Does age matter when meeting a new couple

MNJFLA - "...let us know your "secrets" in meeting and playing with new couples."

For a while now at LS parties, we tend to go our separate ways. We're not opposed to playing as a couple with other couples, but we definitely don't limit ourselves that way. At our last party, the Mrs met a SM that she liked and I met an SF where we both had fun. We can always invite singles over to play sort of like couples. For our intents/purposes a SM and SF are as much fun as a couple.

We know people personally that are close to 80, and post early 60s. We Are 60s and working on our diets, and physical appearance. We have been with 25 to 85 and enjoyed them all. We are in this for the sex, not to worry about ages or weights. GET REAL none of us are looking for lifetime fuck buddies, just temporary and if it works out to be more, that might also work. When searching for play friends we have found that too many people are superficial, and unrealistic. We are a great middle aged couple, love sex and fun to play with. It is interesting to hear these comments on age preferences, but now tell me how often do you people play.? How many partners do you have ? We do not find nearly enough couples to play with, no matter the age. We are disappointed that younger couples are not interested. When we do play with younger people they seem not to have any complaints and want to come back for more. Feel free to message us and let us know your "secrets" in meeting and playing with new couples. Mike and Janine mnjfla most swinger sites.

One other thing about the Age Gap sex with that elderly white woman... Because it was an interracial encounter, there were layers to the psychological kink which only occurred to me in the aftermath, days later. As a much older lady, she had lived through a lot more of this country's history than I had. And that would mean that she grew up in a time where interracial sex was unthinkable. Indeed, a black man could have been lynched simply for looking at her in a way that could have incited the ire of racist white men (Rest in peace, Emmett Till). Hell, there are still places in "'Murica" where such a thing can happen. I never sensed the slightest hesitation from the old woman during our sexual introduction. And I never once felt that my race was even noticed when I reunited with her in her home, meeting her charming husband. But I believe that there's an underlying tone of racism inherent in the interracial taboo fetish. Whether or not this is recognized, it is inescapable. And I confess, I celebrate this unabashedly. It fuels the kink for me. Alongside the more innocent attraction to visual contrasts, the shameful history (and present) plays a role in spiking the appeal even if this is never mentioned. And so, as I was euphorically fucking this old white woman in her marriage bed that second time, vigorously pumping my black seed into her aged, great granny vagina, some part of me was getting off on the bigoted history of this country which I was defying, which I was fucking. I knew it was something I couldn't get away with in a different era, or in a different place.

For whatever reason, I never got that age gap issue. I have played with women at LS parties younger than my daughters, but that certainly doesn't make me consider or equate that to "incest" in any way. There is more than just the age difference that can come into play though.

I've played with women that were old enough to be my mother when we first started in the LS. So long as they didn't look like/remind me of my mother, it wasn't an issue. I'd also not play with a girl that reminded me of one of my daughters. Both scenarios would just feel weird.

I know there are young LS women that would play with someone their father's age, but probably not if they looked like/reminded them of their father unless they truly were into incest.

FWIW - Non-blood incest (i.e. step mother/father/daughter/son) is a very popular genre on Pornhub, so apparently this is a fairly popular kink.

I quickly learned that lots of lifestyle folks lie about their ages on their profiles, much like people do on regular dating sites. Such deception is considered positive self-promotion, and seemingly harmless.

It used to matter to me. But as I got more and more into Age Gap play, I became less fussy about being with much older women, or much younger women. Understandably, many couples, as parents, refuse to play with anyone the same age or younger than their kids. For them, it's psychologically akin to incestuous. I get it.
For me, the marked contrast of Age Gap sex can actually increase the kinky thrill. I mean, I had surrendered my virginity to a woman 20 years older than myself. I wasn't actively seeking that out. I don't have an Oedipus complex at all. It was more a desperation thing, an opportunity that came out of nowhere, and after mulling it over, I took advantage of it.

Then one evening, during my first foray into the swinger lifestyle, I stumbled across a more striking Age Gap contrast at a swinger house party. That one took me aback because I was in my mid-40s, and the woman was likely in her early 70s. My programming totally pushed me to reject the very thought of it. Seniors occupy a very respectable position in society, one imagined as sexless. Of course, that sexless notion is ridiculous, but only within their community, and something we block from our brains! Yuck!! Admittedly, it was only because I was very late to that party which was winding down, because I had driven a long way, and because I was extremely horny that I struggled inwardly over what to do. Yeah, after maybe half an hour of chipping away at the mental barrier, I took that extreme Age Gap opportunity. Yup. Desperation again. But-- HELLO! It turned out to be one of the most erotic experiences of my life. I have zero regrets. Weeks later, I tracked Sharon down and I was invited to her home where I met her very charming husband. He courteously retired to his "Man Cave" elsewhere in the house while I fucked his wife again in their bedroom. Age Gap sex can be a lot of fun!

Our age preferences are more of a guideline than anything, and we often get messages from people outside the range, and are often glad we did. Generally, we do get along best with people near our own ages, but that's only because generally, people of the same age group know the same movies, music, memes, etc. The biggest issue we have is having to update the damned ages every year, because we always forget...

We do have an age preference in our profile, 45-67, I think. But we've met more people at clubs or resorts, as opposed to SLS. I couldn't even tell you the age of most of our friends and I think only one asked our age. We don't really care. One couple who we have a blast with and saw often before we moved is probably in their 30s. So, to the OPs example of one person being under our age preference on SLS - we'd be fine with the age thing, just depends on the people.

