SXS Group
in Bi Couples ·
[quote=FunfuckingfriendCouple373]Just started a SXS group. For groups couples and singles[/quote]What's SXS?
Single_again1960
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Bi-Male a plus or harder sell?
in Bi Couples ·
[quote=Fresno_Power_Couple]It’s definitely more difficult but with good reason. It’s a simple cost-benefit question: is playing with this couple worth the possible risk exposure? For a straight couple, or one without a bi male, absolutely…
Bi-Male a plus or harder sell?
in Bi Couples ·
[quote=funtimes2by2]When I first came out as bi, we created a second profile to post it. That was 14 years ago and we've certainly seen the times change a lot since then. The main reason I decided to keep it off our "regular" profile was t…
Texting versus Email
in 3-Some ·
[quote=Ymichael14]My point is, with all of the very easy ways to use a throw away cell number or a texting app that is not your real number, I would not trust anyone who avoided my request to text.[/quote]I know that and you know that, but…
Bi play required (WTF)
in Straight Couples ·
[quote=mayhem8]Part of the problem with meeting people from online for Bi play is people don't read profiles. Some see something like "bi curious" and think that a woman is open to going down on another, which is a very bad assumption. Mos…
Texting versus Email
in 3-Some ·
[quote=RonKathy]Its all good.. its what I do for a living in and out of courts daily, and yes plenty ways to end all ! Like I said 25 plus years never an issue and not really worried ... but if that's what you do its all good your journey.…
Texting versus Email
in 3-Some ·
A couple problems with giving out a cell/land line number are: 1: spam & robo calls 2. smishing (not pfishing) & social engineering 3. SIM swap & account takeover 4. cell numbers can be used to connect pieces of your identity: your real na…
Texting versus Email
in 3-Some ·
I never give out my cell number. I use an IP based phone number for exactly this. It can be changed as often as necessary. I don't have to worry about my cell number being misused since it's never given out. Currently I have 10 different I…
Dates Profile Pics Posted
in Website ·
Maybe it's been there but I never noticed it before. I see that there is a date below each profile pics with the date the pic was posted. Great idea, doesn't mean that the pic is recent but it's better than nothing
Ball squeezing
in BDSM ·
Not into it personally, but I have a lot of guys that love it when they visit my playroom. Ball crushing is 2nd only to large insertions. There's several ball crushers in the room, each one has it's own level of pain & discomfort. I have o…
Pegging lovers come here
in BDSM ·
I'm an alpha male Dom Top but enjoy being pegged by a female. I let her choose which toy she wants to use, my selection ranges from tiny to monsterously huge. 9x out of 10 she'll choose the smaller one
How bi are you?
in Bi Males ·
[quote=funlyfriend][quote=BiBriBlueEyes][quote=funlyfriend][quote=BiBriBlueEyes][quote=2Bi3or4some]I am Bi or maybe Pansexual but hetero-romantic. I will kiss if it adds to the pleasure but do it for my partner. Soft touches are nice and I…
Blocking Filters
in Swing.com ·
[quote=PeachesAndCreamAZ][quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960][quote=PeachesAndCreamAZ]Today in the profile settings, you can set it to be viewable based on relationship/gender. For instance, we have our profile set to be viewable onl…
Blocking Filters
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960][quote=PeachesAndCreamAZ]Today in the profile settings, you can set it to be viewable based on relationship/gender. For instance, we have our profile set to be viewable only to other couples and si…
Blocking Filters
in Swing.com ·
[quote=PeachesAndCreamAZ]Today in the profile settings, you can set it to be viewable based on relationship/gender. For instance, we have our profile set to be viewable only to other couples and single women. It would be great if this coul…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960][quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960][quote=Goodenuff][quote=Single_again1960]Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Anta…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960][quote=Goodenuff][quote=Single_again1960]Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica[/quote]One option might be to change…
Creating Individual Private and Personal Galleries
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960]I searched but couldn't find this topic Will it be possible to create individual Private Galleries? Right now all I see is Public, Private & Personal with no option of creating sub galleries within…
2FA or Time Based Security Code
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Single_again1960]I'm seeing lots of improvements with the new site....are you aware that using the common form of swing dot com is a prohibited word and not allowed? Any idea when, or if, Multi Factor Authenticatio…
Creating Individual Private and Personal Galleries
in Swing.com ·
I searched but couldn't find this topic Will it be possible to create individual Private Galleries? Right now all I see is Public, Private & Personal with no option of creating sub galleries within the Private and Personal galleries. Am I…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=Goodenuff][quote=Single_again1960]Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica[/quote]One option might be to change your preference levels for all profile ty…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Goodenuff]Do you get messages from penguins or seals when you change your location to Antarctica?[/quote] I ve told some members they could use McMurdo Station, AQ . A remote research station in Antarctica. Eventua…
2FA or Time Based Security Code
in Swing.com ·
I'm seeing lots of improvements with the new site....are you aware that using the common form of swing dot com is a prohibited word and not allowed? Any idea when, or if, Multi Factor Authentication (2FA) will be implemented?
