Delaying Ejaculation

I found the Star wars fan! haha you rock AndrewRobin, now I wont be able to screw without thinking about lifting rocks

Stop and eat pussy for a while.

Wrong. You're all fucking wrong. I've heard and tried that "think about other things" strategy. It has limited success, and you're thinking about other things instead of.....

OK, picture Yoda right now saying, "Never his mind on where he was at, hmmmm, what he was doing....hmmmm!"

Don't think of other things. Focus more intensely on how you feel at every moment. Then control it. Like Luke dropping the rocks and Yoda saying "Control, control, you must learn control!"

Try to forget about Yoda saying. "Size matters not. Judge me by my size, do you?" Unless you're unfortunate enough that that line is actually useful for you.

Use the force, dammit. Search your feelings. Always be aware of yours and hers. Feel it. Obsess on it, and control it. Always be in the moment when you're having sex. When you're thinking about baseball or politics, she's not getting your best.

It's what I do. I have total control over my orgasm. It can be 3 minutes or 3 hours. They usually tell you when they want it with the sexy talk about "I want to feel you cum now.". That's when you switch into 3 minute mode.

Thanks for the candor, that alone is pretty refreshing on here with new posters.

Hopefully, you've read the countless threads here about not pushing too hard too fast to try to convince your wife to do something she isn't comfortable with. You have to let her be in control and make sure any guy who is invited to meet her understands her reticence. A bad experience may not only ruin any potential for future experimentation, it can wreck your relationship.

Bottom line. Open communication about everything you are doing and go at her pace.

On the flip side just be aware that many times, once the woman has a taste of what is out there, she becomes the driving force in wanting more. Remember, the man usually gets a couple started in the LS, the woman is who keeps them there.

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Yea she is aware, I am not arranging anything right now. Im talking with her about it and discussing with others on here as to what NOT to do. Shes not onboard yet, Ive really been trying to fund a very attractive male massage therapist that is legit, so I can buy her sessions and slowly get her used to being touched by another man. Thats kind of what we r thinking, but she may start with that and not be into it at all.

If you want to change the name of your profile, you would do what you suggested and create a new profile then transfer payment. But you can change from single to couple with an email.

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Didn't know customer service would do that. Good to know.

I should add, I hope she knows you have the profile. The way it’s worded and your question here sounds like you are trying to arrange play for her, i hope you have discussed this with her and she is aware of the profile and your postings.

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No need to create a new profile. You can email customer service and they will change your profile to “couple” as long as the text and pictures are consistent.

And yes, please keep her pics. ;^D

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Set up a new, free couples profile, populate it with everything from your current profile the send a note ro customer service to move your billing there. Shouldn't be a problem.

And keep those pics. Please keep those pics...lol

Yeah I tried to set it up as a married couple but I must have did wrong. I tried to change it but it won't let me add her to it.

Yea, I must have set it up wrong. I could have swore I set it up as a married couple but looks like it didn't and now it won't let me change it.

If I want to delay orgasm I think about news, or science.

If I want to render orgasm impossible, I'll think about ncal.

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I think about ducks. I've heard some post they think about baseball. Essentially, just distract your brain long enough to delay the orgasm but not lose your erection.

Off topic, why do you have a SM profile if your goal is to meet guys to share your wife with?

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Sorrilo why do you care? You haven't had a woman in thirty years.

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

How to be a stud is the question. Back in the days of the goddess and swinging 1980's it was required that men learn skills to sexual please the goddesses if you wanted to be a member of a swingers group. It did not matter how hot your wife looked or how mush she loved to fuck.

I learned how to not cum for an hour with a rock hard cock all that time. What i did, or is should say what i was told to do and it worked was to beat off and stop right before you cum. a couple of strokes then to almost cum again but stop. Repeat and over time you with make the nerves in your cock less sensitive and therefore stay hard much much longer.

You may say but i do not want to desensitize my cock, my orgasm wont be as intense. I say who cares its really fun being the stud!!! The women all call me god as they cum, oh god oh my god Jesus Christ...godlyness is more fun the having a super intense orgasm.

My wife and I do not wear protection together. Half the time I am okay to go for a while without cumming but sometimes it does happen fast. I almost always make her cum so thats not my concern, I would just like to keep it to a good time length always. With a condom I could go on forever and a day. Is there any good method for delay? Unfortunately the only one I know is opiods and I don't want to get heavy into that of course.