NEIGHBORS ???

MNJFLA

I would look you up the next time I'm in Leesburg, but you show no interest in Single Males.

"Speaking from experience... don't ever fuck your neighbors."

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I dunno. I miss my Hotwife neighbor. I was very appreciative of her welcome to the neighborhood visit years ago, and subsequent visits to 'borrow sugar' :-). . Unfortunately their family move to AZ years ago. :-(.

We have a pool in the back yard and the neighbors would come over for a grill out party and drinks one day I said in a jokingly way after 10pm no suits allowed to my surprise suits were being thrown on the deck after that some days we would come home after days we would come home and they would be in the pool making love we striped down jumped in the pool and it wasn't long before we were swapping partners from there it seemed like more neighbors came for late night swims

I have two immediate female neighbors and their families that I want nothing to do with them sexually or romantically. In the case of the threat of human extinction however, then yes, I'd doink one of them to procreate and try to salvage humanity. There is a woman that is one cul-de-sac away from me that I wouldn't mind being in bed with. The rest of my surrounding female neighbors, I'll pass.

I agree, don't invite your neighbors into your bed. An exclusion to that is, if your neighbor and yourself have been neighbors for long term and you can trust that person, it is an option... But an option to be eased into.

To answer the original poster's main question: To identify yourselves as swingers, you can add pink flamingos and upsidedown pineapples next to each other on your front lawn. But, make it look tasteful.

It never strikes me as a good idea to fuck people you can't easily remove from your life, but you do you.

then why get married?

It's why with only one long-term exception, we do not mix the crowds of our vanilla and lifestyle friends. We don't want them becoming friends without us between them, and we don't want our vanilla friends going "hey what happened to so and so?"

We like to keep everyone lifestyle in a situation where if we need to, we can make a clean break.

“ If things go bad they're still next door.”

And, there’s a good chance that everyone else in the neighborhood will know you’re swingers.

Exactly.

If things go bad they're still next door.

It never strikes me as a good idea to fuck people you can't easily remove from your life, but you do you.

we fucked neighbors for years and it was a lot of fun. They divorced. Nothing to do with swinging. She moved away. Set your ground rules early if you are going play close to home.

Speaking from experience... don't ever fuck your neighbors.

Don’t get too worked up about discovering or being discovered by other swingers. It doesn’t happen too often. Find the site or app that is being used the most in your area and put up a posting for a meet and greet at your place or a local gathering spot.

Try posting a few Hot Dates. Maybe that will get someone's attention.

We live in the Hawthorne community on HWY 27 in Leesburg. this appears to be a very conservative community. I have spoken with one custodial friend, and they state that there are swingers living here. I would like to know how to go about meeting them, and playing if we are all interested. I have hung colored shower scrounges on our cart, pineapples on the cart and welcome sign on pour house. Of course I do not expect someone to run right up and say hey we are swingers wanna play? BUT why not an anonymous card on our clip with their information, an e mail, text or something of that nature. We even have a couple that live very close by, sold them our golf cart, invited them for drinks, and she showed some interest about learning about the lifestyle
the communication ended there sadly. They did not bother to invite us back for a drink or any other darn thing. We do not mind sticking out our next and taking chances but we are trying to think of ways to be more creative. We do not want to pass by opportunities, and miss out on possible fun times with new friends. Any ideas?