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Swinging Vanilla cruise

in Cruise Talk ·

A couple of years ago I heard of a cruise with 550 swingers on a vanilla cruise. It was a super awesome experience. I am looking for this again. I was on the Bliss Cruise a week ago. It is always fun but I do not like flying across the cou…

Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club

in BDSM ·

My fav venues are where sex meet bdsm meets nude-acceptable!! Much of the reason I see these not overlapping is swingers often rely on alcohol while kinksters take play seriously therefor sober. Most places allow both. However, here in Cal…

BDSM without humiliation

in BDSM ·

Humiliation is only one small tool. It can be super hot and spicy to have a D/s dynamic without the humility. I treasure the men who submit to me. I partake in humiliation but mine is more at a teasing level. Also, I know how to “undo and…

Submissive or Dominate

in BDSM ·

I am blessed that people enjoy supporting as I loooove the left side of the slash: Domme, Top, handler, Daddy, Master (Written by Dominay. Danny is rarely on this site.)

Cruise or Hedo?

in Travel ·

[quote=nhcouple0805]We have not been on a cruise ever and we have never been to hedo. Trying to decide what one we should do?[/quote]My best vaca was cap D’Agde!

Cruise or Hedo?

in Travel ·

[quote=Someonescoming]We have the same question. We hear about many people going on cruises and/or Hedo etc., and yet we never see any after action reports, and wonder why. We are interested lifestyle activities, and not really interested…

October 2025 Roll Call

in Cruise Talk ·

It’s my birthday bash cruise Firenze October 20, 2025 seven days $600 total for two people inside $900 total for two people for balcony two days in Cabo

East Bay group?

in California ·

East Bay? The best club here is definitely PlayMakers!! They bring together super awesome average normal people. If you get this message before Tuesday I can give you details for meeting up. I will be with them Tuesday at dinner.

Forced bi

in BDSM ·

This is a sticky topic for me. I love bi guy play. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men giving or receiving pleasure from anyone else. If it is forced I feel like we are pushing boundaries on acceptable. Bi is more than acceptable; b…

BDSM without humiliation

in BDSM ·

Like all aspects of BDSM, you get to pick and chose what works for the two of you! I am less into humiliation and more into teasing. Teasing is like hearted and fun. I only rattle and poke at areas he feels secure. I would never rattle som…

Submissive or Dominate

in BDSM ·

There is a club in San Diego you two would love. It looks like a card room. Mostly the men play cards. Upstairs slutty things are enjoyed by all!!

To much for the swing club Shocking the Normies

in BDSM ·

Just because someone consents to attending a swinger event does not mean they consent to seeing and hearing your kinks. If you want to spank your partner to spice up sex, that is usually well received. If you want a bdsm scene go to your p…

Am I sex slave or just a well-trained slut?

in BDSM ·

You talk about actions and what he does. Are you on board and wanting this? (You do not have to answer here.) All of this kind of play is hot and sexy if it is what YOU want. If this is what you want they’re absolutely is no shame in this.…

Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club

in BDSM ·

“BDSM” and “kink people” are broad labels. There are no set rules for identifying as any label. There are vague expectations which can open conversations. I indentify equal parts nudist, Domme kinkster and swinger. My best experience is wh…

Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club

in BDSM ·

Yeahhh. Thank you for the play-by-play. Sounds like a fabulous evening! Every mix of people bring their own yums and yums. No two nights are the same. I can not wait to hear your experience next month! Thank you for sharing.

January 2025 Roll Call

in Cruise Talk ·

As of now, I will be solo on the Carnival Radiance on January 6,2025. $380 pp inside/$670 pp balcony. Anyone else interested?

Next Stop The Pacific Northwest

in Travel ·

Consider staying at Laguna Del Sol Sacramento ca. You must have government id to enter. You must enter your first time 10:am-4:pm. This is a nudist resort not lifestyle.

Cap in France July 20 to 27 2024

in Travel ·

Couple, how was your cap dagde experience? I was also there in August. Ten days was not enough time. I loved everything I did. I only wish it was year round so I didn’t have to wait a year to go back.

