Not that you haven’t already done so, but when all else fails, shoot a note to the group admin (now that I say that, not sure if you can see who that is without member access??) or email a couple or single in that area who have/has a SM-friendly profile and ask for advice.
Until about 18 months ago, I’d spent almost 70% of my time on the road, and found that if you’re genuinely sincere, people will point you in the right direction.
Good luck,
BT

