Any real guys in here?
Im still a virgin,so no offense intended. but if i wasnt,i wouldnt kiss and tell,I wouldnt notch my bedpost(or theirs)and i surely wouldnt put a cert on the internet.
Topsdusty
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3some with a female couple
we can blame and shame,but we both know your fishing in the wrong pond,with too many fishing poles,complaining about not landing any catfish. Kinda a dick move to catch a tude about it imo,it makes it seem like your seeking attention,far m…
Any real guys in here?
ok,ummmm no doubt, kinda corny. I have my own way, foreign to one liners,usually long,and full of inproper spelling and terrible pronunciations. It seems to be working for me. I guess each couple and single has their own individual likes a…
Any real guys in here?
@ Lisaa not ment to offend,just for the sake of conversation.... imo,the single male lifestyle guys make the date when they are horny. The unicorn and the couples led by the female,like to plan ahead. If the date is made by the M half of c…
Any real guys in here?
Just a heads up,Virginia has more then its share of lifestyle clubs,house parties,and kink community,we even have 2 nude resorts. Richmond alone has a kink club downtown and 4 awsome lifestyle groups with hundreds of members each,20+ years…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
egads,another post from 5 years ago???
Caged in Public
I would be interested in your results. Maybe my opinions are 5 years old and should be updated accordingly?? Is this a nudist resort with kids,or is this a swinger resort all big kids?
Any real guys in here?
'In the club" or at a party,would be the reality check for all to see?? when the keys are all passed out,couples and singles have paired up... thats often where truths are told???? I cant help being the old guy in the room,or the most endo…
Any real guys in here?
ok,it just got real pucker factor 2? many lifestyles,its all about comfort levels and realities. real talk we may all need to upgrade??? popcorn may not cut it this time?? he aint all wrong?? he may not be all right?? but how wrong is he??…
Equipment
its been rumored,that i have an unusually large rope collection,that if tied together,it would rival the worlds largest ball of string. thats just silly says I,half that if anything!lolol anyways.... heres what i know,you can decide. 99% o…
Any real guys in here?
hey woa woa woa!!!! 1.pass the popcorn. 2.some us cant help it about the profile thing!! move over,this might get good!
Only one toy you could keep what would it be
I agree with OBX if the boats going down in the open ocean.... A Sybian doesnt float. dont ask me how i know,its a long sad story,just trust me,they sink like a rock,even with a life vest on. i would grab my second choice,the two speed Hit…
Prostitution
While i agree with your sentiment,i actually DO want some kind of goverment regulation,as its done here in the US where prositution is legal. its safer for all involved,and they keep the kids and household pets out. the adult industry is a…
Hot wife experience w/ hub blindfolded only to listen
ohhh the corset picture?? not paint, thats hot wax dripped on a friend at a local event demonstration. It took me and a trusted sidekick about an hour to finally get it done because the canvas kept getting turned on and her nipples kept ge…
Prostitution
imo its a tough question,lots of viewpoints,all of them ok. im biased. Some of my closest friends were/are sex workers,or worked in the adult industry in some form or fashion. (notice i didnt say in "in one position or more',heheheh indust…
wife want's to spend night alone with lover
IMO Im not going to YAK on anyones YUM. you do you,we all have our own rules and levels ,i can help till i reach mine. More power to us all. that being said If joining a couple,regardless of their dynamic, Im an enhancement , not a replace…
Hot wife experience w/ hub blindfolded only to listen
Hello Lisa and Tim,im not sure i understand?? a picture i painted?
Hot wife experience w/ hub blindfolded only to listen
as a suggestion.... with sensory deprivation,such as blindfolds and vision impairment,your other senses are heightened,not just your hearing. you can tie the cuck to the bed,so he can feel the vibration of the bed with every thrust or chan…
Exhibitionism fantasy
imo while i enjoy an audience on occasion,for all my dasterdly deeds,"IN PUBLIC"usually happens within the lifestyle,surrounded by CONSENTING adults. If im at a gas station,the mall,or walmart,im NOT surrounded by consenting adults,and the…
Any tip for a submissive male to find a BDSM master/mistress?
The division between kink community and the "swinger"lifestyle community,are pretty thin now,50 shades of transparent. both essentially call the same things,just different names,with the same processes and results. admitting is the first s…
Collared wifes who has one
For many traditionalist in the kink community,a collar is the equivalent of a wedding ring
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
When it comes to capacity issues.... During peak hours,can paid memberships get priority??
I see no one really is looking for single males
@Trainer Well said,I completely agree. I do believe I could share a drink and a great conversation should our paths cross. You look young,but it’s only been approx 40 years since men of color were allowed in the building. I could bring a f…
Keywords in profiles that make an instant yes or no decision?
