Profile Opinions

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi. Your profile, other than your tagline, which would make you an immediate no for a segment of the population (straight drama, no chaser), is fine.

But you're new, cagey about your experience, and have no certs. If you're still not hearing from folks after six months, even if you write to them, then maybe some changes will be in order.

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

Welcome to the Forum.

There are others here who are much better at providing advice on a profile, but I understand your post to mean that you've rewritten your profile numerous times in the 2 weeks that you've been here. That said, I'd just say that blurred public face pictures isn't the issue but most (including us) feel that clear face pictures in other albums should be available to those you plan to meet.

You have to give it time. The views are most likely people checking out a new member/profile.

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

Welcome guys.. just a quick note, dont worry who views your profile as so many on SLS go through profiles to read them, see photos and just take up time.. it doesnt mean anything that is worth becoming worried about.. heck we know many who sit in a hot bubble bath and flip through profiles and photos.

We keep ours off and really dont worry who looks, we also keep our xxx photos for our FWB we have played with or those we are meeting .

If a swinger really wants to see what you are about they should reach out and meet that easy... now on another note we are not meeting with anyone we cannot clearly see before hand as our journey is about a mutual attraction in ones looks and profile writings.. take the advice of what has been given to you, relax, get out to some clubs, events, parties .. many Halloween end of year parties are coming up and enjoy.

Its a great lifestyle and we have been active swingers well over 30 years as recently as last Wednesday with a great SLS FWB introduced to us by another SLS member in another state !

Fort Payne, AL, Us

You could probably prune your profile text a bit - it's a little repetitious at times but I enjoy the chatty style.

Creating a private or personal gallery with unobscured faces is really all I think that would help.

But mostly it's just a matter of time. Your profile is new so you're showing up in Newest Matches on the home page of everyone near you - many will look at every new match. Making connections online is rarely quick and never easy. ;-)

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Spencerport, NY, Us

Nothing stands as out as being "wrong" with your profile. It may be a little long. Your join date is less than 2 weeks ago, so that may be why you see all the profile views.

Not having face pictures is a deterrent for a lot people, (we fall into that group, as we do not contact people without seeing their faces first). It doesn't look like you have any private pictures that would show your faces either, so without that option, that could be another reason.