TO BLOCK OR NOT TO BLOCK THAT IS THE QUESTION

Mayhem, thanks. I found it. It turns out we haven't blocked many folks at all.

Now that the reciprocating blocks have been eliminated, my blocked list is at zero.

twoheartsinthedark - If you click on Favorites on the left pane and scroll to the bottom you'll see a list of who you've blocked.

We only block folks who are rude, pushy, seriously misrepresenting themselves, or are asking for "nudie pix". Is there a way of seeing how many folkd we have blocked? In our case, I doubt it is many.
Frank & Nina

MNJFLA - I block free profiles as well, but only because there is no way for you to communicate with them. Free members only see that they got a new email. I don't think they can even read it, and they certainly can't respond even if they could. There is no benefit for paying members to try to interact with free members.

If SLS ever goes back to allowing them to respond to a limited number of messages per day, I will remove the block, but for now, it's not worth it.

FREE PROFILES ?????? I block them automatically as I feel if they do not want to make the effort to actually pay for the site they are not serious enough to communicate with. There are more than enough "scammers" on here that are just looking for photos, get their jollies or whatever they are here for. We feel it is too sad that we contact hundreds of couples only to be ignored, or told we are too old or some such crap. Let's encourage people do this the right way, and get rid of the scammers and those that have no intention of playing. Anyone in Florida that is "interested in meeting" please contact us.

Hello all. We're new and overwhelmed by all the single males who have messaged us who clearly have not read our profile, desired age range, and show no class what so ever. The wife was the first to say "FUCK IT, BLOCK THE ASS").

On the bright side we've connected via chat with two males and a couple. Time will tell.

We only block when they FAIL to follow directions. There's a clear warning in our profile.

You should have reported him to the powers that be at SLS

I will only block someone for being rude and disrespectful and I will say that most SMs on here are but one recently just sent a message our of the blue asking if we could meet and just have my wife blow him..I told him if that was all he was after he needed to go pay a whore because that’s not what my wife is, he responded with a rude answer that implied that she was. Instead of engaging with this jerk any further I just blocked him so he couldn’t harass us any more. So far he’s the only one we’ve had to block.

Pretty sure I have never blocked anyone. There are a number of people that show up on my blocked list, but I believe all of those were initiated by them, and I the most of them are forum based.

We also use the notes feature regarding contacting and being contacted by profiles.

I tend to use the Profile Note feature to keep tabs rather than block. For example, if I send a message to someone new I'll add a note to their profile that I "Sent message on xx/xx". If I come across it a couple months later and haven't ever heard back I'll add "No reponse" to the note.

If someone is rude and/or misrepresented themselves, I'll consider blocking them. I have had people block me because they feel I misrepresented us, but in those cases they saw "bi-curious" for the Mrs and made assumptions about girl/girl play without reading our profile. When I pointed specifics out in our profile about that, they blocked me. C'est la vie.

I have blocked some forum posters that have either proven themselves to be trolls, or ones that never have anything of interest to say. For example, a particular one deletes their posts that are always some form of "The Mrs sucks cuck, I suck cock, or we both suck cock". He deletes the posts to try to hide the fact that this is literally all he ever posts. These kind of blocks are rare for me.

I have less than 40 people blocked total.

Again I must rant about blocking. I have come across profiles stating " we are a couple" looking for other couples. When I have wasted time chatting with the man he says " I will be in the area but my wife is not playing at this time. I not only block the but report them. This is total BS and those that do not take the time to report are not doing the rest of us any favors. These people do not deserve to be here and should be stopped. If they want to play single the should post single !!!

We use blocking as a way to filter. Most of our list are single guys that are pushy, disrespectful or downright rude. Usually block couples for things like misrepresenting themselves, like their profile says 55 but they say that are 71.

I haven't found a reason to block anyone yet.
If I blocked for not responding , it would be a very long list.

I guess we assume if they are for sure not interested, we don't need to see their profile continue to pop up. Just block. It's also a better approach to saying no than saying nothing as well.

Basically, it is just a filtering tool.

I do not block people that do not answer me. I just take it as they're not interested. If someone keeps bothering me then I'll block them this usually happens with young men in their twenties and couples that keep after me and won't leave me alone.

Exactly AZ!

We make liberal use of the block feature. Mostly people who have flaked, got pushy or were unresponsive. Also several forum based blocks just so we didn't have to read the insanity from them anymore.

We've got a large block list. People being unresponsive is probably the top block reason. Being boring or nasty/rude is probably a close second.

My information states we have blocked over 55% of the people on here. Well when we have reached out and have gotten no response, or not interested I start blocking. Does anyone see any reason to keep them open any longer? What are your reasons for blocking? Does anyone actually " not block," or for what reason would you continue to block ???