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Mine (wife) are mostly fetish related. Luckily I am crossing items off. One was sex with a really young, fit guy (28, 29). Once I tried it out I couldn't look back! I have had the CMNF fantasy since I was in college. I didn't even know it…
Thanks for letting me know. I'm sad that I lost some of the messages my friends sent me.
I have no idea why SLS restricts KIK. It must have to do with money. There can be no other good reason for them to try to keep all of our communication here. I'm a grown up and if I want to email, call or Kik people, that should be my choi…
I find no mail for someone I was writing to last Dec. and Jan. I now actually know this guy; I'm not blocked by him and I haven't blocked him. I can see his profile, but all of our previous mail is gone. I assume it must be hidden. ??? We'…
Care to share? Anything applying to BDSM that you think others might want to know about, too. Podcast: I like the podcast called "The Pageist" - BDSM. She has a "group" on Fetlife where she lists the topics of each podcast, and you can com…
Oh, I forgot to say, Janet Hardy has another book that I want to read. I think I may just borrow it from my public library. "The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and…
I'm a bit of a fag hag for those reeeeeeally hot bi/gay guys where I, as a female, feel teary and sad for all the vaginas that will miss out. Including my own. I don't talk about this stuff with hubby. He feels creeped out by it, LOL!
If you have kinky fantasies, I encourage you to move forward on them. I have had some since I was really young, mostly involving being restrained (hands, ropes) or spanked. I tried it a little in my 20's, but I felt like an idiot. You need…
I would love a GB, but the thought of trying to set it up, vette the applicants, get a few guys to actually show up...no. That's the equivalence of making an entire Thanksgiving meal all by yourself. Just too much work. I would like to be…
36 or 37. I married young and my first husband would not let me date or be with women. He said, "You're the one who wants to be married and monogamous." I used to feel VERY sad, thinking I'd never get to find out if I was really bi-sexual…
I was 15 or 16. It was a party with alcohol, after a large group of us put on a play in HS. Back then having alcohol or pot at parties was more accepted. At my last class reunion I saw the guy I blew (now a dentist) and asked if he remembe…
Many types of docs can prescribe bioidentical hormone replacement therapy if indicated by results of blood and urine labs. Functional Medicine, Gyno, etc. etc. Find someone you trust and there you go. Good luck! I always encourage people t…
If you are happy with your health and weight, skip past this post. The biggest predictor of self-esteem in women is weight. I was a BBW in my 20's and struggled between slender and just a little padded after that. Till I read The China Stu…
We play alone now. This is after 20 years together and a lot of talking. It's working out great. I would rather be the total focus for one person and give him all my attention. My husband feels the same way. I don't like when it's a group…
He's learning to drive and we already have a car for him (I got a new car in AUG so we kept my old one). I think after he can drive he'll go out more.
We are playing sort of loud music or leave the TV on in the LR. He's upstairs on computer. We moved his BR to the other side of the house. We are kind of like, "If he hears, he hears." We just don't use paddle (loud!) or do the spanking fo…
Well, I know who you won't be seeing again! Good riddance. I would have said, "Talking about Donald Trump makes me the opposite of horny." It doesn't matter if someone is pro/con D. T., just the mention of his name makes me dry up. Anyone…
I can sometimes orgasm just from being spanked with a hand, belt, paddle or flogger.
SoGood, I'm a little fuzzy about what happened and what your question is, but it doesn't sound like anyone had fun!
I (wife) didn't like the cock ring. It's a soft plastic. I hate the way it grabs the outside of my pussy near the top or rubs me on the outside,on the way in. He's 7 inches, but I'm long, too, so it actually goes part way into my vaginal o…
Both of us are probably truly switch, but I (Jen) am sub with all men and switch with females, and he is Dom with all women (he's straight). He's willing to try some sub activities, but right now I don't want to seriously do that with him,…
I recently started liking to be spanked, and tied up in beautiful rope work and flogged or spanked, and photographed tied up. I also started to love 20's and 30's males and females. I was sticking closer to 40's, but had enough offers from…
FYI, most people are sick from consuming way too much protein. It results in heart attacks, diabetes, clogged arteries, you name it. If you do an online search, you will see that there are plenty of spectacular vegan athletes and/or Plant…
At the BDSM forum here at SLS, Jason is a member who wrote most of the posts there and gives great advice. It's nice to get into kinky stuff slowly, at your own pace, to it's just fun and comfortable. We still have mostly vanilla sex day t…
Please don't risk your health doing keto.
