A family member on sls

I think they kind of noticed each other and stayed away from each other on opposite sides of the club.

Omg and what happened to?

We are a host couple at an area club. 2 ladies came in together, one had been there before but the other was new, so we gave her her tour.

I went to check on her later in the night (I always like to check on all the newbies and make sure they're ok).

She was over on one side of the club ... checked on her and talked yo her for a min. Then I walked over to the other side of the club and started talking to a friend who is the male half of another host couple there (they weren't working that night ) ... he then says to me "That girl over there you were just talking to ... that's my neice"

You read the message.

That one got a giggle out of me.

My ex's daughter (my former step daughter) reached out to me a few years ago and confided that she and her husband were going to try out the LS and asked for advice. (She knew I had been a swinger for years) I gave her pointers, including how to set up a profile that would align with their goals and desires. T also gave her advice as one woman to another. Then, before she uploaded any pics, we both agreed that we'd be setting up a block so to never stumble upon one another. Since they live in a different state, there was also no worry about crossing paths at a party. Given that her mother would never condone her daughter's choices, let alone understand or be helpful, I was glad that she came to us for help.

Neither of us have ever known of any blood relatives of ours who were swinging. However, we do know of other swingers who do. The general arrangement we've seen across the board with these folks has been to take steps to not cross paths at parties and avoid playing with the same people.

Saw my sister and her boyfriend’s profile on SLS….after browsing their pics and furiously masterbating, we blocked their profile.

We would be proud of our kids if we saw them on a swinger site, more proud if we saw them swinging in person. Same goes for our friends and neighbors, even our minister and his wife. We feel sex is freedom, great exercise for the body as well as the brain. Since we have become swingers we have very few morals, or modesty. Feel free to contact us we share.

Carefully asses the real question, why are they also on here lol

Was your sister dressed or nude? That could be very embarrassing or enjoyable

Attended a house party with 16 people there. One gal was my cousin with a male friend, not her husband. No one was dressed. Very awkward. She had a Banging Body.

Well eventually i told them and they block me lol

We've run into neighbors & co-workers at meet & greets & clubs. No one ever outed each other. Haven't run into family members but it would be awkward if they were in the same club playroom or house party having sex across the way. Lol!

Our daughter and her husband have a profile, we just agreed to not show up at our local club at the same time! More power to them, wish we would have started at their age! Happy swinging!

Not having sex with a family member.. BUT they are here for same reason as you.. wish them luck and share some experiences if not to awkward.. or like said prior.. smile and move on... probably what we would do.

I would reply and know that is not too bad......they put it out there....so why worry about it

Don't message back, just ignore the message.
Remember they are on here for the same reason you are so no sense in outing each other.
Something similar has happened to us at our local club, we just gave each other a devil's grin and moved on not one word was ever said.

That's HOT !!

Either block them and hope they didn't message you because they know who you are. Or address it with them that you know who they are

Was at a party once and my sister walked in... lol

By "Family Member", what do you mean? And when they messaged you, did they know you were family?

I think the answers to those questions determine how to proceed. If they know it was you, blocking them doesn't undo that knowledge. Remember, you know they are in the lifestyle as much as they know you are in the lifestyle. So any fear of being outed is reciprocal.

Either install parental control software or take your kid's phone or computer away.

Block their profile and then call and explain.

When my wife and I were swinging... Her sister was on here. Since we were in a very small town... We pulled up her profile and we noticed the things in her house where she took the pics.

What you you do if a family member is on sls and send you a message?