talk about shutting down everything. We are still up and running for a little longer here in Indiana but who knows how much lon…
by AshNdave3317replies1,499viewsWhat is the best site to put on a free erotic cam show
Wifes horny and with no parties or hit dates she wants to put on a cam show and make me watch. Any free adult oriented sites you could suggest?
by ZukeyCpl1replies397viewsVideo Dating in the time of Social Distancing
She perhaps a little too much wine, him an extra glass of Scotch got the conversation rolling. Before the virus changed all of our lives, we had planned to meet a couple for dinne…
by Phxfunx21replies345viewsIs it Guys or Women in couples profiles more active?
I am wondering what the ratio is if its the guy in the couples profile is the one seeking or is it the woman? Who is more active on the profile? Or do both of you actually sit dow…
by lenoircple7replies566viewsCabin Fever
Hows everyone coping with their self quarantines? How are you all dealing with your sexual urges? Are you still going out to events/parties?
by BigBlackArm8replies981viewsProfessional >The Word
Professional! I think if I hear that work one more time I'm going to puke. Hearing that is like to me seeing The Andy Griffith show, Friends, Everybody loves Raymond and I love Lu…
by dragonrapide41replies2,189viewsBed and breakfast
Anyone know of any nude and sexual free bed and breakfast or inns in the southeast?
by descreetx427replies518viewsLatinos in the lifestyle
Hey, I wanted to create a thread on here to carve out a little spot for us Latinos to get together, and talk shit over some virtual cafesito. I want to see that Latin flavor come…
by 6zcouple12replies1,124viewsShut down state?
If they shut down the state, what would u do, as far as playing? 1. Not play at all. 2. Get a live n lover or lovers for those weeks. 3. If u r married, would u let your hot wife…
by Ironman19754replies436viewsPrivacy In The LS is about to CHANGE BIG TIME
I've always wondered how folks could post their face pictures on swing sites. I mean I guess if you're family knows that's okay and all. But I still wonder how people with regular…
by BruuceWayne10replies1,511viewsLeave politics out of swinging.
Have been noticing more and more people putting in profile that they will reject people based on political beliefs. Why do some let that get in the way of being friends with other…
21replies1,471viewsShamrock Marathon Canceled
I kind of knew this was going to happen... The Virginia Beach Shamrock Marathon is canceled and this was the year I was going to finally beat Oprah’s time. That and we had a Playd…
3replies394viewsMessages
Hi everyone! Have a question about messages on here. We were pretty excited when we found this site because it looked way more legit and we figured there wouldn’t be as many fakes…
10replies998viewsInconspicuous erotic/sexual art suggestions?
We are going to be ordering a print that is around 3'x3' for our sex room. It will be hinged to the wall and serve to conceal our spanking tools behind it on a rack. As of now we'…
16replies1,057viewsBlacklight options for playroom?
We would like to play with UV reactive paraffin candles, but want to make sure whatever blacklight we go with is both simple/portable and can just plug and play rather than needin…
2replies350viewsFemale players
I'm female and I'm looking for a female friend/playmate. Why are they so hard to find? I'm pretty, clean, respectful and discreet. Can someone give me some advice?
3replies640viewsAdvice needed to tell or not to tell
Just found out recently that a very close friend of ours ( female) slept with what we now know is a bisexual guy. The guy is pulling this secret shit on the side of being with fol…
10replies1,114viewsFriend’s list
People keep appearing on my friend’s list. I have not requested them as friends. What gives? If so many people are wanting to be my friend, why aren’t I getting laid more?
by Hunter446013replies1,192viewsSwingers Podcast
Ok SLS Folks.. we have a SLS couple who has a podcast on SLS. WE have talked with them via IM and really seem very interesting and fun to be around. How about everyone support a f…
by RonKathy4replies668views2020 Happy Thought of the Day
HT: (almost) every time I go to Canada I bring an empty, insulated backpack. On the trip home, that backpack will have around 25 pounds of peameal bacon in it as a carryon. Always…
24replies1,511viewsMoms Ball in New Orleans?