Indicate whether a message is read by receiver
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC] Sometimes when I hit send nothing happens and the message disappears. In that case, the message was not sent. I specifically mentioned that you need to see the message appear in the history box to know that it was sent.…
Indicate whether a message is read by receiver
in Swing.com ·
[quote=sls_WayneC] I wonder if the initial message was ever received Can you explain what you mean by that statement? If you send a message by typing it out and selecting the Send button and then you see that message appear in the message…
Indicate whether a message is read by receiver
in Swing.com ·
I agree, some sort of message read/opened/received indicator would be nice. When I send someone an intro I find it hard to figure out what to say. I try to, at a minimum, let them know that I did read their entire profile and why I think w…
Messages Down
in Website ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=TNAandL]If I jump from old site to new site everything is opposite. Who viewed us is completely different from site to site and we always view them by date. Might have messages on old site but do not show in the me…
were to sun bath nude
in 3-Some ·
I sun bathe nude next to the pool at Sunny Rest Resort, Hillside Campgrounds & several friends houses. Used to also be a regular tanning bed user until I recently had to get several melanoma removed, now I'll stick to sun only. Maybe I won…
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
[quote=Webmaster][quote=Single_again1960]I really don't understand the rational of creating a new site when the old site still doen't work like it should. Maybe they figure a complete rewrite would be easier than correcting existing issues…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
[quote=workhardplayhard8123][quote=Webmaster][quote=HOPnrBED]Could this new platform have filters for weights of individuals similar to ages when searching?[/quote] We actually tried this about 10 years ago using the BMI index. It is diffi…
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
I really don't understand the rational of creating a new site when the old site still doen't work like it should. Maybe they figure a complete rewrite would be easier than correcting existing issues? It seems instead they want to add more…
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
[quote=luckyme6770]What is the point of a free profile on here? Paid members should be able to contact free members and those free members should be able to respond. Otherwise eliminate the free profile option.[/quote]Free members aren't f…
Unsolicited photos
in Fantasies ·
[quote=MandC508]There are suggestions in the new swing dot com discussion about adding a "Like" or "interested" button which would accomplish the same thing. This would be better because if you just open pictures for a profile, they would…
Unsolicited photos
in Fantasies ·
[quote=Seeking_New_Fun][quote=BobnCat72]Every so often, I’ll check the Profile of someone who has viewed us and find that they have opened some personal, or private pics, or both, but have not sent a message; just opened pics. I think it’s…
The amount of fake Str8 men and couples on here is hilarious
in Bi Couples ·
When I was part of a couple we listed ourselves as st/bi, we used to get lots of contacts and played a lot At some point we changed our couple profile to bi/bi, our contacts dropped off dramatically. Mainly the only contact we would get wa…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=irishrose22]" Do nothing. Just stop logging into the site while you are away. Your profile stops being shown in searches after 30 days of no logins." That seems like the most logical suggestion to me.[/quote]I wasn't aware of that.…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=Goodenuff]Do you get messages from penguins or seals when you change your location to Antarctica?[/quote].....mainly polar bears, problem is they leave nasty claw marks on your back if they don't trim their nails
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
[quote=Goodenuff][quote=Single_again1960]Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica[/quote]One option might be to change your preference levels for all profile ty…
Disabling account
in Swing.com ·
Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica
pa,md,wv areas
in Bi Couples ·
I'm a single bi male in Scranton, PA area
What is your type
in Bi Males ·
What I'm not into: Drags / Fems / Queens / Sissies / Obese / Twinks / Kids / Doms What I am into: Masculine / Mature / In shape / Intelligent Also depends on my mood at the moment and what we have in mind. If playing in the Dungeon the sta…
Where do you meet to play?