Hedo end of September / early October

in Resorts ·

I will be there on October 3. I will arrive rested and ready to play. I will be playing solo. PS, if you have anything you can’t bring back on the plane with you please feel free to drop it off to me. I will be in 75 the hot tub deck close…

Hedo Bi Week Oct 5th thru Oct 12th

in Resorts ·

I will be in Jamaica on October 2. I am spending day one near the airport then heading to Hedo. I’ll be there until the following Sunday. I love bi week. It is the best play I’ve ever seen at Hedo. I am easy to find. I am in room 75. My ho…

Panties

in Bi Males ·

As soon as I started dating my guy ten years ago I removed all his boy boxers. Those were not appropriate. I replaced with many sexy beautiful lacy and silky and fun print thongs from Victoria secret. I am lucky. He is tiny so he fits thes…

Bliss Symphony of the Seas November 2024 roll call

in Cruise Talk ·

I am booked on both of the 2024 Bliss Cruises (and the nude cruise next month). I usually play solo. I am a bi sexual lady. It is not difficult for me to find quality play. What I most prefer is solo pansexual or bi sexual guys or transgen…

Cruising 2024

in Bi Males ·

Is anyone here going on the Big Nude Boat or either Bliss Cruise. I was seeking other bi guys. Both of my partners are bi, but, they are not together. I think it would be fun to invite other awesome bi guys to our cabin.

Motorcycling

in New Forums ·

@couplesacca there is a weekly motorcycle ride from Laguna del sol every Friday. They meet outside the gate. They are all nudists. They live by the aanr rules and so not talk about swinging. I know for sure some of them do swing.

Real Cuckolding or Hot Wifing

in New Forums ·

I have a strong sex drive. I am truly in love with my life partner. However, sexually he can not please me on his own. He is pussy free so he can stay focused on what is important… me. I am what’s important.

Chastity

in New Forums ·

My partner is cuckolded to me. He isn’t always caged but he is always my cuck. We both like it this way. I am active in the swinger community. He just tags along, holding my drink, handing me condom, lube and hair ties. He is also my drive…

Trip available Club Hedonism 10/7-10/14

in Travel ·

Did you go? That was an amazing week! The play was fantastic. I’ve been to Hedo many times but never seen Hedo like this!! I am already booked for bi week 2024!!

Palm springs California

in Travel ·

I prefer EDR exotic dreams resort over Tuscany manor. EDR has a take over event for bi guys on Martin Luther long weekend. EDR, Tuscany manor and sea mountain all require you to bring your own alcohol and mixers. I put in a pick up order a…

Palm springs California

in Travel ·

Palm Springs is not hot in the winter but it is nicer weather than most other venues. I swim nude year round. Sea mountain is great if you want electric music thumping high alcohol spring break frat house vibe. EDR exotic Dreams Resort is…

Feb 24 Roll Call

in Cruise Talk ·

I will be on the big nude boat cruise bare necessities. Damn, how many keyword search names does this one have.

seeking guy roommate Bliss Cruise

in Cruise Talk ·

I was supposed to cruise on both the spring and autumn 2024 Bliss cruises. Due to a medical concern, my companion can not make it. When I called my travel agent to cancel, he suggested I reach out here. He said there are more guys than lad…

seeking guy roommate Bliss Cruise

in Cruise Talk ·

I was supposed to cruise on both the spring and autumn 2024 Bliss cruises. Due to a medical concern, my companion can not make it. When I called my travel agent to cancel, he suggested I reach out here. He said there are more guys than lad…

Roll Call April 2023

in Cruise Talk ·

I am going on the Carnival Vista out of Galveston April 22 seven days. Because it isn’t a lifestyle take over this sailing in only $1200 total for two people inside cabin and $1450 for two balcony. SO FAR THER ARE 400 CONFIRMED SWINGERS ON…

Roll Call October 2022

in Cruise Talk ·

I just booked Royal Princess from San Francisco round trip 7 day coastal itinerary. Get this: there is no solo surcharge! It’s actually cheaper for two people to get two rooms! Taxes port fees cruise is $460 for seven days. This is unheard…

BNB Big Nude Boat 2022

in Cruise Talk ·

Danny and I are on the Big Nude Boat 2022. He does not play with others but I do. Princess and Celebrity have meet and Greets that if you register your group they do the rest. Is anyone else interested in getting a group together? I think…

Big Nude Boat

in Cruise Talk ·

I know no one on this ship. Please reach out if you are crushing with me February. I know I already tried reaching out to a few of you who said you’re on the cruise. It would be so awesome if we can gather enough people to register a meet…

Sinners Den

in California ·

Yes! It is super fun. I love the energy in the room. The others were very warm and welcoming. And, pizza.