At Mardi Gras and someone told us about Moms Ball. Wondering how you get an invitation? Would love to go next year.
2replies517viewsCert question.
Hello all, I joined SLS on the suggestion of a mate last year, stayed here about two months then left. Life got busy and such, But I digress. My question is about Certs! How does…
by Tsarlupin4replies475viewsPickleball Player Swingers?
It would be fun to meet other PPS at a resort (nude or vanilla) or somewhere Pickleball is played (inside or outside) to get to know each other while playing Pickleball, then, aft…
by Zeemac11replies1,159viewsWhat's around Cape Coral FL area?
Cape Coral is a part of FL we know little about, but it looks like I have an upcoming Friday business meeting in the area so we debated about spending the weekend down there. Any…
8replies534viewsHappy Valentines Day to all the beautiful people in this Lifestyle
Happy a Valentines Day to all the beautiful people on this site! We hope you all were fortunate enough to spend some time with the one who bring happiness to your ?? This world ne…
by Bellacoppia00replies287viewsCurious: How many couples or singles, when browsing, do this
I have. I’ve also found that those visiting my profile will sometimes do the same. BT
by bridgetender9replies1,069viewshiding faces
what is the point of hiding or darkening your faces especially the ladies what do you ladies have to hide
by shyguy1975121replies1,286viewsTesting my bi curious needs?
I am looking to find a couple to test my bi curious side....as a couple...not with a male alone. Any interest in being the "testers"? Not, of course, all about me as the lady is a…
by steve1945451replies412viewshow to open Personal Gallery
Just so I'm clear, I am able to open my "Private" Gallery by tapping the icon on the Member's profile. My problem is when I try to open the PERSONAL gallery the same way (tap the…
by AzDubs3replies354viewsDo you ever wonder about
So here is a question to ponder. Does being in the lifestyle change the way you look at people you know or meet in non-lifestyle situations? Do you ever come across someone at wor…
by DBCooperMN20replies1,272viewsPeople that seem to have rejection issues.
I'm just wondering how often others run into this sort of thing? You answer a message with a no thank you....in a polite way. Thank you but we are not looking for any singles at t…
7replies735viewsMusic
What's your favorite song to have sex to? Assuming of course that you like to have music playing during sex.
5replies403viewsThe best place to go in Mexico, open vacation?
We are looking to go in May. We have been to hedonism II
1replies391viewsHow do I create a gallery?
For the life of me I can't figure out how to post pictures to a gallery or even make one! Halp!
2replies348viewsWine suggestions?
We're meeting a new couple next Saturday that we've really connected well with so far. They've invited us to their home for drinks and we would like to bring a nice bottle of wine…
101replies3,884viewsProfile Performances…
We have been in the LS for a few years now. Enough time for me to make some observations about profiles on here. Most of these are meant to be satirical comments so please don’t t…
62replies4,846viewsUpdating photos on profile.
Why is it that people do not update their photos? What are some of the reasons that you might have? I personally update my photos once a month in my book there is no excuse we all…
75replies3,044viewsTaking a break/hiding profile
Anyone know how I can "hide" my profile so thst I am not visible. I would like to take a break from all the messages and just focus on the people I have met. I dont want to delete…
by SJCH202013replies821viewsParty games?
Not sure if this is a thing, but at house/parties what games are played? Maybe some serve as icebreakers while others are fun for well-established friends.
18replies1,177viewsNew IM system -- can't see all of my history
So, with this new IM system, I've noticed that I can't view some of my old messages (the ones I sent using the new system). Even some of the ones I sent or received two days ago,…
by AbstractFun0replies372viewsthe messageing opption
I can't seem to send any messages, anyone else having this problem?
by billnsuzie6replies508views