in Bi Males ·
1). Initial verification over the phone to verify if the person/couple is real....to many single guys pose as females or a couple 2). Next is a public meeting that is convenient for all....too many crazies to invite someone over that I don…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=Single_again1960][quote=CopNkitten][quote=windowShopping7][quote=CopNkitten][quote=windowShopping7][quote=CopNkitten]"This guy wears heels" he's only 5'6" according to his profile. another reason why i call BS…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
[quote=CopNkitten][quote=windowShopping7][quote=CopNkitten][quote=windowShopping7][quote=CopNkitten]"This guy wears heels" he's only 5'6" according to his profile. another reason why i call BS on his wegman adventures[/quote]Kitten that’s…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
[quote=mayhem8]While not a thing for guys, a number of women seem to have issues with guys that are shorter then them, so the "Can you reach that X on the top shelf for me?" my not work all that well in reality.[/quote]You are correct that…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
Those aren't "shoes" they're 14" steel toe Wesco Jobmaster leather boots, commonly worn by MEN that work hard for a living and ride Harleys, of which I do both. The bigotry among some of the posters here is amazing
Golden Showers
in Fantasies ·
WS is a big turn on for me, especially in the Dungeon, never do it on my bed, Dungeon or outdoors only. Personally I don't drink piss or enjoy being pissed on as I'm strictly a Dom top. I have all sorts of piss gags, funnels, hoods & piss…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=Single_again1960][quote=windowShopping7][quote=NuAdishun]I Live in Northern NJ and I place a pineapple upside down in my cart in plain view every time I go shopping. So far, I have not been approached. we will…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=NuAdishun]I Live in Northern NJ and I place a pineapple upside down in my cart in plain view every time I go shopping. So far, I have not been approached. we will see how it goes[/quote]There’s a clown in the…
Searching for bi married men in your area
in Bi Males ·
Here in the Scranton area there's a park called The Archbald Pothole State Park. It's a very well known cruising spot. Lots of bi married men go there looking for a discrete hook-up. There's even the occasional woman or couple that shows u…
What is your type
in Bi Males ·
Really don't have a specific type or thing I look for, it's all good. A lot depends on my mood and what I'm looking for at the moment
Sex Swing
in Sex Toys ·
I have a heavy duty leather sex sling permanently mounted in my Dungeon. Have it mounted for at least 20+ years. Used heavy chain and 2000lb (?) heavy duty trailer shackles to mount it to the ceiling rafters with large lag bolts. It will n…
Shaving cock and balls
in Bi Couples ·
I shave my cock & balls several times a week when showering. Use a Simpson Chubby 2 Manchurian Badger brush, Tabac shave soap and Blackbird DE razor w/Feather blades, use Witch Hazel after getting out of the shower. Never cut myself and ne…
Strap on, Do any of our bi couples use them
in Bi Couples ·
I have several strap-on harnesses and a good selection of different size & shape dildos, mainly Bad Dragon & Hankey's. None of the couples I've ever played with had any interest in using them. Single males and females enjoy them, but not c…
Strap-on
in Bi Males ·
Had a female FWB I met here several years ago. We would meet in public and she would be wearing a large strapon under her clothes and tease me with it until I couldn't take it any more. We would come back to my house and she would wear me…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
I tried asking people to video chat many times. Impossible, nobody I've ever asked agreed to it. People always have excuses why they cant do video, some get mad when I ask and block me....I think they think I want to do video sex although…
This site is full of fakes,flakes bullshitters and liars
in Finding Playmates ·
[quote=mayhem8]Single_again1960 - While there may be some exceptional SMs at the parties we attend, there are also a fair number of average SMs. It seems some areas are more prone to the couples/SFs only type of parties. Personally, we're…
This site is full of fakes,flakes bullshitters and liars
in Finding Playmates ·
Understand what you guys say about getting a rep and the parties will appear, wish it was that easy. When I was a couple we would attend lots of local house parties, only single guys I ever saw were the extraordinary BBC & BWC. The females…
This site is full of fakes,flakes bullshitters and liars
in Finding Playmates ·
[quote=mayhem8]The past couple of posts just validate for us why parties are so much more fruitful. We're also lucky that we can host in our home, but even if we couldn't. personally I'd never rent a hotel room to meet a new couple or sing…
This site is full of fakes,flakes bullshitters and liars
in Finding Playmates ·
People complain about single guys, and i can understand why, but couples are just as bad. I'm constantly being contacted by the male half of the couple that wants to meet without her knowing. I make a note of it on the profile and block it…
AI-Powered Writing Tools
in Swing.com ·
Why don't you eliminate AI altogether and concentrate on getting the new site working correctly? There's too much reliance on AI for everything anymore. It's easy to use a spell and grammar checker on a profile. Using AI to critique a prof…
Did the internet ruin things or help
in First Contact ·
Rant! Did the internet ruin things or help? I don't take any of these sex sites very seriously. I don't come to any of these sites (SLS, FL, Recon etc..) thinking I'm going to find someone to have sex with, start a relationship with, or fi…
Strap on for men.
