Help with my profile

Circling back to see if you are still looking for assistance finding sex with others - and your profile - since the person you are on SLS continues to be undefined. It's a daunting task to complete a profile cause there's so much to consider. So let me consider that you really are a single guy and let me consider you really want to try to attract others with your profile.

First, I write from written lists all the time and you should too.

List what you're looking for; married people, singles, old, young, short, tall, black, white, tan, intelligent, or submissive.

List where you would be to find those people and add a word after "I Like" similar to <antique shopping, golfing, reading at the library, drinking coffee at Starbucks.>

To describe yourself list things about you, like, <I like clean socks, walking my dog, swimming, cross-fit, racquetball.>

In Fantasies be specific. You have no picture and no personality online so break-it-out, get your kink out, and be specific, like <I wanna wear panties, I wanna smack butts, I love animal porn, I eat chestnuts over an open fire, > The more graphic and detailed you can become the more likely someone is to relate.

And don't forget to add additional comments, that are "additional" like, < I'm new and open minded and I want to be your oral sex slave all night long> or something similar from your own list.

Hope this helps you find those fun loving people you're looking to please.

Well I certainly missed the boat on my profile. Thanks for your comments. I will redo and then ask for additional comments.

Hi and welcome. I would encourage you carefully consider that there is a difference between aggressive and assertive. Yes, please do avoid the former, but in order to succeed as a single man, you'll need some of the latter. Right now, even the bare bones of what you currently have in your profile suggest you don't and that's going to limit your pool of playmates to mostly dominant men.

Your tagline is a good example. At the moment it reads "Let me please you." There is something subordinate about that. And, yes, in MFM threesomes with couples the second man is some degree of subordinate except in cuckold situations, but only to a degree. And I can't imagine most single women would be interested, but that might just be me. What if you were to use something like "I want to please you" instead? Same thing, but you sound like you have more agency - it's a desire of yours rather than something someone is allowing you to do.

Anyway, you've gotten good advice previously and I hope you take it. Once you have some text, it will be easier to offer specific advice.

Good luck.

What AandJ said. You really don't have enough content to critique. Since there isn't any real content there, your best bet is to read through a bunch of other threads in Better Profiles. Most of the advice given to others is going to apply pretty generally to everyone. Read, read, and read some more. Then start adding content as if that advice had been given to you. Once you've done that, we can help you with some of the details.

As to your questions about showing yourself as interesting and not coming off as aggressive, that's easy. And difficult. First, you already know what it is about yourself that's interesting, so put that in your profile. And if you don't want to come off as aggressive, then don't be aggressive. Simple, right? Well, not so much. One of the things that trips a lot of people up is that they don't really know themselves. So one of the most important things for you to do is to get a bit introspective. Find out who YOU are as a person, and find a way to communicate that. In many ways, that's the thing I enjoy most about the LS, that it forced me to look at myself with a critical eye (that, and the wild, monkey sex of course).

Now get to work, and good luck!

First you need pics. Public pics. The gumby will not cut it. Blur your face if you like but no pics=no interest.

Next, your profile is very sparse. Tells almost nothing about you. What do you want? What do you like to do? Give folks a reason to reach out and something to talk about other than your dick.

You'll get more detailed suggestions soon I think but there isn't much to review right now

I need help with my profile. I am a single guy that wants to come across as interesting but not agressivr which may not be appreciated by married couples. How should that be handled?