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For those into the BDSM LifeStyle
Paddle Construction
Okay not knowing a lot about this activity and in reality neither of us having a real desire to participate in it this may seem odd but here goes. I (the male half) have quite a b…
by RusticMagic10replies1,518viewsAnal and DP Willing Couples
Hi--we're looking for secure, experienced couples that are anal and DP willing near Tampa....we also enjoy small groups. Seems hard to find couples and anal/dp couples at that...s…
1replies1,445viewsAnyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club
I'm still new here. I got the impression from here and fetlife that swing and BDSM/kink people do not usually play together because of swing prioritizing sex and BDSM/kink making…
by Ymichael1412replies1,420views- 8replies1,411views
So my wife invited our boy toy over for tonight.
Make sure he has you look her in the eyes as he slides into her. I like the woman in all fours and the husband sitting in front of her that way I watch his expression as I slid in…
by Bob202011replies1,409viewsDungeons or Places
Hello and Good morning, very new to the LS and still haven't gotten our toes no near the water lol. I have been looking for a place we can either watch bdms or learn some new thin…
by WeCurious384replies1,404viewsLearning to be a good Dom
Hello, My wife is interested in some aspects of BDSM and being a sub. I think I'm a natural Dom (based on work and personal experiences); however, I haven't really had the desire…
8replies1,397viewsMeeting swingers for BDSM
We wish to offerour own feelings on the topic of BDSM and Swinging, because there is bad information on top of bad information on both subjects, and if we know anything for certai…
by VoicePlayers5replies1,327viewsVoice Play
Greetings Sex Enthusiasts, A darkened room where she is alone and naked on my massage table, hands bound and at my mercy. While my right hand is touching her pussy, my lips are ne…
10replies1,318viewsWhere is empirekink motel located?
Can anyone tell me where empirekinkmotel is located? I was told it is in mifflinburg pa?
by Ram171099replies1,316viewsBDSM Workshop?
Wondering if anyone has ever participated in a BDSM Workshop that they could recommend. I (female half) am interested in BDSM while DH is afraid of hurting me. Hoping to find a ba…
by mebush6replies1,306viewsCollar Wearing
If a Dom gives the Sub permission to take off or put on a collar for a particular reason when the two are apart is that wrong? Should a collar ONLY be put on by or taken off by th…
by cpl4newfun36replies1,290viewsMedical play
Any couple interested in medical play. Having a guy watch his wife examined. Either in a real medical setting or watching a play doctor fine a full physical as you watch her being…
by Bob202013replies1,266viewsEquipment
Where is the best place to buy BDSM equipment. At the moment, we are looking for rope made of velvet, but not having luck finding it.
by GingerScots6replies1,255viewsIdeas on hiding a rack of paddles, crops, etc. in plain sight on a wall?
We have a sort of incognito sex room going in our house. 1/3 of the room is actually our son's play area. On his side is an IKEA chair and desk, rack of bins with Lego's, pokemon…
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Dungeon/Bondage Service
Looking for a Dungeon or Dom (male) that provides a full service experience for my wife's 50th. Somewhere in the South if possible. Texas to Georgia. Thanks for your recommendatio…
2replies1,204viewsRope play
We are new, it looking to try. We have messed around with each other and are ready to include others now. Slowly at first. Mainly rope tying to start. We have seen very involved p…
by Pete7Coleen5replies1,193viewsCandles
Going to be ordering some candles. Aside from size, they all seem to be low temp. Anything else specific to look for? Thinking of doing some restrained/blindfolded sensation play…
8replies1,193viewsAny tip for a submissive male to find a BDSM master/mistress?
I am 50. My wife and I have some experience in the lifestyle, but we have recently realized that what I am looking for falls more in the BDSM category than the submissive cuckold…
by Wifelooks7replies1,181viewsSubmissive Independent Female
You block couples, so can't comment on what your profile does or doesn't say. You also didn't mention what you have tried so far. Being a young SF you no doubt get lots of views,…
by mayhem80replies1,128viewsHusband wants me more Domme
Husband is very dominant man. Im a stay at home mom. He wants me more bossy, demanding, going out more, spending more and taking control in the bedroom over him. I enjoy it but ha…
by espinner3replies1,088viewsFavorite paddle?
Looking for a good thuddy paddle for us to use on each other. Etsy seems to have 75 pages worth of them. Any suggestions on specific sellers, models, sizes/shapes, etc. would be m…
11replies1,080viewsPrison Strap
Anyone use a prison strap as a punishment tool. I love to make my wife go and get it and present for her punishment. She has to kneel hand it to me or a playmate and kiss the stra…
by JaJuFun2replies1,069viewsWife enjoys caning!
