Welcome guys.. just a quick note, dont worry who views your profile as so many on SLS go through profiles to read them, see photos and just take up time.. it doesnt mean anything that is worth becoming worried about.. heck we know many who sit in a hot bubble bath and flip through profiles and photos.
We keep ours off and really dont worry who looks, we also keep our xxx photos for our FWB we have played with or those we are meeting .
If a swinger really wants to see what you are about they should reach out and meet that easy... now on another note we are not meeting with anyone we cannot clearly see before hand as our journey is about a mutual attraction in ones looks and profile writings.. take the advice of what has been given to you, relax, get out to some clubs, events, parties .. many Halloween end of year parties are coming up and enjoy.
Its a great lifestyle and we have been active swingers well over 30 years as recently as last Wednesday with a great SLS FWB introduced to us by another SLS member in another state !