@Maturemale1954 My first time I was "forced" kinda...I secretly wanted to suck my wife's bull cock...I think she saw it in my eyes...she coerced me into cleaning her juices off his cock..So in a subtle way, I was forced.
Would love to play with another Femdom led couple. The options are endless and definitely include forced/coerced BI. Always looking!
[quote=Dear_diary]I love, forcing a guy tied up to suck a cock. I have a boyfriend that I’ve been begging for years and finally talked him into taking a real cock. He went crazy with a real cock. He said it was so much better warm and felt so good.[/quote]Glad he was able to experience the real thing. It is so much better.
I REALLY want my wife to hand me over naked to 2 or 3 guys and do everything kinky thing she tells me too. From rimming their asses to swallowing loads and getting my ass pounded until I'm dripping with cum.
I agree forced is just a word! Some do it for their own enjoyment while others do it for the pleasure of their spouse. Coerced is a better choice.
More like coerced here hehe
This is a sticky topic for me. I love bi guy play. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men giving or receiving pleasure from anyone else.
If it is forced I feel like we are pushing boundaries on acceptable. Bi is more than acceptable; bi is beautiful.
Some guys have been damaged to believe there is something inherently wrong with being with another man. For them, I can be a liking to Domme a “forced” bi scene so they can get past the hurdle and enjoy some magical experiences.
With us it’s more like “coerced!” We have fun with it.
My first time was definitely FORCED and surprise.
I love, forcing a guy tied up to suck a cock. I have a boyfriend that I’ve been begging for years and finally talked him into taking a real cock. He went crazy with a real cock. He said it was so much better warm and felt so good.
Forced bi? I didn't think people could be forced to do anything unless they want it. You were already curious and you allowed your wife to introduce it to you. Makes coming out a little easier when she's into it.
I am not actually into the full BDSM thing but I do have handcuffs. I like being cuffed and helpless as a guy (or guys) feed my mouth and ass their cock. My female friend also likes to cuff me and tease/please me for a while before the cuffs are removed. Kind of exciting being at someones mercy while naked and eating cock.
I think its interesting.
I got most of my first bi experience being the person people forced their boys down on.
Its fun listening to them gasp a bit.
Find it very erotic when a wife will take charge and push the boundaries like that with her man.
I like to say I was 'forced bi' by my wife but the truth is, if I hadn't been open to it on some level it never would have happened!
My wife has always been very bi and when we first started swinging shortly after we got married she told me that one of her hottest fantasies was to see me suck another man's cock. I was borderline homophobic and told her that would never happen, I wanted nothing to do sexually with another guy. Soon after we got married we transitioned to a wife led marriage and I've been submissive to my wife our entire time together. When she started cuckolding me I had no problem cleaning her after another guy had fucked her but I still wanted no physical contact with another guy.
She stopped cuckolding me when our kids got older but she continued to talk about how hot it would be to see me do oral on another guy. When we became empty nesters she locked me in strict chastity and started cukolding me again. I had been locked for almost two months straight when we met with the second guy she cucked me with. She had me kneeling naked in the hotel room with my chastity cage securely locked and she and the other guy were naked and making out in front of me. She had spent some time with him in the hotel bar while I waited in the room and she had probably already cleared what happened next with him. She looked down at me and said "If you want out of that chastity cage any time soon you need to suck his cock and get it hard for me!" I was already kind of into my 'sub space' and I wanted to please her so I did as she suggested and got him hard for her! I found that doing it in the context of obeying my wife and prepping him to fuck her actually turned me on! Since then, I have fluffed every guy she has been with that was okay with it. She also has a long term lover that has fucked me twice and both times she masturbated and came hard as she watched. I love that she gets so much enjoyment out of me performing bi acts! I have no urge to kiss or cuddle with a guy at all but giving myself to one of her lovers for her benefit turns me on.