@formybubu.. Got it,1 hole,no turtlenecks. I’m good n good but alas!!! The distance my friend,the distance!! I’m afraid our chances are doomed,so I shall wish you both well in your journey!! My word Is Canada(yak) or (bwack)Canadian(blurp)…
I see no one really is looking for single males
@hungblack.... Here,let me help...... Topsdusty said(that’s me) I assure you,I’m in the trenches chasin wenches,I sit no higher in the food chain then anyone else,I just talk a lot of smack. Sometimes I gotta stand on a telephone book just…
I see no one really is looking for single males
Huh wha?? You mean.... That parts not true?? But But.... Wait a second!!! That’s not what it said on the brochures!!! We were promised all the females were rich desperate housewives with generous cuckold husbands and a nympho streak 10 mil…
I see no one really is looking for single males
Imo I know a lot of couples that play solo,apart,not together. Often times,not most,just many times,it’s not the wife playing hotwife,it’s the husband playing single male. @rustic I have seen attachment issues from single males and single…
I see no one really is looking for single males
I’m sorry your seeing my words as negative,I’m just telling the story without sugar coatings. I’m over the top pro America,but if I told someone the history,the good and bad parts should be added to the conversation??? This lifestyle,just…
Submissive or Dominate
Humiliation is just a tool in the kinky toy box,some over use it,some use it sparingly,and some have it behind “break for emergency”glass,requiring 2 keys and a launch code before use. Then again,in the vanilla world when couples argue and…
I see no one really is looking for single males
@ yougottawork It looks to me like you have solved much of this problem in your profile,even if in a cute bratty kinda way. I’m sure it’s an effective strategy because I employ this tactic in my own,only not so aggressively. Imo it would b…
I see no one really is looking for single males
@Hotlvrs.... @ Tops, You wrote: "written and directed primarily by the husbands seeking unicorns,and the wife is just along for the ride. " I disagree that most husbands in the lifestyle are looking for unicorns. I'm sure that there are a…
I see no one really is looking for single males
Ehhhhh,we all got opinions like we all got assholes,and most stink. Kinda like my opinions of males that lead with their dick,it’s bad form @hungblack. It leads one to believe that’s all their is,just a hung black guy,or a hung white guy,o…
I see no one really is looking for single males
Lol it did drag on a tad,my apologies. In simples terms,the females in the lifestyles can decide the rules,but they really don’t. It’s still written and directed primarily by the husbands seeking unicorns,and the wife is just along for the…
I see no one really is looking for single males
Lol I have absolutely no issues as a single male in the lifestyle,except time. Lots of ways to look at it,none to far off base imo,so here’s another viewpoint that may,or may not,be relevant. All of this is the couples fault in the lifesty…
The courtesy of a reply
@bucketlist.... While I absolutely agree with your opinion,it may not mirror the opinions of others in this mixing bowl. Again,I don’t have a peckerpic,but some are of the opinion it’s ok to send out one if they do.
The courtesy of a reply
@yeaok... Please don’t take this wrong,I’m a fan of boobies. And please don’t think I’m picking on you,just using as an example. You say you get a lot of inappropriate emails,specially the dick pics,but you led with your tits out,why would…
Accidental Cream Pie
@Scot4.... It just sounds like lines were crossed had this not been discussed beforehand. Did she mention that she no longer was using birth control?? Surprise!!!! Did you go into it with clear cut lines of bi play?? Were you surprised he…
Why is it only the members who go to SLS events are allowed to show cock and pussy in their public galleries?
Is this just another example of the “deep state”here on SLS,meant to exclude the great American single males from viewing naked couples?? (Asking for a friend)
Did you know blocks are no longer reciprocal?
@Rustic... Soooo understandably! So much so,it wouldn’t offend this single guy,if when a new couple signs up on SLS,single males should initially be blocked. It’s just like at a party,we don’t want them feeling like walking through a corn…
Did you know blocks are no longer reciprocal?
I’m not sure I understand?? A blocks B. B cannot view or contact A in any way. Your issue is that A isn’t added to B block list?? B is still blocked from contact with A yes?? I’m trying to see the value for B being told he has been blocked…
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
Pardon the interruption,I don’t mean to distract from the beatings of this dead horse,just wanna slip this in real fast while they are considering changes..... If was a knight that sat on the SLS round table,and the question raised.... Wha…
The courtesy of a reply
Please don’t misunderstand,I enjoy SLS for what it is,but fully expect to be “lumped with the leper’s”when I’m here from people I have not already met in person at a lifestyle event. This is “gen pop”,this is the “school yard”,this is the…
Does anyone use the video chat function?
@Allen.. Sorry I was not clear,my response was geared more as a response to the videophobic vibe. I have not used the video chat past my initial accidental. A window opened when I hit it,and I exited out immediately,so I don’t know if it w…
Does anyone use the video chat function?
