BDSM
For those into the BDSM LifeStyle
Cuckolding
I think a fair number of couples on this site are basically cuckold couples but are afraid to admit it.
by Vallandar128replies83,374views- 232replies51,768views
Forced bi
Anyone else into this aspect of BDSM? I am listed as straight on our profile as I don't consider myself attracted to other men. I have had my cock sucked and have sucked cock myse…
by 3some4us22143replies14,639viewsWife/gf relationship with another dom
How many couples or single females are into the bdsm lifestyle as well and if so what are you into? Are their any couples here that the male half enjoys having his wife/gf submit…
by CTDom12370replies8,902views- 62replies8,381views
BDSM without humiliation
Hello, My wife and I are interested in light BDSM, but do not like humiliation (bossy is good). Humiliation seems to be a big part of most of the BDSM that I have observed. What a…
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Being discreet in your home (kids here)
We are seasoned swingers, but really new to BDSM. Most things are easy to keep discreet, but not spanking. That smack on the ass is loud! Plus, we have a vaulted BR ceiling, so it…
by seXXnpassion30replies5,812viewsWhere are the Married Submissive Women?
Is this a common fantasy? I'm a single man. Dominant. But the married submissive female seems difficult to do d.....
by Willy6000025replies5,363views- 31replies5,327views
Watching wife spanked
I can't tell you how much I found husbands enjoy watching his wife spanked. It is also exciting to see the wife respond to being prepared to spanked. I like to have her stand legs…
by Bob2020116replies5,141viewsCaged in Public
Wife mentioned she would like to go to nude beach but keep me locked up. I haven’t seen anyone else do this. Good or bad?
16replies5,106viewsHot wife experience w/ hub blindfolded only to listen
I’ve never experienced but always wanted to die the couples that like to spice things up a little more. Probably more for cuckold couples but can apply to all I’ve always wanted t…
by CTDom12319replies4,477viewsBondage equipment-furniture
Would love to see some posts of some GREAT sites for buying furniture-crosses-etc. We need to do some shopping & thought alot of you might have some idea's of where to go. THanks,…
9replies4,476viewsBDSM COMPLETE DUNGON FOR SALE
COMES WITH sPANKING BENCH, CROSS, SWING, RESTRAINTS, SEVERAL WHIPS, TENS UNIT, ROPES AND MUCH MUCH MUCH MORE. ALL READY TO GO. We still live the lifestyle but are in need of a spa…
18replies4,370viewsBDSM who is looking for it
My husband and I love BDSM play who else loves it and what’s the best way to find like minded people
by JaJuFun20replies3,893views- 15replies3,497views
FetLife vs SLS
Can someone explain the Pros and Cons of each site please? From what I’ve been able to gather, it’s easier to message individuals on SLS than FetLife. Is that true? So how do you…
18replies3,109viewsBlindfolds?
We would like to be some really functional yet super comfortable blindfolds. We've tried sleep masks, scarves/bandannas, but would like something purpose built and would greatly a…
24replies2,988viewsCouples in Medical Play
We are and have always enjoyed medical play with couples and singles. Anyone else interested. And what’s the biggest turn on. For me it’s the snap of the rubber gloves I know soon…
by JaJuFun16replies2,897viewsNeed a good quality flogger
Today after work, I was using a riding crop and my hand on my wife. After really mind blowing sex, she asked me to buy us a flogger to spank her with. All the ones I see are prett…
38replies2,791viewsNew to Cuckolding as a Bull
I'm new to cucklold as a Bull. I recently talk to a married couple on a swinger website about being play partners. They are looking for a bull because there last one have moved ou…
by DarkJ824replies2,769viewsSingle Men for BDSM Play
We have tried many time to set up a night of play with single men. We get lots of emails and just as many no shows!! Crazy!!
by sexytxcpl10replies2,636viewsCBT-Sounds
I have a boy toy who is getting into this, and I don't have a lot of experience with it. Any advice on how to proceed and where I might find information?
by num1scamp15replies2,610viewsWho is into erotic electrastim?