Like I said, I was kind of 'forced' but if I had refused she would not have pushed it any further. I have to say, it seems that my wife knows me better than I know myself sometimes. She definitely knows how to work around my resolve and get me to do things I've not been willing to do before! BTW, I now wish she had pushed me into becoming bi a lot earlier!
don't ever let some force you to do anything. as a sub and depending on you dynamic you would have a safe word... and can stop at any time? I'm not even going to talk power dynamics.... we need to always consent. you can do consent non consent play? no one can force you BI. bi means you like the same sex.... you are being told to perform a task.... on you knees and eat my pussy tell I say stop. well you know what I mean? lol we subs have rights and power.... the right are only equal to what we ask for, need, want and agreed-upon by us and our loving Dom.
I love you Emil more then you will ever know
I can only speak for myself but my first wife cucked me in my early twenties and started when dating. I had had several intimate girlfriends but when she came on the scene, I fell for her all the way. Speed forward to the first time that I was forced (mentally forced due to an attitude of deep love of pleasing her) to going down on one. It was a mental hurdle but I made it over, and it pleased her so much that it became a regular thing for me to fluff her lovers before they had sex. It was much easier to get over than the jealousy part of cuckolding. I love to lick and orally make love to a woman’s vagina and clitoris but I’m ok bringing pleasure to a cock as well, and for that , I thank her as she basically taught me about how to be tender when licking and build a woman to a plateau of ecstasy and hold her there. About the same with a cock, keep em both really wet and teased for as long as they can stand it and then shower them with soft kisses afterwards as they are very tender. Getting carried away and off the subject line-
IDK, and I really don't know after reading all these comments. I guess you would have to define everything first, for I thought I understood what you meant by forced bi as being like in the stories section. Obviously not according to a lot of people. What I really disliked was when you were labeled BI by people. How did they know different from what you have said? Your first sentience spoke volumes about NOT being BI... for it seems you have no use for a guy other than serving your wife through you. Just because you do something doesn't make you something. I think what I am driving at is, you simply don't have that hang up like others seem too.
Now, I suppose all this could change if you were forced to learn to love it. Maybe through positive reinforcement techniques you wife could force you become that. All in all my best advice about the device you want it to happen with... do it if helps you sleep at night. Now you must have known that this post you put up would attract all kinds of fish to your line... as being actual queer bate for fishing?
There's not really a forced bi, its actually a power exchange where one willing does what he may not normally do, or does what he's really been wanting to do but hasn't, or some various there of. Either way its the dynamic of the power exchange that derives the sense of forced. BDSM is so cool in how its really about the psyche, sensations, and the connection between people.
Your all over the map friend,and I'm trying to see what point your making??
Some people don't subscribe to labels,so you can be whatever you want to call yourself.
Some people DO subscribe to labels,and 4 out of 5 dentist would agree,and label you as bisexual.
That's not a bad thing,that's a you thing.
And if your happiness doesn't come at the expense of others,I say more power to ya.
It's all a personal journey of discovery,I wish you clarity.
Find out what revs your moter,then drive it till the wheels fall off!!
Best of luck
I am not bi or straight or whatever but I love sex and trying new things. The idea of me fucking a man while his wife plays with my balls and ass gets me hard. Of cleaning my cock after I have fucked his wife for sometime. Cuckold bi sub husband will be a fantasy come true.
I see some confusion,so here's my take on it,opinions may vary.
The absolute foundation of BDSM is consent.
So any "forced"is with consent.
Individual limits/levels may vary.
Anything "forced"without consent, is not BDSM ,it's Rape or sexual abuse and should be addressed accordingly.
The OP has given consent,his journey,he can call it forced if he wants.
He can also choose whatever label he wants,or doesn't want, in his world.
Many things are associated with the bdsm community,just like with the swinger community,that just are not true.
One shared truth,the view of both concerning forced anything without consent.
I'm a switch , so I love this idea from the aspect of both giving and receiving. Tie me up and make me suck your man, or tie your man up and make him suck me. As long as we're all on the same page and no one is really "forced" I think this is an amazing fantasy.
hot wife , yes we want the ladies to force us even though we are very willing ! i think it's part of the bi male submissive fantasy to think that the wife is making me do it because thats what she wants and that she gets turned on taking control . at least for me it's a very erotic taboo for her to watch me service a nice cock !
I sure do wish some couple would force me !
Is it really "forced" bi if you want your wife to make you do it?