Same same,I’m usually on tablet. I tripped it the other day on IPhone just to see what it was,I didn’t get the memo with new all the changes. I don’t even know who it really was,I was sending a message to say hello and introduce myself and…
The courtesy of a reply
@catchy... Lol great example!!! But I didn’t block him,even if we agree he can be difficult. He is from a different time in the lifestyle and woke up one day and it had changed. Even if I meet someone like that at a party,I can stand and d…
The courtesy of a reply
Yes profiles have a block button,but it’s the added step,effort,or redirection that a member has to go to just for every random penipic they get. It’s easier to just click it gone and move on,let the next person deal with it.
The courtesy of a reply
@RnK... I absolutely understand and agree,from the perspective of both sides,cpl/now single,across several lifestyles and assorted(some more sorted then others)community internet sites. They all share one common thread,the dreaded single g…
Keywords in profiles that make an instant yes or no decision?
I think most agree,when a single guy leads with his dick,not good. I tend to think the same way when a couple does it in a profile that’s basically an ad of them leading with their dick. I’m not impressed. And how easy is it to spot a prof…
Keywords in profiles that make an instant yes or no decision?
@erotic...we are a simple beast,our egos are rooted deeply in our DNA,we are powerless. No male of the species wants a woman to add points just for a passing grade at performance. We want to Ace it,and earn the kinky bonus points. The hila…
Keywords in profiles that make an instant yes or no decision?
Twatwaffle. When I see that,I'm out. When I see Grammer police comments on spelling and punctuation, and how it's a deal breaker for them,chances are she is going to be prissy as hell in bed and grade on the curve,and he will curl up in th…
Forced bi
Your all over the map friend,and I'm trying to see what point your making?? Some people don't subscribe to labels,so you can be whatever you want to call yourself. Some people DO subscribe to labels,and 4 out of 5 dentist would agree,and l…
What qualities do you look for in a single male?
Lol we are the new unicorn! 20 years as a couple,about 10 as the dreaded single guy,involved in more then a few lifestyle communities,360 degree view,extensive reasearch into the topic. Here’s my free advice for single guys. Don’t be a dic…
Forced bi
I see some confusion,so here's my take on it,opinions may vary. The absolute foundation of BDSM is consent. So any "forced"is with consent. Individual limits/levels may vary. Anything "forced"without consent, is not BDSM ,it's Rape or sexu…
Where are the Married Submissive Women?
This is such a long long conversation,and anyone's correct answer is as individual as a fingerprint. You will find more opinions on the subject then you will find grains of sand on a beach. Personally,I like to use science,biology,nature,a…
LiberatorGuy polyamorous
I'm without adult supervision,so everything I say may or may not be complete and total BS,proceed with caution. Yes you can find poly in the swinger community still,but imo,it's been stolen by the kink community,slowly but surely,bit by bi…
Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex
In the truck,on the truck,or under the truck?? What makes it strange or most unusual??
Couples
Lol and don’t fall for that line”play with the husband first,then if it’s good,the wife will join us”. Here is some free advice.... Online,as a single guy,I have six pack abs,a 10 inch cock that never points south,and when I fart,it smells…
Thinking about our first threeway. Just need some feedback
@Fokkers....... Lol yes,I responded to him. Bwahahahahahaa My post must look so RANDOM to those that have him blocked!! Cmon now folks,we gotta rope together,and make him see the ERRRRRRRRR (redneck drawl)in his ways. We can save him.