in Sex Toys ·
Probably the best dildos are from Mr Hankey's or Square Peg, Bad Dragon makes awesome fantasy dildos. None of these are inexpensive but you get what you pay for. These companies will also make custom dildos if you want something special bu…
unique toys
in Sex Toys ·
[quote=mayhem8]Hmmm, we have an inexpensive tens machine. That may be interesting in certain places combined with some bondage. Never really thought of using it for that purpose.[/quote]I almost always use E-stim/electro in conjunction wit…
unique toys
in Sex Toys ·
[quote=justpookingaround]Scream Labs X1 Interrogator?? I've found only one pic and if correct, this isn't your simple e-stimulator. We may be building some furniture soon. I prefer foldable type that be hidden in the living room.[/quote]Ye…
unique toys
in Sex Toys ·
I have a personal Dungeon in my house. Converted the entire walk-up attic into a dedicated Dungeon. I don't mention it here on my profile because SLS people aren't really into heavy BDSM or Dungeons, I think it would turn off most people h…
Strap on for men.
in Sex Toys ·
I have a personal Dungeon with a lot of gear, all high end. Tried out numerous strap-ons over the years, they all suck for one reason or another. Finally found the best strap-on, a little expensive but you get what you pay for....check out…
Where do you meet to play?
in Bi Males ·
During the winter my favorite place is my home after we meet in a public place for the first time. During the warm months the Archbald Pothole State Park is my favorite spot to meet and play....I enjoy outdoor play. The Pothole is a well k…
Do you have a steady and discreet friend that you meet up with?
in Bi Males ·
Unfortunately no. I live in a small town outside of Scranton where everybody knows everybodys business, that's why I'm very discrete about what I post, and I never talk about who I do what with. The people that contact me are usually just…
New Views Feature
in Swing.com ·
[quote=Carpe_Vesperi]Pictures should have a “Like” button and counter. As you scroll through profile pictures you should be able to click the Like button, see how many likes that picture has gotten and the owner should be able to see who l…
Prevent / report single guys?
in Swing.com ·
Problem with some sort of "Fake" identifier is it can be misused. I'm a single guy and have seen my fair share of what I think are fake profiles, but what if I publically mark it as fake and I was wrong, or I meet a couple, we don't click…
Messages broken into segments
in Swing.com ·
Is there a reason messages are broken into multiple segments? It wasn't like that in the other version. It seems like a message is broken apart after so many characters. A message should be sent in it's entirety not broken into pieces
Profile Editor - AI Enhancer
in Swing.com ·
If AI rewrites my profile into how AI thinks it should read, it it still my profile?
Profile Editor - AI Enhancer
in Swing.com ·
I tried the AI profile writer, didn't like the results at all. Read like it was computer generated rather than a human being writing their profile. Not sure what the benefit is of having AI write a profile, is it to save time? Does anyone…
AI-Powered Writing Tools
in Swing.com ·
I tried the AI profile writer, didn't like the results at all. Read like it was computer generated rather than a human being writing their profile. Not sure what the benefit is of having AI write a profile, is it to save time? Does anyone…
From Couch To Fit, what worked for you
in Fitness ·
For me it's triathalon training and biohacking. I'm a gear junkie and have more body analysis equipment than most people and pro training facilities. I'm body & mind centric 24/7. Been this way for as long as I can remember, probably over…
Cycling
in Fitness ·
I do triathalons. Own several bikes, my favorite is a 2025 Cervelo Red AXS 1. Usually buy a new one every year, sometimes every second year. My bikes are in a rotation, new one in, old one out
How many pages of blocked members do you have?