Age matters to the wife as she has no interest in younger guys in their early 20s. Sorry fellas :p

Sort of. We have an age range set, but it is more a guideline than hard and fast rule.

It matters to the extent I (male) think they are going to have the energy to keep up with me. Many people well older than us have a certain youthful exuberance, have a biological age that doesn't match their chronological age, and thus age isn't much of a consideration.

With that said, I tend to be attracted to and have the most fun with women in the mid twenties to early thirties. That is the sweet spot of generational overlap, attendant worldviews, and youthful energy in my opinion.

Barely legal types I haven't messed with yet, and frankly don't know if we'd gel.

Overall, both age and height and weight are probably the least useful pieces of info on a profile. What I give the most consideration is pictures and what is written in the profile.

we dont really have an issue with age, but we do understand if someone says we are not in the age range they are looking for, we just chalk it up to their loss

The only issue we have is saying your one age in your profile, but are clearly 15+ years older when we meet. We aren’t ageist, we don’t even care if you’ve lied about your age. However, you should look like your posted age both in person and in your profile pictures.

@4 - I hope the answer to the last question was, "Well, of course." ;-)

Mayhem, we met a couple like that too. It was really weird. The woman kept telling me to "Stand up straight, and be nice and share" The guy told my wife, "Do you really think it's a good idea to fuck and suck ALL of the guys at the party?" What a buzz kill. ;)

There is a girl that I played with for the first time at a hotel party about 3-4 years ago now. She is 6' 1" in her stocking feet and did not look anywhere near as young as she was. I knew and played with her for a couple years when we ran into each other at different local parties. At one of those parties, which was about 2 years after I first met her, she was talking about ages with a group of people and I was blown away that she was only 27 years old, meaning she was 25 when we first met.

We very much enjoy each others company when we have the chance to play and neither of us is bothered by the age difference. My chances of meeting and playing with this girl from on-line interactions was probably zero, but in person is a whole different ballgame. She was part of a couple and her other half played with my Mrs a couple times, but he was older than her and my wife is 6 years younger than me, so it wasn't quite as much of a gap.

On the flip side of that, we met a couple in Hawaii that were in their 70's, and we had a blast with them as well. Rather than age, it tends to be similarities with others that may make us back off. We met an older couple once and he reminded us of my wife's father and she reminded me of my mother. We didn't wind up playing obviously, but it was not because of their ages.

We recently had our 1st full swap with an older couple and it was amazing! She was 15 years older than me, and was not only drop dead gorgeous, but amazingly talented. He was 26 years older than my girl, and gave her a great fuck! We would never shy away from an older couple (within reason)... now maybe into the 70's might be a bit awkward, but still, you never know. Now, Mandy is 31, but usually gets mistaken for 25 at most. I am 39, and look, well... 39 IMO. I have a hard time imagining that a 21 yo girl would be interested in me, but if she is, I'm down, lol. So a very young couple would be ok too. We just might not have a lot to talk about beforehand.

We prefer 36+ to -55

Age matters to me. I am generally not attracted to those ten years older or younger than me.

Our preference is something close to us, I think we have it set to late 30's to 50-ish, but we are flexible and say so in our profile. We had a single guy email us a while back who pretty much fit everything we are/were looking for, but he lied about his age. Profile says 50, but he is mid to late 50's. He was upfront about it, but that's an automatic nope. I'm not attracted to liars.

We've found that age isn't really a factor for us. But attitude and personality are the deciding factors. And people's attitudes and personalities change over time based on their life experiences.

We've met couples of all ages who we've clicked with and others who we haven't. All depends on the conversation.

Where age does matter to us is with folks who lie. We met one couple listed in their 50s who had to be in their 70s easily. That was an immediate nope.

good genes help allot plus exercizing and a good tan

10 years younger is fine but when it comes to the men Mrs. Kpnit always gravitates toward older gentlemen...if you are a morph of Gerard Butler/Daniel Craig/Sean Connery mix she'll be all warmed up and ready to go!

I also agree with the "meet at LS parties" thing. At parties, the whole "picture" thing isn't even an issue. Sometimes you will see people at parties and know that their pictures are old, but we rarely go to parties with any sort of plan or to meet specific people. Even best laid plans seem to easily get side tracked when you're going with the flow at a party of any size.

As for age, we have met and played with sexy people in their 70's and have seen people 20 years younger that are just old looking. I will glance at ages and pics if meeting a couple online, but am every bit as interested in their attitude as I am in their age.

When it comes to age, we do try to be realistic. We are generally not reaching out to people in their 30's unless there is something in their profile to indicate age isn't an issue OR they reach out to us. We have found some young couples that actually like being with a much older couple, but that is never our assumption online. We try to be realistic and look at others within 10-15 years +/- our age.

This came up in another thread, but I DID add something to our Additional info section to indicate we do update our ages on our profile. If you do the same I would recommend you do that as well. Some people will look at your age then the # of years you've been on the site and add that to your listed age unless they see something otherwise in your profile.

RE "Really best place to meet couples is either at a parties / clubs / meet and greets / nude beaches and this way everyone can see each other."

So true!!!!!

Age is one of many factors. However, as always, it depends on the person. As mentioned below I have seen some 35 year old women that are overly tanned, aging prematurely, out of shape and have a horrible personality. I have also met 60 year olds in great shape, sexy as hell and full of stamina. Get to know someone before you make a decision. The beauty of the LS is it's diversity of people.

Robert

We'd agree with the 2 previous posters as well. It all depends on how people take care of themselves.