I’ve been experimenting with a tens machine for erotic stimulation, with some amazing results. I haven’t seen any discussion here about this, who else is into this?
by Bird69too21replies2,602viewslanguage
Hi fellow Swingers and Kinksters I'm curious what people think about the word 'slut?' For the women do you identify with the word? Is it something you like to be called a slut? Wh…
by igruv214replies2,521viewsBehavior Modification
I’m just curious if anyone on here has any experience with behavior modification. I do not but would love to learn more about it. I’m not really talking about “call me sir” kind o…
by Bull4utoo30replies2,484viewsWatersports / Woman or Couple wanted
Hello , I'm pretty curious about watersports ... If there is a experienced couple or woman who would love to show me some wet fun , Please get back to me I'm really excited to try…
by Wetboy8010replies2,457viewsWho is into erotic electrastim?
I’ve been experimenting with a tens machine for erotic stimulation, with some amazing results. I haven’t seen any discussion here about this, who else is into this?
by Bird69too11replies2,234viewsSwing clubs vs BDSM Clubs
Wife and I are full-fledged swingers, and have been now for over 18 years. Full-swap, usually with other couples, the occasional threesome. We also play as singles at certain club…
10replies2,230viewsPoly, swinging AND kinky
Anyone else identify as poly, still swings, and is kinky? We are both hyper-sexual as well. Lots of affection, love, and crazy sexual adventures! We're only a couple years into th…
8replies2,145viewsAm I sex slave or just a well-trained slut?
My husband will set up any scenario from inviting three guys over without notice to use me on the front porch. he will organize a stranger to meet me at my car at lunch to suck hi…
by Dear_diary7replies2,096viewsNew to BDSM
We are starting to explore BDSM as a part of our adult erotic fun. Do we start with role playing much as we have. I’m the slave girl and my husband the master sells me to our frie…
by JaJuFun12replies2,081viewsWhat to do to keep occupied during this trying time
We bought a steel vulva Spreader from extreme restraints and a few steel butt plugs.
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Bdsm gangbang-NE LA
Surely there are some people out here in Monroe/rusron area who is down for some Role playing??? My gf big fantasy is tied, choked, gagged, blindfolded. Toyed with . Forced roleyp…
2replies1,951viewsBedroom conversion - furniture
Empty nesters, finally, so now looking to convert an unused bedroom into an adult playroom. What should be 'standard' furniture? Room is appro 12x12. Door and inwall closet on sam…
13replies1,931viewsExhibitionism fantasy
Does anyone else have a fantasy of wearing cum in public ? That and being sent home to my wife wearing cum are my ultimate dreams.
3replies1,876viewsWho else has been slammed here on the forum?
I have minions? Woohoo! Also, it's easy to avoid varying points of view if you block those who disagree with you, as the OP has.
14replies1,859viewsFisting
My wife enjoys using her toys on me. Vibes, even strap-on. Lately we have been discussing her fisting me. Has anyone tried this? What's the best lube? Any tips?
by cpl4xx4replies1,740viewsThoughts or advice on bdsm furniture
We are in the market for a spanking/breeding bench. Does anyone have any experience with furniture purchased online? Wood pieces look much better in pictures, but we are wondering…
by hotluvrs13replies1,697viewsJust got feet wet, want more
So yeah met a couple who are into BDSM and they gave me the intro into the basics with spanking and some of the other toys such as floggers, crops, paddles, etc. What I'm really i…
by Hezzair9replies1,690viewsDom sub couple with a baby girl.
Does anybody that's in a Dom sub relationship have a baby girl sub you share or train?
by MossyDDd3replies1,675views- 8replies1,672views
Cattle Prod
So while browsing FB Marketplace I (the male half) came across an add for a rechargeable cattle/livestock prod about 3' long. Well my mind immediately went to "social distancing"…
by RusticMagic7replies1,608viewsShare BDSM podcasts, books, websites, other resources
Care to share? Anything applying to BDSM that you think others might want to know about, too. Podcast: I like the podcast called "The Pageist" - BDSM. She has a "group" on Fetlife…
by seXXnpassion4replies1,573viewsCock cages
Have limited experience. Full on use with a list of submissive control. Her lover with the big cock. She had me displayed, collar, nipple clamps , penis gag, cock Gage, and a but…
2replies1,568viewsPendelum -NYC
This club says its a strong BDSM club with Pegs, bolts, crosses ect. Has anyone been there and seen our used it?
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