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We’ve been pulling a 30’ foot toy hauler for years, and yes we have a 2500 Silverado. The thing that the interweb won’t tell you is it’s not all about pulling power as much as stoping power. The first time your in a panic stoping situation…
SexyCouple have you ever hooked up with another couple long distance ??
We’ll be sure to let you know when we find out.
Does anyone use the Lovenes Long Distance part of the app.? We’re new to the Lovenes toys, and that looked like it might be a fun way to play with other couples.
Never did this as a teenager, but now it sounds like fun.
We have said what the last couple of comments have said, but everyone would say we weren’t trying hard enough. Our trying never changed, but the times sure have changed.
Overed we feel the same way. There used to be M&G’s and house/pool parties all the time. We don’t even read about them any more. We have said this in the past and everyone on here said we’re not trying hard enough. The truth is Covid kille…
The last meet and greet that we know of around us only had 3 couples and for us it’s 30 minutes from home.
AandJ you sound like us. We really want to find couples close to home. We had some pre Covid, guess they moved on
Thank you everyone for the responses, but were getting a little off track. We all know we need to travel to clubs, resorts, and meet and greets. The conversation the wife and I were having was about traveling to meet a new couple for the f…
That's how we feel now a days. If we can meet half way in say 20 minutes that great. Back in the day we might travel up to an hour just to find out there was no connection. Not any more. Thank you for your thoughts, and Happy New Year.
Wife and I were having a discussion at breakfast this morning, and we were wondering how far most couples are willing to travel to meet a couple for the first time. We traveled a lot in the beginning but have narrowed it down over time. Ju…
Esperanza911, sorry for the misunderstanding
We feel the same way as Esperanza911. The older we get the harder it is to find other couples willing to play.
WOW! That's a little harsh. The last time we talked you were a lot nicer. Offering great advice, and you even looked into things going on in our area to help. By the way after looking into things you even said we seem to be in a dead zone.…
We understand your pain Cooltwo. It's been four years for us. Our last L/S date was the night before covid hit. We posted on here before and chatted with many of you. We've been ready to wave the white flag many times, but for some reason…
Thank you GandS. Like we said we had seen them while camping but never knew what it meant. We know about all the other things. Wink, Wink
Would like some more information on this. We have seen this in a few of the campgrounds we have stayed at.
Totally agree with what one said. Why would anything happen without connections
We have given up looking. It’s dry as a desert in our area for seniors. It used to be easy to find other couples that wanted to get together for happy hour drinks, or maybe dinner. People sure have changed. When we write to other couples 9…
We are total morning people to start with. Up early and out early. Plus nothing wrong with a little day drinking mixed with a little flirting. ;)
This post is for a laugh, as much as conversation. Why is it most M&Gs or events don’t start until 8:00/9:00 at night? Hell we’re ready for bed by 9:30 (5:00 comes early). What about a 3:00 Happy Hour M&G? We know we can have as much fun a…
Would love to find parties like the one your talking about. The respect thing is great. We both like watching sexual enjoyment. Not sure the husband could hold off to long and would join in ever so slowly.
2outdoorlovers, we like the way you put it. Things in life need to be tried. There are many things in life we have tried, some we have liked others not so much.
TandD. “He” is just at the curious stage right now. We have seen some damn hot sex vid where everyone is having a super good time touching, feeling, more. Hell everyone needs to step out of their box from time to time.
I have to agree with onehelluvaguy. The older I have gotten I just don’t care what others think. You only have so many day on this earth, so might as well enjoy each and every one of them.
Wish more people could be more like you Someone.
We’ve talked before, but as you can seee we’re still here hanging on to hope.
I wasn’t comparing apples to oranges. I was just saying we know how they feel. All you know is what you read by searching our area. We see the same thing when we do a search. You have no idea how many couples we have reached out to with no…
Hedo2. We are sort of in the same boat, and who wants to travel just to find out the four of you just don’t click. We’ve drive an hour away just to find out their pictures are a “little old”. Their words not ours.
Phoebert, going with your number we looked last night, and some of them haven’t been on for 15 plus days. Also you don’t know what we are and are not looking for in L/S friends. One other thing we counted 12 couples that we have messaged a…
Our point is we have lost all contact with our friends over the last three years. It would be very hard to host a party with no L/S friends.