When we first got our cane in the mail, we opened it up, I bent her over, and began testing it out. I think I started ever so slightly too hard because she wasn't a fan. She was o…
2replies1,050viewsHelp Finding BDSM
Please give me some ways,avenues,and advice on how to meet people in the BDSM lifestyle. I want to meet people and get involve in this lifestyle. It has always been a fantasy of m…
by funjust3replies1,028viewsSocal Dom sub couples for comparing
We have had a tough time finding other D/s couples, either male or female dom, to compare notes, share stories, share subs, etc. Seems like it should be so easy, but sometimes we…
by CalDomSubCpl5replies998viewsAnyone on here who likes and knows how to use a single tail whip like a bullwhip?
They are effective tools to extract best behavior in a slave. and few know how to use them , any couples where both like to use them?
9replies990viewsVacuum play
I was setting up a couple vacuum sensation trains. Nipples clit etc. Are there other whom enjoy this type of sensory play? What other type of vacuum sensory toys do you enjoy
by PeaceMaker1replies984viewsStrip Search
Has anyone strip searched a female or male play partner. Making them remove their clothes than bend over and give them a rubber glove cavity check
by JaJuFun2replies965viewsLooking for a dominating couple
We would looking to find someone or a couple that would dominate me and my wife not just once but on different occasions someone close by we can travel or host
1replies963viewsNaughty momma Massachusetts
Hello all we are Steve and Laura and I love Laura being a naughty momma! We love hosting at our home
by millisCouple2replies931viewsBDSM Clubs
Can anyone tell me the locations and names of any BDSM Clubs anywhere in Ky or OH? Thanks for all your. Help. Names,Cities Even addresses would be very helpful.
by funjust1replies928viewsBDSM CANING
Has anyone used a Delrin cane. My femdom has a 1/4” one that hurts like hell. Definitely keeps me in line.
4replies922viewsDD/LG?
Anyone here would like to meet new open minded friends with similar age gaps such as my dom and I? We enjoy meeting new friends. We don't mind what age in general. I personally wo…
by Spiralla1replies917viewsMale for use Burlington NC area
Single male available for all sorts of BDSM play, you need a sub well you e found one. Want to try a new technique or form of play you’ve found your test subject.
0replies907viewsIf you are going to mix BDSM and sex then you better be good at
self control. That is, of your orgasm. Not saying you need to be a long lasting tantra god/dess. But if you are spanking/flogging someone while recieving a blow job, you need to h…
3replies874views2 profiles
Not new to lifestyle. I have another profile as a unicorn. Am trying out a kink search with my new account. I started it in January then just reactivate d it. Old friends have fig…
3replies867viewsTo much for the swing club Shocking the Normies
I find it interesting that some folks think it's ok to shock the normies at a swing event. Impact play that should be done in a dungeon vs a swing club would like to get some feed…
by Bondageland7replies865views- 1replies858views
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tonight's fun.
Cross posted to stories: Wife has been broken for several days due to her monthly visitor. (Bastard) But, she's on the final day or two now and feeling extremely frisky. I'm about…
by MNTNcouple1replies840viewsKink friendly in Mass, or western mass.
I'm a poly, kink oriented, bi man. Looking to connect with singles or couples to chat, or meet up. I'm 49, and fluffy. All ages, body types, abilities, genders and gender expressi…
3replies825viewsNew interest in LIGHT SPANKING - BDSM clubs too far?
After a recent trip to Desire, wife has developed an interest in spanking, both giving and receiving. The spanking she enjoys can be hard but sensual and erotic, and definitely no…
2replies785viewsWhat are you in people from CT
Hey! What’s going on?! Looking to start a group to see what everyone kinks are or what you’re into exactly. May have similar interests and become friendly.
by ConnDom5replies784viewsPlay more then just pain
The world of BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance &Submission, slave & Master) Abrasion Age play Anal sex Anal plugs (small) Anal plugs (large) Anal plug (public, under clothes)…
by PeaceMaker1replies783viewsAMA I have taught kink around the world for over a decade
I've traveled to 32 US states, London and Thailand teaching kink. I've written multiple books, run online communities, and help organize some of the local community events in Rale…
by MsNNandRG1replies761viewsSpank my wife
Would love to have an experienced spanker give my wife a proper spanking while I watch and play with my self
by KathyGMillis3replies734viewsLooking for a Mistress in Eastern PA Jersey Del
Out of the the scene for too long and make friends and find a play partner or more
by phillysubway0replies730viewsGood comfortable set of cuffs?
While I have a set of Peerless to show others what NOT to use, we're used to using SportSheets cuffs. But those are 10+ year old. We would like to get a set of cuffs equal to or g…
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