in New Forums ·
Without counting I have a lot blocked. Couples can be as bad as single guys. I'm always amazed at the number of guys that contact me that have a couple profile, the male half contacts me saying he would like to meet without his partner. Wh…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
[quote=Webmaster][quote=Single_again1960]Thanks, now I understand what you meant. Problem with people showing real up-to-date pictures is you have to rely on the couple/person being honest when they say the pics are recent (and we all know…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
Thanks, now I understand what you meant. Problem with people showing real up-to-date pictures is you have to rely on the couple/person being honest when they say the pics are recent (and we all know everyone on the internet is honest). Ove…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
[quote=RonKathy]Nope dont like that one.. we live way too much in the now META world.[/quote]You got me, I'm stumped, maybe I'm showing my age....can you explain what that means and how it applies here? I looked up "now META world" and it…
Dark Mode
in Swing.com ·
I didn't see this mentioned anywhere so thought i'd throw it out there.....add a dark mode. Dark mode is eary to read and less strainful on the eyes. Maybe a button to switch between light & dark, seems to be the way most everything is goi…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
I've seen profiles on other sites that ask the person to select their body type. There's usually a selection like, slim, average, athletic, overweight ect... From reading how most people describe their body type, then looking at their pic,…
Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club
in BDSM ·
My Dungeon deals with the more extreme forms of BDSM which includes heavy metal bondage, sensory deprivation, electro, breath control, suspension & military style interrogation to name a few. I never allow drugs, alcohol or smoking anythin…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
What I do when a couple or single expresses interest is to ask for a full body picture, clothed is okay, of them holding a piece of paper with my name on it or something that shows the current date. I send them the same. Seems to be the mo…
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
Wouldn't something like this be dependant on the person/couple being honest? Everybody sees themself differently. Heck, it's hard enough getting honestly recent pictures
VPN
in Swing.com ·
I'm a strong computer security advocate. Personally I think it's next to impossible to protect people from being stupid and being scammed, spammed, extorted or anything else. The majority of people don't care about security, they just want…
Who Viewed Me side by side beta and current site
in Swing.com ·
I've noticed the same thing. It doesn't seem to be sort related. Some people who view me on the old site don't show up at all on the new site and vise versa
2FA or Time Based Security Code
in Swing.com ·
Great! Hope it gets implemented
BDSM without humiliation
in BDSM ·
Humiliation can be a part of play but it's something that has to be agreed upon beforehand....some people like it, other's don't. It's just like any other form of play and everyone has to be comfortable with it
Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club
in BDSM ·
In my Dungeon I rarely have sex with anyone unless we both agree to it beforehand. I try to keep sex and Dungeon play seperate
Rope play
in BDSM ·
I tried rope several times over the years but could never get into it. No idea why, just a personal preference. Seemed like a lot of work for little gain. My preference is extreme heavy chain, heavy metal restraints, electro & black leathe…
Submissive or Dominate
in BDSM ·
Dom. Tried switching over the years but never enjoyed it, now I stick with what I enjoy and am good at
2FA or Time Based Security Code
in Swing.com ·
I'd like to see either 2FA (2 Factor Authentication) or a time based security code (Google Authenticator or similar) for login
FetLife vs SLS
in BDSM ·
I'm on FL as AnimalAsteroid. FL & SLS are geared towards different audiences with minor overlap. Had an account there since the beginning. Got involved in a relationship and deleted my account, relationship went belly up and I regretted de…
Who is into erotic electrastim?
in BDSM ·
Estim/electro play is a lot of fun. I have several power boxes, an X1 Interrogator, MK-312BT's, DG Labs Coyote 3, ET302R's, ET312's & probably a couple more I can't remember the names of. All fun. Since getting the X1 I hardly ever use any…
Coronavirus Covid-19
in Open Forum ·
6z....I don't understand your post A_A
Coronavirus Covid-19
in Open Forum ·
mayhem.....bravo! A_A
Coronavirus Covid-19
in Open Forum ·
While not extremely worried about it, I am being cautious. I have a personal Dungeon and have closed it for the immediate future. The way I look at it the Dungeon would be a great place to harbor the virus plus I like getting up close and…