Flakes

"This couple is very energetic. They have hit bottom and immediately started digging."

Can you imagine certain butt-hurt people rage posting negative certs after they've been turned down?

Thinking of one guy in particular who has shown up here with several different profiles complaining about having no success.

"Can't you make a cert, but a negative cert? In the cert you can mention they were talking about guns and killing people during a play party, etc..."

you could, but it's up to them whether they accept it or not, and of course no one would accept a negative cert

Can't you make a cert, but a negative cert? In the cert you can mention they were talking about guns and killing people during a play party, etc...

i prefer frosted flakes with cold real milk

are you talking about corn flakes or snow flakes lol

Maybe instead of "certs" sites like SLS should have "reviews" ala Amazon, Google, etc. Most reviewers provide a star rating but no detail. A five star rating in the "reliability" category would be useful.

we totally agree that there should be a way to identify fakes/flakes. 4 no shows this year!! book the room, make the time then ......nothing. not cool.

Been there done that. At a hotel party there were 4 couples playing in a bedroom when 2 guys walk into smoke at a open bedroom window. Then they start talking about different size bullets and what each would do to a human body. Talk about a mood killer, the couples got up and left.

CK,

I'm serious. Getting up and staying up in front of an audience is a mental thing. Years ago at a hotel party, I'm fucking in a room with about 8 or so ppl. A couple ppl finish, and they start talking politics and investments while we're fucking. It killed the mood.

"I've never understood how pussy hounds talk all that jazz, and then no-show. Maybe the dudes have genuine performance issues?"

or wives...

You were looking pa nub in all da wrong places....

I've never understood how pussy hounds talk all that jazz, and then no-show. Maybe the dudes have genuine performance issues?

Forgot about this post. We are very selective with the men. In December we had our first experience. We did everything the same as we did with the first guy. I chatted with them first to get a feel for them. They seemed very cool, respectful, and non pushy. I just think it was bad luck. All the good signs were there. They were willing to meet. When that day came they dissapeared. They never responded back.

What Molly said can only expand your reach to more men, which should enhance the number of quality choices you have to choose from (though the picture in your profile caught my attention just fine. Sorry Molly. What can I say? My Y chromosomes always get the best of me).

If you specifically indicate that you are interested in MFM, you should quickly be inundated with interest from men. Then you have to figure out how to screen them. I would chat with them a bit. On here or an anonymous messenger like KIK. Ask some questions about their interests, interest in you, experience, availability, willingness to meet for an NSA date etc. See if what they say comes across as straightforward and "wholistically" honest. Does it make sense? Are they maybe cheating on someone or do their answers fit together? It's not unreasonable to look critically at potential play partners. Solid guys should expect it and have good answers.

Remember: You have the pussy, you own the lifestyle. Also please remember to send me an IM if you're ever up in Washington..:)

Aren't we all. Lol

Not a shoulder guy myself, but I'm a big fan of head. :)

Wigs don't flake....

Head and shoulders

I generally handle flakes by using a good dandruff shampoo and conditioner....

What? Wrong kind of flake? Emily Litella voice Never mind...

We've only had our first experience in December. Everything was great. Met him again two weeks later. Did everything the same with the next two flakes. We just don't know with anyone. Thanks for all your replies. Its been very helpful.

Thanks Ms Molly. I know I've been needing to update our profile. We're still pretty new. We are very selective with who we pick. Chatted with each guy for couple months. All seem very interested. Never pushy but ready to play when ever we decide to plan a date. Maybe that's just their thing. Playing along and pretending to play till the day comes. Thats the end of the game for them.

Instead of going after flakes, you'd be better served by having a profile that widens the number of people who would be interested in you. Unless something has changed since last night (I have a bet with myself about the kinds of profiles I'll find attached to people who complain about flakes), your profile seems hesitant about swinging as well as being bare and uninteresting. That combo increases your chances of not attracting quality people. So, fix what you have some control over and work on your profile and your vetting.

Flakes are just part of the lifestyle... the longer you're in this lifestyle the more accurate your flake detection meter becomes.

Erotic is right. Being able to post anything negative on someone else's profile would get ugly real quick.

One, the best you can do is find a solid way to vet them before you meet. With singles we always ask to video chat with them to be sure they are who they say they are. The pic collector, fake, cheating husband, etc will rarely video chat. It can save you a lot of time and wasted effort. You can verify the dick is actually his as well, though you don't want it to be a cam session. This will also help you get an idea of if there is any chemistry.

Oh yes many on SLS no shows, married guys cheating, those who dont tell wife they are on a swing site then ask US to talk her into it.. picture collectors, people who collect CERTS for meeting for lunch, dinner but never ever play.. shall we go on..

We like the YELP system best with facts of what happened..!