Thinking about our first threeway. Just need some feedback
Again with the swipe at singles. I'm beginning to think one of us broke yer heart,or showed you up one night and achieved things you couldnt,or wouldnt. Again with the "one true way to swing 101" Tsk tsk,expand your horizons. Many of the c…
Thinking about our first threeway. Just need some feedback
@MFM 4US...... I like the way you phrased that,I can't think of anyone I know who would not agree with you completely. I also see the MASSIVE red flags others see. I have seen the lifestyle be used as an excuse to cheat,have a fling,or end…
Fun with single guys
Although asked terribly,it's actually a valid question,and the perception/expectations have changed over the last couple decades within the lifestyle. The answer has never changed,its yes,many are strictly dickly,duh. In the old days,it wa…
Panties,thong or nothing at all
I like my gifts wrapped. I do admit,it gets pretty pricey when I tear open my presents,and ya gotta really bring your A-game if you rip one of her favorite pair..... Im a huge fan of going commando to bed,because I think it's the unwritten…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
Yes,both lifestyles are run by females now,from a female perspective,with their rules and guidlines. It's far more evident in the bdsm community,specially on the fetlife side of things,just check out who the mods of most forum groups,they…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
Lol not what I have seen,or what I will see this weekend. I play at lifestyle events across the country,with many different groups,and I always show up with my little dastardly bag of tricks. Have kink,will travel. I often do demonstration…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
Of course,that is your opinion,guided by your incorrect definition of what a "swinger"is,or isnt. I assure you,I enjoy sex with others. I just like to tie them up first,then fuck them hard. I'm not extreme,or perverted. I'm just really,rea…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
I'm not attempting to sway your opinion,I just disagree with it,and have met many wonderful people in the lifestyle who would agree with me,and not your definition of what the "swinger"community is. Of course we all respect your version fo…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
The lines between the kink community have grayed and faded over the last few decades,xxxcellerated lately by 50 shaders from the swinger community. Since I like to travel in both worlds,and consider myself an accomplished observational nin…
Caged in Public
I can guarantee it’s ok at hedo,because it’s a sex positive situation,and not open to the public or minors. You pay to be there,your expecting to see things you would not see at the mall,the local nightclub,or at a backyard PTA picnic. Com…
Caged in Public
Ehhhhh to each their own of course,but I’m not sure how appropriate this would be on a nude beach. It’s hard enough for nudist as it is,trying to separate nudity and sexual behavior in the same place. Do what you like,I’m not judging eithe…
Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex
Ok but With a horse doesn’t count
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
Wow,this conversation went south fast!! Here's my opinion on it,with no intention of offense to any...... Pleasing my partner is the only thing I care about,period,end of story. I consider myself at an accomplished level in many kinky beha…
Submissive or Dominate
@goodgolly...... It's an opinion based in science,history,and biological facts. Again,I didn't write the book. But since books have been written on stone tablets,when it comes to the human animal,the FEMALES of the species are submissive t…
Submissive or Dominate
@goodgolly..... Sorry if the Clift note version of my response offended you,what this poster needs is many many long conversations about it,I gave the short answer when a long response was needed.(if inclined,he can always do the research…
Bondage equipment-furniture
Fet has a forum for diy kinky furniture. Great pictures,ideas,and even shared plans.
Submissive or Dominate
@andrew... I'm sorry you think bdsm and D/S is all beatings and bruises,I'm afraid either your misinformed,or you took 50 shades way to serious. What's your sleep number,do you know?? What's YOUR pain/pleasure level,do you know?? Bdsm-D/S…
Submissive or Dominate
Sogood.... It sounds like a common ploy in order to get to the door. Men pretending to be submissive. It’s as bad as men pretending to be dominant. Or submissive topping from the bottom. It’s a big shit Sammie,and the only way to get to th…
Fucking Friday
Fuck this fucking FUCKING FRIDAY fucking post
? For the SM's please
As stated,it's a minefield out there for the SMS also. (let's take a moment of pity pause for the SMs lol) Personally,I find it best to speak with all involved,to make sure it's not jut a "him"fantasy,and she is not only aware,but a willin…
One word that describes you
SHABARI!!!! (Looking forward to the "friends of Bridget"party this weekend!!)
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Home. Only 700 more miles and 1 left turn.
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TURTLENECKS!! FIRST ONE OF THE SEASON!!! Brrrrrrrr outside! (Not an uncircumcised joke,the shirts people,the SHIRTS!)
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:::yoda::::: Because when your taken,it sends out a signal to all the female of the species,across the entire planet,that at least one woman doesn't think your a phuckin psycho.
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FEMA!!! Crap! I might hafta head into the eye of the storm and play rescue ranger!! Please folks,if your in the path of this storm,get out NOW,I got a really good party to go to this weekend that I don't want to miss!!
One word that describes you
Ok ok,me to
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Shameless!! (Not me,the series season premier)
Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex
In a bed,missionary position,lights off,candles burning!! I know,I know!! I'm a phuckin wild man!!!
One word that describes you
Bushed!! (And not in a good way) On a side note..... @kellyjean...... Has anyone told you they wanted to seduce you solely on your name?? #petticoatjunctionfan.
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Confidently
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Debate!!!
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Dayoffmuthaphuckersbetterhideyourdaughters!!!! 1 word.
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Ok takeapeek,that's just bragging
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We will need photographic evidence
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@kellyjean.... I hope you didn't stray across my nudes on the internet,and that's what caused your amusement. A man's ego is a fragile thing. I hate it when they point and laugh at the CFNM parties!!
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But I'm getting paid heavily to sit in it... So it's not "TRAFFIC" It's "terrific"!! (Thank you DC)
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TRAFFIC!!! (Screw you DC)
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HUUUUUUUUUUUUMPDDAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!
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Sushi!!
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Popcorn!!
One word that describes you
When you arrive at the pool,please have someone spank you for using two words.
One word that describes you
@njny.... Run like im chasing you with a handful of rope in one hand,a violet wand in the other,and a crop clenched tightly in my teeth.