Anyone ever been to a swing/BDSM/kink club
join the group "BDSM + Swing = More Fun. It may help you find kinky swingers in your area. Search by Distance.
Jason685
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BDSM who is looking for it
You are already members of the group bdsm + swing = more fun. Check out group members near you. You can also find bdsm events in your area. These are great no pressure events that can lead to others in your area. thebdsmeventspage dot com/…
Just got feet wet, want more
If you can afford it there is a great rope shibari event in Chicago in May. Search Rope Craft 2022
FetLife vs SLS
SLS is a swinger site. Sexy play with others is the theme. Some swingers also like some bdsm thrown in, but usually designed as part of the sex play. Fet is for kinky people many into bdsm and it's many forms of kink. Sex is not always the…
New to BDSM
Take a look at KinkAcademy dot com. This is a powerful educational resource with over 2000 videos on most common kink topics. These are class like videos taught by some of the most respected bdsm educators. I have attended many live classe…
Need a good quality flogger
Whispers of Fire on Etsy. I know the people who make these. They are high quality and will do the job. They have a lot of variety.
choking
A safe way to control breath is with your hand over the mouth and pinching the nose between your thumb and forefinger. When they begin to struggle for breath you can give them little bits of air as needed. I use throat play for sensation a…
BDSM without humiliation
bdsm can be whatever two people enjoy. Do what you like. Don't do what you don't like. Experiment because you may find you actually enjoy something in a bdsm context that you don't enjoy in public life. Nothing is required except Dominatio…
Learning to be a good Dom
A great place to learn from bdsm experts is KinkAcademy dot c**. Their purpose is to teach safe bdsm techniques. It's a paid site but very helpful for beginners.
Share BDSM podcasts, books, websites, other resources
Books Fiction: Sleeping Beauty Series by Anne Rice Marketplace Series by Laura Antoniou Books Educational - BDSM Related Screw the Roses and Send me the Thorns SM 101 Books - Rope Bondage Two Knotty Boys (2-books) Shibari Bondage by Midori…
Dom sub couple with a baby girl.
Fetlife may be a better place to look.
Favorite Quotes
It's not what we don't know that bothers me. It's what we think we know that ain't so. Source unknown
Where are the older swingers
We are an older couple. We go to the Secrets Hotel Party in Shawano Wi like Scandal. So there are two couples here in NE Wisconsin. There are others as well. We also teach bdsm and rope bondage if the 50 Shades of Grey appeals to you. We h…