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Thomaston, CT, Us

Submissive male slave available for bdsm play exploring all fantasies and Fetishes,, collar and leash me, train me, you and I should enjoy Bondage Discipline roleplay restraints rope toys gags etc etc etc etc.. coffee or lunch sometime to discuss

Bob20201Member
Buffalo, NY

I have enjoyed many couples that want to experience some BDSM fun both together or a husband watching his wife find a new road to explore. Having them look into each other’s eyes as new and exciting things happen is always fun no one ever goes home unhappy

I am very interested.
Let me know if you need me.
Anthony

Dallas, TX, Us

Heyypuve never tried me I'll show up for a night of bdsm especially if I'm the sub call me at 214 642 5510. My name is eric I promise not to disappoint

I have played as a single for many years. I can'count the number of couples who have been "no shows". No need to get upset. Move on.

Bob20201Member
Buffalo, NY

Why would a guy not show up to have a fun time with a beautiful body like yours. I could think of enough erotic things to try with you to keep us a busy for days.

I have been to a SLS / FET party that was well thought out, guests by invite only and that seems to work for me. Haven't been to one since moving, but if you look in your area, I am sure they are they.

As much as I think open parties could be fun, I prefer the ones buy invite only...As a single male I know that is difficult to break that barrier however, once you've gain the trust of someone who goes to those events and your are invited to go with them.... well, if you are respectful at the event, you will get on the list and the rest is up to you.....just my opinion

Carlisle, PA, Us

Why single men in particular? Have you tried breaking in to the local link scene?

In our area, munches are dreadful for us (dominated by trannies and LGBT types, as well as spinsters that seem to hate men), but some areas have rather lively crowds that are quite welcoming, work hard to create safe play spaces and promote education around kink.

blingraMember
Nashville, TN, Us

In my experience, meeting people at the local kink community can lead to connections. In their parlance they have "munches" (food) and "sloshes" (drinks) where you get to meet people in a platonic setting. Usually it is being active and helpful on FetLife in the local groups that nets me friends and potential playmates.

Then a lot of the bigger cities have play spaces where you can go have a scene with someone in a monitored setting. If you hit it off, then you can take it to a more intimate environment.

num1scampRegular
Warren, MI, Us

We haven't experienced that problem ourselves. But my husband usually meets and vets any potential playmates, often we do it as a couple. We never invite anyone to our home we haven't yet met and gotten to know a bit. Once a guy did fail to meet us for a drink, he called and gave some excuse later, but my husband just to him to forget it

Salt Lake City, UT, Us

We have tried many time to set up a night of play with single men. We get lots of emails and just as many no shows!! Crazy!!