OP: Either you did what you needed to and re-blocked couples, or never opened up the profile to couples. If you're limiting yourself to SFs that's going to be a very small audience. No worries if that's all you're looking for, but you have your answer already as to the lack of contact.
Does anyone know if someone shows up as viewing you if you attempt and are blocked?
Hi Rich. Unlike most instances of deja vu, I know for sure that I've done this before. What I don't know is where my original response has gotten to (and, yes, I know it posted). SLS scrubs threads occasionally, but the only questionable thing my post did was to address your mention of your p*rn habits. In any case, since your profile looks exactly the same as it did when I first did a critique, indicating you might not have seen it, here is a plate of warmed leftovers:
There's nothing much wrong with your profile, although the way it's written will turn off some of your prospective playmates. In addition, between toggling only for single women and having your age range top out at 35, you're probably not going to find much interest here unless you make some changes.
First, to capture hot wives, you're going to have to show at least a small slice of interest in couples. Otherwise, you're left with single women on SLS who are between the ages of 18 to 35, which is probably about three women within a 100 miles of you. Maybe 200 miles.
In Looking For, start with a complete sentence. Right now, it's a fragment and not a great start. Also, it's women rather than females, and I'm a little puzzled by "possibly have some fun." Isn't fun the entire point of the operation?
You need another blank line before the next paragraph, which has a couple of errors (it's have had, the female half, what do you mean by same room, the spacing on your ...couples( 2 women) is wrong).
In Description, it's I'm, you don't need to mention your height and weight because they're already in your stats (plus you'll avoid questions of what happened to that extra inch), mentioning your p*rn habit just turned off almost anyone who was still with you (not that most of us don't watch it, but you're indicating you're really only interested in swinging to get some skin to go along with your viewing habits), you need more blank lines and sentences start with capital letters.
In Fantasies, it's mostly good, but there is a typo and the whole cheating gf/wife thing just turned off everyone else. Like, hey, great spank material, but a lot of swingers are pretty prudish when it comes to cheating.
Put something in Additional comments and then run the whole thing through spell check.
Once you're all done and your changes have been approved, fix the toggles that say you want smokers and drinkers.
You have a basic problem with your understanding of what SLS is about.
Think of the Gettysburg Address:
Of Couples.
By Couples.
FOR Couples.
That's how Swing works.
There are relatively few single women in Swing. You block couples by indicating NO INTEREST in couples, you're SUNK.
On the other hand, you are a very attractive black man. A LOT of couples are into that sort of thing for Hotwife and Cuckolding. If you don't mind being watched while you fuck someone's wife, there's amusement to be had. You appear to be Hung. You'd do well in the BBC space.
To turn on Your Couples interest since you SAY you are interested in couples:
In your browser:
Click your screen name in the upper right
Click Edit Profile
Click Preferences
Set "Are You Interested in Meeting Couples?" to "A little"
Click Update
Otherwise, your profile isn't that bad.
I tried to look at your profile and you have couples blocked. This may or may not be part of your problem since you're blocking out the largest group on SLS. If you'd like an earnest profile, may I suggest opening your preferences to everyone could have a look and give their opinion, and then post a new fresh request in their forum for a look at you and some suggestions.
Hi,
I am a single male in the lifestyle. I have been on SLS on and off. The reason is lack of interaction. It would pick up when I sign up and then completely die out shortly after. I am starting to think maybe it's my profile set up or my approach in contacting people on here. I get viewed but no replies.
Wondering if anyone care to help me with some advice on profile presentation or approaching fellow members.
Thanks in advance
-Rich
