Help with profile set up

Phoenix, AZ, Us

"I have a strap-on."

Oh, me too!

OP, your profile text still has some of the same issues with syntax, etc., as the original version, is still missing anything in Additional comments, and now you have a profile photo that I detest.

Other than that, good job. ;-)

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

how are you going to try DP if hubby can't be in the room?

You have such a poor imagination. I have a strap-on.

I want to clarify. I don’t mind group sex. Just prefer it with people I know.

AandJinNNJVeteran
Ringwood, NJ, Us

Question - how are you going to try DP if hubby can't be in the room?

Ok. I posted a casual pic with face blurred. Check it out ladies

Thanks for your input I appreciate it. I will not put face pics on there unless requested. I will update with a fully clothed picture

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

Humm... I can't remember if you had face pics before...

I think you need one more picture - a picture of you dressed up like you are going on a date. You could take it at a nicer bar. Wear a sportcoat, a nice shirt and slacks. I want to know what you will look like when you show up for a date.

I also think you need face pics in your private section. I don't kik or text. If you don't have face pics in your private section, I'm going to pass you by.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi. It's always interesting when people make some changes and then come back for a review. Thanks for that.

First, before I start, once you've made all the changes you're going to make and get them approved, you'll need to go in and change your toggles to reflect your actual preferences for smoking and drinking (unless you want smokers and drinkers, which is the current default). Don't make any other changes.

Okay, so, nobody has a nice enough body for me to not be puzzled about why you're taking half naked photos in a department store. I may be in the minority, though. I think the other two photos are better, regardless.

Your tagline contains the phrase "like minded" which doesn't mean anything. Also, you might as well lay it out right away that you're only looking for women. If you also correct the typo, maybe "Looking for women for fun and adventure" would do it. It's not clever or funny, but it will do. You should also adjust your toggles to reflect less interest in couples, because you don't want them - just hot wives/women playing separately who don't bring their husbands along.

Here's a sentence that will send up a red flag for those husbands: It means the male half can't be present in the same room. Nuh-uh. No. Nope. That can't thing just lost you all but small subsection of cuckold couples. You can get to roughly the same place by saying you are only interested in playing with single women (not females) and the female halves of couples playing separately.

For the rest, you still have some typos, you don't seem to understand paragraphing (at the very least, a blank line between them) or ellipses, and you really needn't duplicate what is in your states. Plus, please fill out that last section, because it shouldn't look like you can't be bothered to finish things. Leaves a bad impression, you know? Oh, and not many women are going to message you, so that looks a bit...naïve? Not very aware of how women do things, anyway.

It would also help, if you're attracted to a wider variety of women, to say so. Otherwise, the women with softer bodies are going to assume you aren't interested. If your actual range is narrow, you're fine the way you are.

And if I really did see a lol there, you should remove it. This is a fairly formal piece of writing.

Good luck. Upping your age range will help.

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

You basically look carved from Oak. No complaints from me.

The clothing store picture is kind of strange but your body is nice enough to forgive that.

All I have made the appropriate changes per your requests. Hi lease take another look

1lkydogRegular
Swarthmore, PA, Us

This forum is like joining to an orgy where everybody tries to help you have more sex. So it goes to follow if you don't want more sex or more often, it's not because the learned and the wise haven't written to you already and tried to help. We too can't view your profile nor give a helpful opinion because you have couples blocked.

Maybe you don't want married people, maybe you only want to attract singles, or maybe you're not sure how to reset your controls - maybe. They're all valid reasons why you're missing out on "a lot of possibilities" and the "hot wives" that GGMissMolly mentioned. Then again, she also mentioned lots of typo's in your profile and lot's of typo's say I'm messy, careless, in a hurry, bangin-it-out, and don't give a damn. My girl's impressed by clean and careful and she only interested in bangin-it-out with somebody who gives a hoot - so in that regard thank you for blocking us. I hope this helps and helps get you more sex, more often...

AandJinNNJVeteran
Ringwood, NJ, Us

If only to get more feedback on your profile you should open it to everyone. At least for a few days so those of us looking to help can provide input.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi and welcome. Part of the problem is your age range. There aren't a lot of single women 35 and under on SLS. Then, your profile blocks couples, so even if there are women in your age range and area who play alone, they can't find you.

Your actual profile isn't horrible, but there are a lot of typos and that makes you look sloppy and uncaring. Also not making a good impression is your bathroom selfie, your two heights (just stick with the ones in your stats), and the way you casually drop your porn viewing habits.

But, basically, the issue is that there isn't a lot of what you're looking for here if you aren't looking for couples and even there your top age isn't ever going to produce a lot of possibilities. You would be better served by using this site to identify clubs and parties, maybe create a profile on FetLife to explore your D/s interests, and maybe up your age range to 40. Oh, and open your profile slightly to couples so that hot wives can find you.

Good luck.

Hi,
I am a single male in the lifestyle. I have been on SLS on and off. The reason is lack of interaction. It would pick up when I sign up and then completely die out shortly after. I am starting to think maybe it's my profile set up or my approach in contacting people on here. I get viewed but no replies.
Wondering if anyone care to help me with some advice on profile presentation or approaching fellow members.
Thanks in advance
-Rich