Submissive or Dominate

I, (male) consider myself submissive. It wasn't always like that but the last 8 years, I enjoy her Domme side that she did not realize she had.

Apparently the rules were different 20 years ago about contact information in any post let alone the original post.

definately a Dom looking for a sexual sub. the idea of 24/7 submissive is not ideal. prefer a partner not a slave. Just a woman that loves to be sexually submissive is ideal to me

I am blessed that people enjoy supporting as I loooove the left side of the slash: Domme, Top, handler, Daddy, Master

(Written by Dominay. Danny is rarely on this site.)

Definitely a switch based on the situation

Dom. Tried switching over the years but never enjoyed it, now I stick with what I enjoy and am good at

[quote=novswing65]I’d like to be submissive to a couple or bi guy. If local let me know. Upstate ny[/quote]Sounds fun!

Hard to find, but would love to find Female Dom/ Submissive Male couple to play with a similarly aligned couple. Opens a whole new dynamic and range of options. Anyone out there geographically close?

I’m a switch but tend to be more of a pleasure dom

I’m definitely a switch, but predominantly a pleasure dom

Dom here... Went out to the bar with my friend and his wife. We went back to their house, and I told her I wanted to fuck her. She came to the room I was sleeping in and got naked. I told her to get her husband so he could watch. It was awesome!

Sin is definitely submissive! She loves dirty talk and being told what to do!

I would LOVE to be submissive to my wife and 1 or 2 bi men. Yummmm

As I tend to be one who loves to give pleasure, I enjoy following the lead of the couple or woman I'm with. Nothing rough or degrading, no humiliation. Naughty bedroom language and teasing and denial during long sessions are number 1 on my list.

Sunshine likes an even balance of power and Brian in totally submissive.

I am 1000% submissove to my husband. I will do anything and everything he orders. I love when he has another female and makes me watch and then be used by both

I’d like to be submissive to a couple or bi guy. If local let me know. Upstate ny

Mr OWC is a gentleman Dominant in life and our relationship. Mrs OWC is mostly submissive to him and prefers he leads in life. We are mild in the BDSM aspects with mainly rough sex ie her being taken and used, spanked as part of sex mostly and verbal cues. She enjoys orgasm denial or ordering to orgasm with that. With other men, she is not as submissive and can get mildly dominant with them though a man that understands the Dom/Sub mental aspects can push the right buttons. She has no tolerance for a wannabe dominant and ends up equal or controlling them to a degree as far as the sex play. While we have employed ropes and bondage we do not really anymore. Mrs OWC prefers submissive positions and behaviors so she is retrained by herself. She absolutely loves blindfolds.

There is a club in San Diego you two would love. It looks like a card room. Mostly the men play cards. Upstairs slutty things are enjoyed by all!!

Extremely submissive Sex Slave. My husband will organize three or four other men for a formal evening. They’ll play a game of poker drink some scotch smoke some cigars in a formal setting. About an hour into the evening, he will bring me out on a collar and leash and nothing but high heels and nipple clamps. he will parade me around then take me down into the wine cellar shackle me over a tumble horse, then guide the men into the seller. Yes I would say I’m submissive. They will take turns using me front and back. I’m not allowed to speak or talk.

She is clearly dominate and I am submissive when playing with a like minded couple. Prefer when both ladies run the show, but any combination is great.

100% submissive

I've never thought of myself as either.

But I have this new girlfriend who is a switch. With me she has assumed the sub role.

I'm having quite the time with her.

I could get used to this dom thing...

I identify as a switch and it depends on the scenario, partners and the mood! It’s fun to navigate as a dom and as more submissive every once in awhile.

We both enjoy the submissive role, especially with another couple where both are dominant. However, it takes a lot of trust before we feel able to submit.