Same for me! My wife says I should have no expectation of any kind of sex when she is with another guy and therefore my dick stays locked!
Cock cages
I am always caged when ever she is with a lover/Bull.
Have limited experience. Full on use with a list of submissive control. Her lover with the big cock. She had me displayed, collar, nipple clamps , penis gag, cock Gage, and a but plug with pink ribbon tied to plug. I was severally humiliated and turned on. After i had delivered drinks and snacks. put in a corner, hands tied behind my back. My cock wanted to get hard but could not. For almost an hour they played and fucked till he took her from behind.She enjoyed the Gage,far more than i. She says my cock is useless in the cage . When her lover is here its useless anyway.