This might seem a little naive, but would need to have a good size group of friends to pull off a house party like your speaking of?
TandD you are so far off the target. Our comment on this is our area people must not be looking for folks our age.
That’s missing the point. Traveling thousands of miles for a one time meeting is not really helping us. We are looking for regular friends that can meet up for happy hour or Saturday nights out. Thank you for the offer though.
You are correct. But we’re still here trying. We went to a resort town this weekend and put out a hot date with no luck.
This will always be a debate. When it’s time you’ll know it. Yes you will deny it for awhile, but take it from us, you’ll know.
Why is there so much difference between the web page and the App?
Someone, as we have said before we’ve done the club thing, and much like you are more open to time where can actually hear each other. Now that’s not saying we don’t like a good band or DJ from time to time. And you don’t run into the slop…
Salty we can feel your pain. Not sure what has changed over time.
Thank you everyone. We new you all would know.
Can we get a little help with the Friends page? We’ve never used it. We’ve been getting a few requests without any conversation before hand. Is this is how things work now? On our F/B we only have friends that are people we know. So a litt…
We have run into the No kissing thing a few time, and we find it a little strange as well.
Oh. There are many profiles on here that don’t have open face pictures. We do have, and will open our pictures once communication has been opened. Our pictures are covered because we have very public jobs. We have been called out before fo…
Some harsh words for someone that doesn’t even know anything about us. One big plus you have is you are a single woman, and you’ve haven’t been in the L/S long enough to have lost contact with people. The biggest problem for couples is try…
We’re not newbies folks, we’ve been in the L/S for over eight years. We’ve done the clubs and the M&G stuff. Hell we’ve been to Hedo like ten times. What we’ve been trying to say is it feels like we have aged out. When we post on Hot Dates…
Mark that is three cities you won’t find us in. The crime is off the charts there. We did the club thing back in the day, but the cliques got to be too to much for us.
Nathan, like I have said it’s not just here at home. We have had no luck when we travel. We keep talking about giving up, but everyone on here keeps telling us to hang in there.
fun you should feel, and you are very lucky. We haven’t had a date since March of 2020 Not that we haven’t tried.
We feel people would not tell the truth. Heck they can’t tell the truth now, and there’s not that many options now.
BC2, we feel like Covid did the casual lifestyle couples in. We were weekend warriors to start with. Now a days we’re not even that :(.
RonKathy we have talked about this in the past, and we’re still in the same place.
Well it looks like our not finding other couples in our age group is going to be all COVID’s fault them. LOL
Whoa….. I think your being a little harsh. We have been in the L/S almost 10 years, and over that time we know what we like, and what we’re looking for. We also know that people aren’t perfect. Like we said, your age, the area you live in…
Sekycpl, we’ve been saying that for a while now. We think the area we live in has something to do with it, but we have had no look when we travel. So we’re not sure what is going on.
You may have better luck having a toy party. Everyone can try on the sexy outfits, and play with all the toys. Just an idea.
Us too. What’s up with that?
Us too. What’s up with that?
R&K. Playing? What is this playing you speak of? LOL
R&K. Playing? What is this playing you speak of? LOL
Someone, all we know is it very depressing. When you reach an age where you are empty nesters and very little planing has to go into thing, and no one give you the thin of day. We’re not here for the young one, but we sure would like to fi…
You all make it sound so easy to find a party or event, and Not everybody are cruise people. We have reached out while on vacation. With no luck. We have done the club thing, but the cliques made it not fun any more. We just can’t believe…
MandC it’s a dead area. It’s very depressing to put so much effort into something with no outcome.
R&K. Hell we would be happy just to have couples to turn away.
We’ll you’ve all had much better luck in your journey then we’ve had. We haven’t done anything in the hobby for close to three years. We’ve posted about leaving, but many of you to hang in there. We’ll we’re still here.
As you know from our other posts that doesn’t really work for everyone. We find most “hobby” stores for some reason are closed to us.
What happens when you don’t have any hobby stores in your area?
