Do you really want to play

I learned in Photography 101 in college that what is in the background is often as important as what is in the foreground and can become the unintended object of focus.

Be the 2%, be a few that care be the few that have pride. I am only to assume that the people taking pictures of dirty laundry in the corner and a mattress on the floor are the same people that go to the Walmart store in their pajamas

MNJFLA if it was all that bad why didn't you just say that you didn't think you were a match and excuse yourself and leave.

Maybe they are the same ?

I wonder if they and RonKathy have blocked each other?

blocked here too. I wonder who he hasn't blocked...LOL

MNJFLA - You've associated bad behavior with wearing a hat when the two have nothing to do with each other. Wearing a hat also has nothing to do with being willing to play.

It's of course your choice to believe this association exists, but at a minimum, this seems like a very limiting strategy.

<--- also blocked apparently. @molly said it much nicer than I was about to reply.

This person has blocked me and I have no idea when or why.

But judging from their post, I probably said something along the lines of what GGMM said once upon a time when they wrote something similar.

"We do not appreciate seeing a cap or hat of any kind on someone, whether in photo or in person at the dinner table. Maybe they are bald, maybe they are making up for an insecurity of a small penis and this makes them feel more like a man. To us they look more like a redneck or some kind of wannabe."

Congratulations. In more than 20 years of lifestyle experience, that wins the prize for sheer, petty ridiculousness.

Again I want to comment on the mode of dress when meeting others, or taking photographs, as well as mannerisms. I feel it is important to dress well, look good and present well. We met with a couple last evening where he wore a cowboy hat, and hogged the conversation the entire time. To get a word in I simply had to interrupt him mid sentence. She was more interested in eating and turning her head to watch the game on TV. You could clearly tell they were not what you would call " swingers." I do not know why they would waste our time or anyone else's. We do not appreciate seeing a cap or hat of any kind on someone, whether in photo or in person at the dinner table. Maybe they are bald, maybe they are making up for an insecurity of a small penis and this makes them feel more like a man. To us they look more like a redneck or some kind of wannabe. We are dressed to impress and are insulted when people present this way. For us we are trying to entice the other couple to want sex with us, not show them how we compensate for our shortcomings. Just my opinion but we are looking for down to earth couples that are truly interested in sharing intimate times with us.