Hedo since Covid

in Resorts ·

Did the couples posting early October make it? I didn’t see you there, if you were there how did you do with the Covid that was passed around? Fortunately I didn’t get sick until I got home and I was very mild,

First trip to hedo after vaccination.

in Resorts ·

I went in October last year when everyone was spreadI got the cooties, I came home and tested positive, I wasn’t very sick. My next trail is already booked for September-October.

Desert offroad people

in Bi Males ·

If you ever bring your mud toys to NorCal let me know. We have beautiful parks and forests here so I have no intentions of going down there to ride.

Desert offroad people

in Bi Males ·

If you ever bring your mud toys to NorCal let me know. We have beautiful parks and forests here so I have no intentions of going down there to ride.

Desert offroad people

in Bi Males ·

If you ever bring your mud toys to NorCal let me know. We have beautiful parks and forests here so I have no intentions of going down there to ride.

Desert offroad people

in Bi Males ·

If you ever bring your mud toys to NorCal let me know. We have beautiful parks and forests here so I have no intentions of going down there to ride.

Men wearing panties

in Bi Males ·

My guy doesn’t like wearing panties but that is not his choice. The only men’s briefs in the house I have hidden. I usually lay his panties out the night before, I have quite a collection of beautiful panties to choose from.

Break the COVID house arrest

in California ·

I had Covid in November. Last check I had antibodies! My guy didn’t have Covid but I can come out and play, He will have to stay six feet away.

It’s so HARD for a single male

in California ·

It is not hard to find a single man wanting to have no strings attached sex with a single lady or a hotwife. There are far more single guys thathan there are ladies looking. Stand out of the crowd with photos and clear profile of who you a…

Favorite anal lube?

in Bi Males ·

Boy butter both yellow or blue. I like the pump as it stays clean when the fun gets messy.

CBT-Sounds

in BDSM ·

I love sounding! In any sounding class you will learn sterilization and the importance of quality sounds. Sounds can feel perfectly smooth but have microscopic flaws whick will cause problems. Sterilization involves fresh washed lint free…

why are bi couples not totally accepted in this lifestyle

in Bi Couples ·

I am not attracted to “gay” or “straight” or “bi-.” I am simply attracted to good people, any gender. I enjoy a positive energy and always prefer open minded people. People too wrapped up in identity labels are missing the point of the bea…

Hedo Sexy Silvers?

in Resorts ·

I was almost duped by the “test within ten days” does not include that tenth day. You have to test in nine days or fewer. I do not want to see anyone turned away for testing too early.

Hedo Sexy Silvers?

in Resorts ·

My Covid test is scheduled for early Tuesday morning. I leave on Sunday so really hoping things go smoothly. Who is still on for the first week on October?

Long Beach Area

in California ·

I am in the San Francisco Bay Area. I will be down in Palm Springs for the BRAND NEW HankiePankie party. Say hi if you are going. This is going to be an amazing party!!

RV CLUB FOR LIFESTYLERS

in Travel ·

Quartzsite second week of February 2020 I was invited to join a group in Quartzsite. I deleted the invite thinking I couldn’t make it. Life changed and I can make it this year! I am hoping someone can help me find the nudist/ swinger/BDSM…

New to BDSM

in BDSM ·

Oooh, congratulations!! So much exciting times ahead for you two!! Are you looking to be Topped or Dommed, or both? Topping is the doing. Domming is the controlling. Domming and Topping often go together, but they are different. Play with…

Hedo 2 Oct 5 to oct 13

in Resorts ·

I am traveling the same dates with International Delights. Is your group planning any cool parties? Feel free to clue me in to anything exciting that your group has going that is friendly to me box jumping. Thanks

Sanger Banger

in California ·

I will be there with my poly family! I know many of you from Laguna Del Sol. I look forward to hanging out with old friends and meeting new ones. Look for me with Skip in the beige Rockwood trailer with a red truck. Danny and Emma are also…

Hedo 2 Oct 5 to oct 13

in Resorts ·

I will be there! I was hopping to find discussion forums for this event. Am I on the wrong site? Is there more chit chat about this trip somewhere else? Thanks, Dominay

Vegas

in Travel ·

This is a no brainer: One Love by Sea Mountain.

Hedo Oct 12-19

in Resorts ·

Sorry, we are just missing each other. I will be there the week before you.

The womanizer vibrator

in Women Talk ·

I have the Womanizer. I bought is a few years ago from Good Vibes. The plastic is hard and not a quality feel to it. I came across the Girl’s Best Friend by Sweet Vibrations on Yelp. The girls best friend is on Prime (free shipping) priced…