Jawwge that’s always the story. Funny thing is since we made this post we have had more people visit our page then ever. The real funny part is most average have been around 400 plus miles away. Guess it’s true what TallMark said, we have…
Funny thing about Covid is it never slowed us down. We both worked thur it from day one. We both got it the end of September last year. To tell the truth I’ve had worse hangovers.
TallMark. That just not right. People have lost all respect for each other.
We didn’t say we didn’t have friends in the L/S. They have just moved on or are no longer active. Age is not our problem. We just feel that people for some reason over look us. It’s just really disheartening when you message couples and ne…
We’ve been talking, and we both feel it is time that we wave the white flag. We have talked about this before on here, but we now think it’s time. We have tried everything, and for the last two plus years nothing has worked for us. We have…
R & K. You are right on point. It’s sad people can’t make eye contact and carry on a conversation. They could learn so much more about life.
It’s not just the cost of gas. It’s the coast of everything. Not trying to take this off track. Our view is not all areas are as active as other.
4_Real, not much traveling going on for a while with these gas prices
We feel it has a lot to do with the area you live in. As of lately we haven’t had much success in meeting couples, and really feel like our age is the cause. Just because we’re mature doesn’t mean we’re old. We’ll keep trying, because life…
We’re leaving for Myrtle Beach Saturday morning. Any ever stay at Pirate Land? We know it’s not a L/S resort, but it close to where we want to be this coming week.
We have to agree with mayhem8 and onehorneywife. Hell at this point we’d just like to find a couple to play with.
We would like to learn more about any, and all lifestyle events in general. Thanks in advance.
We also agree with R&K. We have thought about this many times, but have never crossed the "friends" line.
Thank everyone. We really just feel it’s the area we live in. @ DTH we have changed our settings so you can give us your opinion
DTH, we tried that back in December before Christmas. We traveled to OC Maryland. We did get two messages, but they wanted us to travel even farther south then we already had traveled.
One last comment then we'll keep quiet. We posted a Hot Date for Friday night. We don't get all that many free Friday nights and thought we might try to find a little fun. Just like all of our other Hot Dates not one message from anyone. W…
Hedo2. If you do get to go leave all this BS here at home, and have an awesome time. Do you travel with a group? We here they are cutting back on the groups.
Hedo2 we feel the same. Covid killed our Hedo trips. Not sure we’ll ever travel outside the country again.
We didn't find it hard at all when we first got into the lifestyle. The older we got the harder it seems. We haven't had much luck lately.
JC we feel the same. We deleted ours as well.
We are very aware of the events on the hot dates. We have been in the L/S since 2013, we’re not newbies. Our point has been that our area at our age is not active. It’s not like we live in a senior community.
We are very aware of the events on the hot dates. We have been in the L/S since 2013, we’re not newbies. Our point has been that our area at our age is not active. It’s not like we live in a senior community.
@ TomandDiane. I think we meet many years back at The Private Affair. We gave up on the club scene a few year ago because of the cliques. Over the years all of our friends have left the L/S, and we are having a very hard time finding new L…
@ TomandDiane. I think we meet many years back at The Private Affair. We gave up on the club scene a few year ago because of the cliques. Over the years all of our friends have left the L/S, and we are having a very hard time finding new L…
@ HotLuv, Please reread our post. We said we posted three times over the last two months (Nov & Dec) and never received any responses. All three were for weekends that we were free for the whole three day weekends.
Hotluv, Hot Dates are a joke. We posted 3 times in the last 2 months and didn’t get one response Nothing is ever listed as far as parties in our area. We live in a very dead area for people our age.
Mayhem, where does one find said parties? We have never seen anything like that in our area.
Why lie? Seems dumb to us. Ours is 100% correct.
We have said for awhile now that it’s all in the area you happen to live in. For us that plus the age factor has almost made us give up on the L/S. Here’s an example. Over the last two months we have posted in “Hot Dates” three times, and…
TallMark. Thanks for making me laugh first thing this morning.
WeLike, we feel the same. It really strange where they go.
We’re with a few of the others, you post on here and next thing you know folks from all over are looking at your profile. Doesn’t bother us at all.
Jawwge, you are right where we are. Reading your post sounded just like us. And yes it's a shame your not closer to us,
