why so FEW straight-straight couples

ionsawmill - "Don’t just read the profile though. Read their forum posts."

Yes, I've seen that straight for the guy doesn't always mean he's straight. Doesn't much matter to us unless they have a bi-play requirement, which I rarely see.

For as active as I am in the forums, I rarely check forum posts if meeting someone new, unless perhaps I recognize the profile name from the forums. Even then I usually don't bother.

Then again, being that the past 3 and the next 4 Saturdays in a row have local house/hotel room parties, we only have time to meet people very local to us anyway, since weekdays and Sun afternoons are all we have time for.

While I still engage interesting couples online, our preference for a while now has been to just go to parties. If we do happen to find others we meet and like 2 on 2, we usually just ask if they want to attend the same parties we do, assuming it's something that interests them. This lets us see more of our LS friends more often.

“ The labels people choose are meaningless. Read the details in the profile.”

Don’t just read the profile though. Read their forum posts. There are “straight” couples or couples where only the wife lists as Bi, but if you read their forum posts, it’s obvious the guy is also bi. If he’s “straight” on the profile, but in the Bi Males forum talking about how many dicks he’s taking, or how many he’d like to take, then you know something isn’t adding up.

Plenty of straight couples out there.

The labels people choose are meaningless. Read the details in the profile. Also, it's all about boundaries, communication, and consent. Pretty sure most people don't want to have sex with people who don't want to have sex with them.

"..and still have fun w other couples...... you just have to be honest w folks you meet or contact....and we are up front........"

This. :)

We,re VERY straight....and still have fun w other couples...... you just have to be honest w folks you meet or contact....and we are up front........also why so few, maybe because its hard to meet Str8 couples because there are sooooo many Bi couples here....you really have to search hard and even then you have to match up w them....just less variety choice.

I saw something like this earlier....I do see plenty of both straight couple profiles.....I do question how bi some of these wives are....they could be basically a pillow princess or do a little touch and rub when everyone is piled on the bed but not much more.....of course there are women who won't be shy about jumping your wifes bones as they say....as I said about something like this earlier is just be honest about you and sift through the BS like the rest of us have to do

"Bi-situational and heteroflexible = BI ERASURE"

What?

Plenty of straight straight couples out there.

Bi-situational and heteroflexible = BI ERASURE

Once again, this fucking community shows it doesn't even understand LBGTQIA+ or care to.

I have seen some straight straight. I am new to the LS, where he has been in it previously. Great info here though!

We are really new to the site and thought we, as a straight couple, were the "oddballs". Great to see there are others in the same boat. All good to whatever your lady is into it's just we seek other straight couples.

Have fun all.

The Boston contingent.

Many girls just list themselves as bi-curious because they’re curious, that’s all. Here’s the catch: 2 bi curious girls will not hook up; you need a bi girl for that. So if you’re straight and answer an ad from a couple whose female half is bi-curious, you have nothing to worry about.

In fact. to extend your reach, you might even want to list yourself as bi-curious or straight, but in your profile, mention you’re bi-situational or hereroflexible.

We’ll answer/reach out to a couple whose husband my wife could be interested in even if the girl lists herself as bisexual. Why? Because bisexual means what it says. They like women and men. If they really like only women, they should make that clear in their profiles and often do. Moreover, many women, being more liberal than men when it comes to bisexuality will, in the right situation, be willing to kiss and fondle and even receive oral sex ( but not give it) which is more than any woman, responding to a straight or bi curious woman ,can ever expect

With all of the above dynamics at work, it stands to reason there are probably a lot of women who list themselves as bi-curious who are really straight.

The last statement implies a spectrum of sexuality—how is a woman who is a 2 to list herself on a straight-bi continuum? —and ignores the fluidity of sexuality in the right situation (where everyone is comfortable).

As a bi-male I only wish men had the options to list that women do without the cultural stigma.

The bottom line for straight women: dont feel intimidated.

We don't make a habit of blocking, but we did with that one some time ago and it's been a much better experience on the forums.

I see Esperanza911 still spouting off. lol

Don't go by the searchable tag in the profile. Read the descriptions. "My wife needs cock" or anything like that, even though the field says "bi" or "bi-curious" is a pretty good sign that she probably doesn't focus on or even care about lady time.

Lol, as bisexual woman... I get plenty of straight couples looking at me and yes I understand straight couples don't like to reveal that she or they're bisexual.

Wife here, is strickly dickly!

I would guess because this lifestyle is more accepting of people who want to try being bi, or decide they like it and stay with it .
Because it is acceptable, more try it.

Re: Needing the girl/girl play to get things started

In at least some (if not most) cases, this is likely how a couple got started and they don't know any other way. Women do tend to pick up on signals/cues better than guys, but that is no excuse. These couples wind up being limited to other like couples.

Even if the Mrs was into girl/girl play (which she isn't), this would and has been a hard pass for us. It just seems like a high risk that the inability of the male half of these type of couples to engage with a woman would spill over into an inability to satisfy anyone other than themselves. While she does love seeing the guy/s she plays with have a good time, she also wants to feel the guy she's with is trying to do the same for her, as do I.

Guess we are lucky .. we have had many great SS couples and only an occasional Bi Female that participated in ..but Kat LOVES guys who know how to flirt, dance, and FUCK good for a great night !

We know and are experienced enough. in making our own party and get the action started .. we dont need a girl on girl to get anything started.

Some years ago while attending an event, we met a couple which the women was Bi, we seemed to get along very well, Till my wife said she was straight. then the women asked my wife, how do you guys get things going without the women playing together first. Well, we didn't hook up with them. Oh well.

We've never assumed that just because someone is listed as bi that she would automatically be attracted to all females. (I would think bi men are the same way, but I don't know). Bi play is not mandatory for us. If that happens it is up to the women. Our main interest is in full swapping with other couples. If the females happen to also be attracted to each other, that is fine, but it really doesn't have any bearing on who we seek out.

Hey you guys. Literally we are looking for the same thing. STRAIGHT COUPLES! In our experience it doesn't happen the way you wrote it. For most couples I don't think they found eachother because she was looking for pussy, nope in almost all cases in the beginning she was looking for cock. Amongst other things. What we have found is there is an overwhelming sence of ownership from the male half of the couples. Add in a large amount of insecurities ( that even I had to get over) seem to cloud the judgement and make him feel like if she plays with another woman she won't leave. I know red flags going off all over the place. I have learned that I really enjoy seeing my wife with another man and and we've actually sought out other males because she likes to have more than one at a time. On the flip side she enjoys seeing me with another woman but, we have found it extremely hard to find other attractive single women without hangups. It has happened but few and far between. Anyway you look great and we'd really like to meet up sometime if we all can make the logistics workout.
Sol y Luna

Just be true to yourself. We find that if we seek Straight couples only that it works for us, We do also respond to Bi curious profiles where the women says Bi curious still usually works because some people just put that down. A lot of straight couple looking for other straight couples out there.