I like BDSM stuff like being spanked. We actually now spend a lot more time at Fetlife than SLS because the kinky stuff like Dom/sub is more fun than vanilla swinging. But there are some kinky people here, too. ~j.
I had to get a compression bra for running; it's interesting to be out and about looking flat chested! I wear a D cup normally. My husband said I look thinner in the compression bra.
I started running this summer, and I can't believe I actually enjoy it now! I like getting around my neighborhood and checking things out, seeing the plants, hearing the birds, maybe listening to a podcast. I have a lot of roads with trees…
The way I eat, I don't count calories or points and I eat until I'm totally satisfied as often as I want. Lots of starchy foods...potatoes, rice, corn, beans, etc. Delish.
Why not make a long-term, HEALTHY plan? Believe it or not, potatoes are really healthy. You could live on just potatoes for quite a while and get protein, vitamin, fiber, lots of good things. Best to eat sweet potatoes and yams PLUS other…
I used to hate thongs, but now I am used to them. It's important that they fit right...not too loose or tight. I only wear them for pants that will look better if you can see my buns, to be flirty under a dress, or before sex. I wear those…
What's a Gumby couple?
We are seasoned swingers, but really new to BDSM. Most things are easy to keep discreet, but not spanking. That smack on the ass is loud! Plus, we have a vaulted BR ceiling, so it echoes. Luckily we are on the first floor and our adult son…
It's harder for guys. They don't have the wardrobe choices that the ladies have. Just wearing NEW or NEWER clothes, make sure they fit to show off your body. Straight guys are typically not great at figuring out wardrobe. I have to dress m…
PS: My ex was a chronic masturbator who preferred that to sex with me. He would lie next to me in bed while I was trying to sleep and jack off once or twice many nights. I really resented it. I told him he should have married his hand inst…
I only enjoy seeing it if the guy just got done pleasuring me totally, and then he is jerking off and coming on my ass crack, on my slit, or kneeling next to me and jacking off into my open mouth while I play with myself. Just seeing someo…
Wife here. I say DO IT, as long as your wife also likes the idea. My husband used to be jealous seeing me with another guy, but he got over it. You have to decide ahead of time that even if you do feel some jealousy you will not be a douch…
I predict one for me in the not so distant future. My husband will not be the one arranging it. He doesn't even like MMf. We play with couples or in groups, or one on one. The one guy from a couple we know plays with me one-on-one. I think…
Go visit Sunny Rest in Palmerton, PA. It's so gorgeous. It's not for swingers, but a lot of swingers go and hook up. We just went for the first time a couple weeks ago and reeeeeally loved it. So clean and upscale.
I moved to eating whole food plant-based. I eat zero meat, eggs or milk and no processed okls or foods that contain it. No olive oil, either. Read The China Study, go to the Forks Over Knives website, and watch documentaries on the topic.…
I come hardest when I masturbate. Sometimes my guy will finger me while I masterbate so I come even harder. My vibrator does a good job; I like it inside me, and I take care of the outside. Sex...if I am worked up, pretty much just stickin…
Just in terms of allocation of time resources, religion is not very efficient. There's a lot more I could be doing on a Sunday morning. --Bill Gates, Time Magazine, January 13, 1996. The conventional view serves to protect us from the pain…
My husband loves thongs so much, it's ridiculous. He goes to web sites just to see women wearing thongs. He is an "ass" man all the way, and he loves that look. I HATE wearing thongs...but I'm wearing one right now. Bedtime is in an hour,…
When in college, age 21, my parents used to boat a lot. They had a 34ft. cabin cruiser. I had sex with my b/f at the time, while my parents were literally 3 ft. away snoring. We were discreet (spoon position and no moaning), but it was sti…
Everyone summed it up. I have a pet peeve about house parties. The guys seem to think that wearing a clean ball cap and a clean NASCAR t-shirt is going to garner them female attention. Not from me! The women will be in sexy outfits, and th…
