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Dear_diaryRegular
Elgin, SC, Us

I love being called a slut in and out of the bed. I have a shirt that says I’m a slut in big red letters and underneath it says ask your husband. I love being treated like a slut and considerate to be an honor. Had a license plate on a car. “ u4tuls”. It was recalled when they finally figured it out. it reads “slut4u” in the mirror. I kept both of the plates and told them somebody took them off the car. ??

Mountain, WI, Us

Hello Anyone know Sign Language or hard of hearing here?

SLOtownerVeteran
San Luis Obispo, CA, Us

I do not like the term, “slut” in most cases.

I see it as being a negative, degrading, humiliating, etc. term, virtually always applied sexually, to women. These are all things that I do not embrace in relationships I have with women.

Outside of that, I believe that the term does have a good use in describing many men and women.......certain worthless, pissant, rat-fuck sob’s whose filthy presence pollutes public, private, and especially, political life amongst us.

SLO

Carlisle, PA, Us

It's about 50/50 with the females we play with, and that is owing to the pools we play in (both kink and swing). Kinksters who also swing tend to like degradation and nastier stuff while swingers only are more ambivalent if not opposed.

The hubby does like a girl he can abuse a bit.

Leesburg, VA, Us

Mrs. OHC enjoys me calling her a 'cumslut' after she comes home from one of her dates (_)/////D~

Bartlett, TN, Us

I'm with Bird - that language does not come naturally to me especially in sexual situations and lord help a new partner who uses the S or W word. However, I have been known to freely drop the F-bomb when I am very near the top of the mountain. I am woman hear me roar.

Bird69tooMember
Dana Point, CA, Us

I, for one, have trouble using coarse language during sex, even if my partner enjoys that sort of thing. With all the kinky sexual stuff I’m into, you’d think talking dirty to my partner would be a no brainer, but for whatever reason, it just isn’t natural for me. Go figure!

Maryville, TN, Us

I, being a bi male, have been called a slut before, during and after play with men and it actually turned me on and I got even more into serving and servicing with more energy- so it’s a turn on for me but I guess I could see where it might turn some women off, each to their own of course

Maryville, TN, Us

I, bring a bi male, have been called a slut before, during and after play with men and it actually turned me on and I got even more into serving and servicing with more energy- so it’s a turn on for me but I guess I could see where it might turn some women off, each to their own of course

Parkville, MD, Usa

Britney loves to be called "slut", "whore", "bitch", and the C-word ... totally gets her off abd doesnt matter who says it and I am fine with others calling her that.

But I always find out from others what they like and dont like beforehand. For example, one playmate ofmine hates "whore" but loves "slut" ... its all about communication beforehand. I would never call somebodya name like that without asking first

num1scampRegular
Warren, MI, Us

I know many view it as a pejorative term. If used to mean a women who has many sexual partners and enjoys it, I do qualify as one. I enjoy it, and when in the company of other then vanilla people am not upset with the term and readily admit to being a slut. I don't mind if when engaged in sex if men use the term referring to me. I enjoy at times being very slutty and naughty, it turns me on. My husband certainly doesn't mind it. He enjoys me being uninhibited. Yes a man who has many partners is called a stud, A woman a slut. Well this lady knows well how men enjoy a lady on their arm and a slut in their bed!

Phoenix, AZ, Us

I might call myself a slut. You may not, except in very narrow circumstances available only to someone I know very well.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

“Slut” is seldom used by either my wife or myself. It’s never used casually. I don’t feel comfortable using it with a stranger, and I don’t tolerate a strange man using that term with my wife.

For us, it’s most often used as she’s approaching orgasm, and I’ll whisper it in her ear, which pushes her closer to release, especially if our fantasy talk had been centered around the idea of her being available to multiple men. She likes the idea of being inhibited enough to be “my slut” or “my little wifey slut”.

HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th

That really depends on the lady. Some wear the term as a badge of honor or see it as dominant label. Others see it as demeaning and as a negative or submissive label. However, I think it just might depend on what mood someone is in. The key, as with any d/s relationship, is communicating well before setting up every scene.
Now, it does appear many men see this as term for them to use in a dominant fashion. This is especially true for those who watch too much porn or read short stories.

Torrance, CA, Us

Hi fellow Swingers and Kinksters<
I'm curious what people think about the word 'slut?'
For the women do you identify with the word? Is it something you like to be called a slut? Why?
Men do you enjoy calling your girl/stranger a slut? Why?

I'm going to share my thoughts later so as not to predigest....
Thank you xoxo V